Lolita: The Glamorization of Obsessive Love “Lolita, light of my life, fire of my loins...Ladies and gentlemen of the jury, exhibit number one is what the seraphs, the misinformed, simple, noble-winged seraphs, envied. Look at this tangle of thorns.” (Nabokov 1). So begins the infamous and deeply sorrowing novel “Lolita” by Vladimir Nabokov, a Russian - American novelist and entomologist. Regarded as one of the most controversial novels of the 20th century, it tells the story of Humbert Humbert
The Aeneid:Virgil’s Representation of Obsessive Love It is said that love is one of the most influential feelings in the human body. This feeling of love can be pleasant and enjoyable, but it can also be blinding. When taken to the extreme, the power of love may result in substantial destruction of the individual. Book IV of Virgil’s epic tale The Aeneid tells of Queen Dido and her obsessive love. The love for her spouse, Aeneas, blinds her of rational thinking. Through the tale of Queen Dido
underestimate the power of obsessive love.” Obsessive love is described as a hypothetical state, in which one person feels an overwhelming desire to possess another person who they feel a strong attraction to. Where obsessive love is prevalent, the infatuation in a normal relationship is persistent throughout an obsessive relationship. Where healthy love would normally mature over the years to include commitment, friendship and a solid respect for the partner, obsessive love tends to entail the complete
What is Love? Obsessive love can be issued as stalking or overwhelming texts to situations as serious as homicidal or suicidal thoughts or actions; however, obsessive love is not love at all as psychotherapist Susan Forward puts it. Yet, on the other hand, many psychologists such as Freud believe that environmental factors cause a neurological disability that makes one convinced that he or she is truly in love with the victim; for example, people who have had rejecting parents or problems with
by F. Scott Fitzgerald, readers learn that an obsessive love for someone can ruin one's life. Love persuaded multiple characters into ruining their lives for someone they loved. Gatsby decided to move near Daisy, he threw parties anticipating that Daisy would appear at one, he took the blame for murdering someone Daisy murdered, and both Wilson and Gatsby had their life end due to love. It was not just a casual love they had but it was an obsessive love that ultimately failed them. After Nick had lunch
True love is hard to understand, it is filled with various types of emotions that can potentially impact one's overall perception of love. It is difficult to fully pinpoint what love truly is, but finding out what isn't love is even harder. In the novel, The Great Gatsby by F. Scott Fitzgerald, the author introduces the concept of obsessive love through Jay Gatsby and Daisy Buchanan. Gatsby is a wealthy man trying to take back his past lover who is now married, through not only his money but through
Obsessive would describe some people in A Midsummer Night’s Dream by William Shakespeare. Those people show how when there is lack of self-control, problems may arise. Helena, throughout the entire story, had always been very obsessive over Demetrius. Helena used to be Demetrius’s fiance but he left her to go after Hermia. She couldn’t accept the fact that he didn’t like her, and she would take any attention from him, even if that means being treated like a dog. Helena even asked him, “Used me
obsessions and not acting on the following compulsions is not easy. But associating those obsessions with things other than compulsive behaviors proves to be successful in reshaping OCD. ERP is the leading therapy to treat individuals who suffer from obsessive compulsive disorder. This being so, ERP is also something that a lot of people are reluctant to try. The thoughts that enter a mind with OCD are never filtered and can be very disturbing at times. The idea of confronting those thoughts can be scary
referring to their love of a song or food. Perhaps you get a creepy feeling when you hear the word, because we know being obsessed with one specific thing or person can be alarming and unhealthy. Although it’s the way it’s most often used obsession does not always refer to being obsessed with a specific person or item. Personally, obsessive has been a way of life. I heard many comments about my obsessing over something, but for a long time I couldn’t honestly comprehend my obsessive tendencies. I never
In the film, obsessive-compulsive disorders is portrayed negatively at the onset of the film. The way Melvin behaved, the way that he would treat people would show the audience that having a mental disorder such as OCD is a bad thing. Towards the middle of the film and to the end of the film, Melvin has to take care of his neighbor’s dog, Verdell, this is when Melvin tries stop his repetitive locking of the door. He still got really anxious and continued to lock the door five times but he gave it
