Imagine if your best friend asks you does this shirt look good and you say yes but you think it’s ugly. We lie everyday even the people who say lying is unacceptable. Some of us can’t live without lying. So I firmly believe that lying is acceptable. Lying is justified when it can be used to protect and care for others. For example “Anne Frank survived as long as she did because those sheltering her and her family lied to the Nazis”. 1 If the people sheltering Anne and her family didn’t lie to the Nazis they probably would’ve torchered Anne Frank, her family, and the people sheltering them. They were hiding Anne Frank and her family because the nazis killed anybody and they torchered them. They hid them so the nazis wouldn’t do those things to them. In addition, “Harold Smith a pioneer in California lied to his adult daughter about his health when he was undergoing treatment for a kidney tumor because she might have got traumatized”.3 If Harold didn’t lie to his daughter she might have got …show more content…
“A third said it was okay to lie about being sick, cheating on taxes, or to a spouse about an extramarital affair” said NBC news.3 Lying to your boss and calling in sick can lead to life processing smooth because you of had a bad day at work and yelled at the customer and got fired. Lying to a spouse about an extramarital affair and that leads life to progress smoothly because they might believe you and you might have got in a fight with them. “Yes, but we should manipulate the truth.” said Brad Blanton.5 If you were hiding Anne Frank and her family in your house because their life's in danger and it’s up to you to protect them. You would have to lie if Anne is hiding in your attic so her and her family don’t die and since you lied you wouldn’t have to worry about the nazis going to your house. So lying is an acceptable form of communication as it allows life to progress
In Brad Blanton: Honestly, Tell the Truth, an article by Barbara Ballinger, Ballinger shares Blanton’s opinion about telling the truth, “Delivering the truth is easier, takes less time, and is less stressful,” (para 3) Blanton believes that delivering the truth is much easier, then to lie, but Blanton also believes that lies are acceptable in some circumstances. Ballinger supports Blanton’s ideas by stating that lies hurts relationships and is very stressful, and Blanton also believes that lies are needed in rare and dangerous situations such as Anne Frank's life. Ballinger addresses Brad Blanton’s opinion about lying in, which he believes that telling the truth is the easier and healthier option, he also believes that lies are justified in
Lying is an activity that occurs extremely frequently in the book The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn. Some people lie purposes deemed bad that are selfish and only benefit themselves. Others lie for reasons deemed good. Despite all the reasons that people may have for lying or misleading others, are all cases of lying wrong?
People often find themselves in circumstances or situations that they have to lie. Individuals deceive each other for several reasons such as because the truth may cause pain or deceive another into believing a false statement or even lie simply because what they do best is deception. Indeed, deception can occur in several ways. An obvious choice of deception is telling an outright lie, it can also be by circumventing the truth, or disguise the truth, overstate the truth, or even casting doubt at the truth (Hippel and Trivers, 2015). It appears that deception is a way of individuals avoiding unpleasant truths about themselves or in people’s interpersonal relationships.
Lying can be someone’s safe haven but also their downfall. Within different circumstances, I see no harm in telling lies that benefit you in a way, but if someone is causing harm to another, I do not support lying at any instinct. If a person chooses to lie that is up to them but there is always another lie to cover up the one they just
Telling lies is reasonable during cases where an individual needs to
Justin Luna Eng 90 September 25, 2015 Have you ever wondered why we lie? Is it to make ourselves look good or is it because it's too embarrassing to tell the truth? I believe everyone lies in one way or another and that not all lies are intentionally told to cause harm. In fact, lying sometimes might be the best approach when it comes to protecting our privacy and ourselves. The story I have chosen is Stephanie Ericsson’s The Ways We Lie, and it covers the different ways that we lie to each other and why we do it.
Too many people like yourself that may not even be a part of the lie, unintentionally end up affected by it. Liars are everywhere, and in my mind, communication is the best defense against them. Leadership should always be looking out for them as they eventually cause serious fallout with their
Throughout life, we sometimes don't take the time to think about what comes out of our mouth. We feel the need to tell a falsehood to make ourselves look better or feel better. After all, we don't want to accept the harsh truth of reality that is lives are not perfect. Sometimes we even forget why we're even lying at all. However, we are not alone as human begins it's in our nature to lie.
Lying is okay when... I maintain you shouldn't believe what you hear from other people. For example in the article Tell the truth by brad blonton n states that blanton is that never like trust people unless you know them well and he saying that he is in article about telling the truth. Lying is always around people and brad says you don't know if it wrong or right.
Lying has not been formally considered morally wrong or right regardless of the severity. Although it’s near impossible to go through a whole day without even stretching the truth once and decide which types of lies are okay or not. Stephanie Ericsson uses strong metaphors and personal experiences in “The Ways We Lie” to justify the use of our everyday lying. This unbiased essay will help readers decide whether it’s okay to lie on a daily basis. Ericsson starts out with saying she told the bank that her deposit was in the mail even though she hadn't written out the check (495).
Stephanie Ericsson begins her explorative essay, “The Ways We Lie,” with a personal anecdote of all the lies she fabricated in one day. She told her bank that a deposit was in the mail when it was not, told a client that the traffic had been bad when she was late for other reasons, told her partner that her day was fine when it was really exhausting, and told her friend she was too busy for lunch when she just was not hungry, all in the course of a day. She shifts from talking about herself to talking about everyone, claiming that all people lie, exaggerate, minimize, keep secrets, and tell other lies. But, like herself, most still consider themselves honest people. She describes a week in which she tried to never tell a lie; it was debilitating, she claims.
In the Ted Talk “How to Spot a Liar” By Pamela Meyer, She spoke about the tells of a liar and why people lie. Meyers had two truths, Truth #1 lying is a cooperative act. The lie has no power until the receiver believes the lie. Everyone who has been lied to has agreed to be lied too, for example when a lady asks her husband if she looks fat in a certain clothing item. Both he
For instance, “It’s the Truth: Americans Conflicted About Lying” states, “In the AP-Ipsos Poll, 65 percent of those questioned said it was sometimes OK to lie to avoid hurting someone’s feelings....” (NBC, para 7). This shows that when a lie is said to refrain from injuring someone’s feelings, the lie is completely justified. Also, the lie was told in order to protect someone rather than any selfish purposes. However, even lying to protect someone will eventually backfire on the liar.
Can dishonesty be valuable if it was used to achieve desirable outcomes? Is lying considered justified if it was involved in a dangerous situation? It is not always bad to lie. As children, we were continuously taught to be honest. We have grown to be implanted with the fact that lying is unacceptable but admissible.
Lies are mentioned for bountiful reasons; lies can be invaluable to others or used for a greedy, egoistical reason. No matter the motive, lies are frequently told everyday. Even in the concentration camps of World War II, there were no exceptions. In the novel Night, Elie Wiesel is caught naturally lying to mislead his relative, Stein even though Wiesel has a chance to tell the truth, he decides against it. Even though he lied, I believe that Wiesel's lie was morally right.