For me what’s great about not living a single life is that you don’t feel lonely at times because there’s always someone there to support you. The married life tend to make me feel nervous about my future. Like having to deal with anything that can possibly lead to arguments and problems. After reading the article, More People Are Single, and That's a Good Thing | Opinion by DePaulo, Bella and from doing my research I now quite understand why most people chose the single life. I do have to agree with the article that no matter what their “living together apart” lifestyle is, they still seem to be doing fine on their own.
The unmarried man is anxious about the things of the Lord, how to please the Lord. But the married man is anxious about worldly things, how to please his wife. There are several benefits to getting married and starting a family. John Shore wrote in his article titled Why Marry? that the decision to marry is ultimately a choice to either spend you life alone, or spend it with another person.
The generation has been changed, and now making their own families is not necessary for but optional for the younger generation. They do want to get married without their lives being disrupted or they do not even want to get married in the future. One of the most common reason that people are not willing to get married is because they have not found the right people to get married yet; they have too many expectation for their spouses. Compare to the time before 1960s, economy has been grown, and, people’s lives are a lot more convenience than before. Therefore, even though people are willing to get married in the future, they do not want their convenience lives to get disrupted by getting married.
Married men earn more than single men (nearly twice as much) and married women have access to more of men’s earnings than if they are single or cohabiting. This may be explained by the increased financial responsibility men feel when they marry many men have been heard to say, “Marriage made me get more serious about my career and making a good living.” 6. Live-in relationship generally does not reap the physical health benefits enjoyed by married couples. Non-married people feel less healthy and have higher rates of mortality than the married. Compared to singles, married people as a group are also emotionally happier.
“Do What you Love” is a bad choice Almost every high school and college student is told to do what they love when they are older because they will be happier. Not all of that is true. If you do what you love, you might be happy while at work, but if you aren’t getting paid enough, then you may not be the happiest. You may not have nice clothes, a nice house, or any healthy food. While those things may not be necessities in a person's life they do bring people comfort and happiness as well.
And you can’t have an unhealthy relationship. So do what makes you happy. No one can control your life but you. Sometimes you’ve got to emotionally let go of the things that once meant a lot to you, so you can move beyond the past and the pains they bring you, and open the next chapter in your
Being single in our society or having a sort of non-formal relationship such as a marriage has become very common and normal nowadays. For some people instead of having a destructive or catastrophic marriage, they decide to live in peace and without any interruptions since modern life nowadays is unpredictable and no one really knows what could happen tomorrow or the day after. But imagine a scenario in which you decide to stay single and you have decided to live without any obligations; you just want to enjoy your life or maybe just focus on being a professional in a certain type of career. However, years later, you decide that eventually your perfect and single life ultimately has become sort of boring, so you think about it and eventually, you weigh the options and decide that you want to have a child. You start searching up for adoption agencies and while you are doing this, you start shopping for the child’s clothes, furniture, etc.
There are many factors that contribute to the reason certain teenagers not only become, but choose to be pregnant, regardless of opposing circumstances. These factors have much to do with the fact that times are continuously changing and so are people and their decisions. Teenage pregnancies have been reported to be on the decline, and abortion rates are even lower. These young females worldwide may all be different, but the reasons for why they choose to be pregnant are very similar. Teen pregnancy is one of today’s major concerns and there are many diverse theories as to why these girls want to become mothers.
According to Kamp Dush’s studies of couples considering cohabitation, they believed marrying less beneficial (Dush, 2009) Marriage can be favorable for a child’s social development and self-esteem instead of have parents that just live together or used to. Though these days, young people have an inclination to test marriage through living together before tidying the knot. As Crouter said “The No. 1 reason couples say they live together is to learn more about their potential marriage partner” (Crouter, 2002) Because Parenthood can fail in a undetermined moment, testing partners results in a good alternative when planning to form a family. Whereas they are nor married, parting ways is not a big deal.
Being a successful person will help you to know more new friends which will help you to think more widely. Saving money might save you from many serious. Many people are facing problems almost each day of their life, these problems might only be solved with money, so you will be very thankful that you saved money. Saving money doesn’t necessary needs an adult person gets a high salary. The young people also can save money each moth even it does not worth it but one day it will be a high amount of money.