Girls get judged harder because everybody in there mind has this picture of the perfect girl in their mind that they think we as girls should live up to be. But we cant so we do things that make us seem like the perfect girl and it gets use judged harder than guys. People can judge me how ever they want they can have this picture in there mind of the perfect girl they will never find her.However when they judge me the would think I ams slut because all my friends are guys and only like three are girls. so that gets me judged a lot and it hurts to know that as I girl can 't have friends that are guys because it would judge us as certain things that are not what most of us want to be judged as.Another thing I get judge for is not …show more content…
Its sad because once you get two now me I am not what you first met me as.But no one would care about that because they still have that perfect image of the perfect girl that they want every girl to live up to but there is no way that we can because it is not how we see ourselves. How I see myself is athletic kinda nerdy and very very shy there is really no other way I see myself but I am glad that I don 't see myself as other people see me it is hard to stick to the way I see myself because people try so hard to change me.But I do it because I now it is what I have to do.People see me as shy nerdy and a goody goody but I don 't mind that because I know they are not all true. What I learned about myself from this project is I am judged by things I do not by how I act.What I also learned is that even tho it may seem Like I don 't judge people I do tho and there is no way to change that.What I learned from about other people is that they will judge no matter what you look like or whether or not you are friends with them or not they will still judge you.And I also learned is that everyone judges and there is no way to change that.the world is a place where we judge and there is nothing we can do
According to Heilbroner, “They classify the infinite variety of human beings into a convenient handful of ‘types’ towards whom we learn to act in stereotyped fashion” (2). A lot of adolescents are put into small groups. In high school there are many of those such as the “nerds” or “popular”, everyone is labeled into a group but usually not everyone accepts it. Being labeled into a group says a lot of things, those labeled groups are either picked on or made fun of and it is hard to ignore easily. In fact, Heilbroner did state, “Often we do not even know that we have let a stereotype lapse until we hear someone saying, ‘all so-and-so’s are like such-and-such,’ and we hear ourselves saying, ‘Well maybe.’
All humans fear judgement. The nature of some people also makes it impossible to live freely, as they can be oppressive. When we are in an environment with those we fear will judge us, we put our mask back on, and make an effort to keep it on. The goal is to meet the incredibly unreasonable standards of society, and anything below is unacceptable. If one were to meet the standards, they would be, put simply, not human.
Now I know not to judge people based off of appearance. Some people have judged me based off of appearance before. The person saying it had no idea of what I was really like. For instance, I heard someone saying that I was rude and annoying. I had never talked to her before.
I have met various amounts of people, who all have different views on my “flaws” and my “imperfections.” In my experience, people tend to prefer traits that they themselves have. This is why I do not
“What goes around, comes around”, an old saying that many of us may have found to be true. The short story “The Wisdom of Eve”, written by Mary Orr is an unraveling tale about an aspiring actress who manipulates her way into the theatre business only to gain a short fifteen minutes of fame. Eve did not only hurt the first person who believed in her dream, but someone who believed she was worthy of a second chance after she made a mistake as well. Eve’s plan was so detailed it could be considered a masterpiece (Orr 290). This short story proves that manipulation not only shows the morality of the person lying, it also gives insight to the way people try to view others.
But people were still accepting of me which I was surprised from where I was raised because almost anyone who was different would have ridiculed. So, the life lesson was to be not afraid of what people think about
My character traits help me to gain the trust and respect of my peers as they believe me to be extremely creative and a dependable person. I have great problem-solving skills; I tend to think outside the box and I have
This is where the question of “Do I like who I am?” comes into play. Self-esteem, more so than the other major components of self, weighs heavily on how one interacts with others. For instance, if an individual is insecure about their uneven teeth because they are viewed as an imperfection, one may be less likely to willingly interact with others in fear of judgment. This lessens the amount of friendships made and overall lessens one’s confidence. On the other hand, if one is secure of who they are, it is evident in the way one communicates and their good feelings associated with life in
Society today is really judgemental. If you don’t wear the right clothes or have the right car then you will get judged. It’s kinda like in the book The Crucible if you weren't a puritan then you were an outcast or you might have been a witch. One of the puritan girls Abigail Williams blamed a lot of women who were called puritans and lived the puritan way. In this case people just judged them without looking into far more research.
Now, Stereotyping is a common thing in everyday life. So, it does make people look differently and badly at the world. Also, when people judge others it makes them feel more empowered and better. Judging,criticizing,talking bad about,making fun of, and disrespecting all people is stereotyping. People are getting judged by the way they look and who they are.
Mean Girls: implicit and explicit social norms, conformity, obedience Cady Heron’s life changed dramatically when she moved to a suburban area in Illinois, after living in Africa and being homeschooled her whole life. She started at North Shore High and quickly got sucked into the stereotypical girl drama. Prior to the drama, Cady met two of her best friends Damian and Janis, who were apart of the out-caste clique.
If a woman has no particular hairstyle, it is perceived that she does not care about the way she looks. If a women wears tight or revealing clothing, it is perceived that she wants to be seen as attractive. Discrimination in society has become so common that people make opinions on others without being aware of
In all, others could have their ideas of who you are based on what you own, but at the end of the day, it will always be
“Ex boyfriends are just like off limits to friends. I mean that’s just like the rule of feminism” (15:15). This famous saying said by Gretchen Wieners from Mean girls is widely known and most of the time ridiculed by people. Mean Girls is a movie that portrays the stereotypical American high school life. The movie has a main focus on the girls of high school, rather then on the boys.
As I mentioned earlier character traits shape you as a person so always make sure you have more positive than negative traits. After reading the short story Charles, written by Shirley Jackson, it’s clear to me that Charles posseted the traits, Obnoxious, dangerous, and disrespectful with no doubt. In addition, I will try to recreate myself and work on all my negative traits as it reflects on who you are and how your family might