5 causes of divorce that you must avoid from the start Marriages are always changing and never stay the same. They either develop and bloom to their full potential or fade out and eventually fail. To make a marriage strong requires continuous efforts from both partners. If you are having difficulties in your marriage and are feeling dissatisfied, unhappy or are perhaps on the brink of divorce, I will try to assist you in finding the best solution to your marital problems. But for this exercise to be successful, you’ll need to assess honestly the reasons why the marriage is not working.
In many Arab countries the problem of early marriage still exists. It’s important to understand that early marriage has serious problems that can lead to social failure and destruction of the main family role in society, it can also lead to unsuccessful marriage and divorce could happen as a result of lack of maturity, family formation, incomplete independence, and dealing with
Marry for Love What are the causes and effects of arranged marriage? By Kawsar Dahaby Nagham Jaber English 203-Section 26 8 October 2016 Kawsar Dahaby Instructor: Nagham Jaber English 203-Section 26 8 October 2016 Informative Essay’s Outline Thesis statement: Arranged marriage, caused by socio-cultural and socio-economic factors, lead to lower divorce rates and to violence. I- There are many factors that cause arranged marriage including cultural and socio-economic. A- In some cultures, marriage is a social act and a family matter. 1- The choice of a partner is one of the parents’ duties.
The marriage is never the couples decision. The family makes the decision for them. The couple should be able to make their own choices. In many cases the couple rarely knows each other before their marriage. This could result in the couple being unhappy.
The generation has been changed, and now making their own families is not necessary for but optional for the younger generation. They do want to get married without their lives being disrupted or they do not even want to get married in the future. One of the most common reason that people are not willing to get married is because they have not found the right people to get married yet; they have too many expectation for their spouses. Compare to the time before 1960s, economy has been grown, and, people’s lives are a lot more convenience than before. Therefore, even though people are willing to get married in the future, they do not want their convenience lives to get disrupted by getting married.
Therefore, young adults considering marriage should be aware and fully understand what the leading causes of high divorce rates are. Infidelity is one of the many reasons a marriage starts to deteriorate and eventually ends in a divorce. Even though being unfaithful affects the marriage in numerous ways one of the two or even both decide to proceed with it either way. “Infidelity often begins as a seemingly innocent friendship, says cheating expert Ruth Houston. It starts as an emotional affair which later becomes a physical affair” (Warren).
Arranged Marriages Marriage is the union of 2 people, it is the beginning of a lifelong commitment. Choosing a wife or husband may be one of the most important chooses in a persons life, so wouldn't you want to be the one to choose who you're stuck with for the rest of your life? There are many reasons why I am against arranged marriages. 3 reasons for this is that there is no trust, it could be forced, & you don't really know the person. First of all there is no trust in an arranged marriage.
Notice changes in eating habits or sleeping patterns or if they have a diminished interest in people or the activities they used to love. Encourage your teen to talk about her feelings regard the divorce and be prepared for questioning, criticism and maybe your teen’s might be disappointment in you. After divorce you notice your teen withdrawing from the family, having difficulty concentrating or engaging in high risk behaviours, seek for professional help immediately. Don’t wait until they make a choice that will affect them for the rest of their lives. http://www.patheos.com/blogs/e2medianetwork/2014/08/how-divorce-impacts-teenagers-13-18-years-old/ in conclusion From the point of view of children, divorce is a stressful experience because of the disruption of the home and its financial, emotional, and social costs.
One of the major causes of the prevalence of child marriage is culture, which is a sensitive topic because of the diversity of opinions regarding this topic. Conservatives often justify child marriage by stating that it is accepted in Islamic Law. The girl is deemed legible to marry once she reaches maturity. The child is said to have reached maturity when she goes through puberty by experiencing menstruation. However, some girls experience menstruation earlier than others.
The liberation of women has not been completely realized and a number of men still jealously guard their rights and so does some cultural beliefs that still judges women as an economic burden which then cause the contribution and demands of women have been degraded and ignored. Since the complexity of this problem, child marriage’s practice cannot be stopped at once. Education is probably what these societies need the most because of being educated people can start to rethink that how these cultural beliefs work should be reconstructed and people should be helped to see the equality of women and men in a better insight and start to reconsider the impacts the youth will get by the child marriage and how unready these children to become a mother either physically or mentally. Government should be stricter to make an end for this worldwide problem at least to delay other child marriage’s practices whereas for those underage children who have coped in wedlock should be protected by us, we should support the government by keeping track on how these children in their new family are being treated. Certainly, if we ever found these children frequently being treated badly, we should report it to the authorities soon.