Baleigh Murrain Information and Diversity Speech 15 March 2017 Gail McCrady “Obsessive Compulsive Nervous Nelly” Specific Purpose: To inform my audience about obsessive compulsive disorder. Central Idea: Obsessive compulsive disorder is complex, it affects many individuals, and there are few treatments for it. Introduction Attention Getter: What do you do when you lay down in bed at night? You probably scroll through Twitter, Instagram, and spend about fifteen minutes clicking through
in the short stories The tell-tale heart and Berenice it is clearly apparent that both narrators suffer from a severe monomania, more specifically of facial attributes. In “Berenice” the narrator of this story, Egaeus, suffers from a type of obsessive disorder, a disease that makes him fixate on objects. His cousin Berenice in the beginning beautiful, but later suffers from some undetermined degenerative illness, with periods of catalepsy, that he calls trances. However, they are due to be
Their justification for this behavior is that they can use it at some point in time or that it is of emotional value. Along with inanimate objects, people may also hoard animals. The reason for hoarding animals is the persons search for love and belonging. Owning an animal puts any person in a nurturing position, the feeling of being needed and loved can be addicting for those who are emotionally unstable. A person’s unwillingness to part with items causes their home to become uninhabitable
This makes him tend to have aggressive thoughts and a complete obsession with order. His symptoms match up most with obsessive compulsive disorder, or OCD. From the National Institute of Mental Health’s website: “Common symptoms include... aggressive thoughts towards others or self, and having things symmetrical or in perfect order.” Simply glancing at these it is easy to
Analysis between “The Yellow Wallpaper” and Postpartum depression Charlotte Perkins Gilman used her own personal experience with postpartum depression to create the story “The Yellow Wallpaper”. Charlotte suffered from a severe and continuous nervous breakdown, she started seeing a specialist in nervous disorders, the best in the country. The doctor applied the rest cure and put Charlotte to bed, his advice to her was to “live as domestic life as possible”. He concluded that there
I learned that Obsessive compulsive disorder is often time consuming. People that have this disorder have to do things a certain way and a certain amount of times before they can go on about their day. It can affect a person life in so many different ways like as in the example that we read in class, the lady had to take four hours to do her get ready for bed night routine. Those four hours she could be sleeping, studying, or something that benefits her. There's some people that are consider about
many categories of mental disorders such as anxiety disorders, mood disorders, eating disorders, personality disorders, and many others. Obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) is an example of an anxiety disorder, whereas obsessive-compulsive personality disorder (OCPD) is an example of a personality disorder – however, these two are commonly confused. OCD Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) is an anxiety disorder defined by the presence of two characteristics:
I enjoyed watching the film “As Good As It Gets” and seeing Jack Nicholson portray the character Melvin, who is diagnosed with Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD). Melvin’s anxiety level is heightened, as a result of his OCD. Things that tend to increase his anxiety include having a dog or people in his apartment, sitting at another table with another waitress at his favorite restaurant, using the utensils provided by a restaurant, and stepping on cracks in sidewalks. Throughout the film, Melvin
OCD is defined as a mental disorder in which there are obsessive and compulsive thoughts. These obsessions are impulses which repeat uncontrollably, like a needle becoming stuck in an old record. Thoughts associated with the obsessions make little to no sense, and evoke feelings of doubt, fear, perfection, and/or organization (What is OCD? 2014, April 28). It is an anxiety disorder, where the unwanted thoughts are excessively repetitive, and the compulsions create ritualized behaviors. For example
Hoarding Around 5% of the world’s population struggle with compulsive hoarding. Hoarders want whatever they can put their hands on and will keep those items forever. Hoarders often look at their possessions as the most important thing in their lives. Hoarders want to buy new objects as often as they can. Hoarders feel the need to have as much as they can and have trouble throwing out those possessions. The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders explains that hoarding is the struggle