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Why Is Tal Como Somos Unethical

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Why is it difficult for many Latino families to accept homosexuality and the roles of women? Homosexuality could be seen as a wrong doing to many and a normal doing to others but why do many people believe that homosexuality is unethical? Are there reasons as to why it makes it an unethical behavior? In the documentary Tal Como Somos, it examines the lives of six Latino GBT (Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender) men and women. Which focuses on their relationships with their family, culture, religion, and professional lives. I’m pretty sure that at some point each of the six men and women were scared to tell their beloved ones about the truth of themselves. They had to do it at some point so they can feel some sort of relief but coming out might …show more content…

They couldn’t do anything about it because they are who they are and they can’t change the way they feel and act. According to this documentary, family is important to Latinos, and gays suffer a great amount when the family does not accept them. In the short story,” Only Daughter,” by Sandra Cisneros, she writes about how her dad had different expectations for her as a daughter. Being the only daughter in the family, made her father to believe that her destiny would lead her to become somebodies wife. He didn’t care that her daughter went to college to expand her knowledge because he thought that college was an opportunity to find her soul mate but he was wrong. After completing six years in college and still no husband, her father felt that she wasted all that education for nothing. Why is it that he feels that finding a husband is the role of a women should be? Shouldn’t it be more important for Cisneros to do something she loves and gains knowledge off of it than finding a partner? Many Latino families have difficulties with the roles of women and acceptance of homosexuality because of patriarchy, sexism, religious beliefs, and …show more content…

It also has different ideas how machismo impacts gay Latinos in the U.S. According to Albert Serna,” Being a queer man, it was a very big struggle to balance my queer identity with this standard of masculinity that was placed on me since birth,” and he believes that a lot of other queer Latino men experience it as well. So he believes it is difficult to come out as gay when people think you are machismo. In the short story, “Only Daughter,” Cisneros is suppressing any signs of femininity when coming to finding a husband. He wanted her to be looked as a possession. Like a possession of their father, husband, and even her brothers. He felt that in order for her to benefit from social and economic advantages she would have to marry someone and that is considered

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