Family and Hierarchy in Kurdistan
As the origins of the word family is going back to the Latin word Familia meaning “servants of a household” or the slaves who belong to a man, the meaning of the word family may differ from a group of people to another. Apparently, hierarchy has always been one of the imperative aspects of family, and its type has changed according to the different cultural and educational backgrounds. Hence, the way that family and hierarchy function in the Kurdish communities will be examined within this research paper. Since there are two different definitions of family one of them which is common among the conservatives is a group of people who are arranged in a hierarchical structure in which the father or the oldest
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To specify, when the human binges started building states and getting away from the Paleolithic structure of life, and they started thinking about retaining property from a generation to another, hierarchical structure of life started to widespread around the world gradually hundreds of years ago. (Engels 9-11) As of this, human societies’ became hierarchical in most of the sectors, such as working sectors, ruling sectors, and family structure. This is characterized as the starting point of hierarchy within the …show more content…
Patriarchy is a concept which Oxford Dictionary defines as “a society, system or country that is ruled or controlled by men”(oxford) this definition basically explains the meaning that patriarchy is a system in which men are in power, but it does not necessarily need to be a country or city. It also applies to the families that are ruled by men, and females are the last ones who could be asked in the decision makings. As in the book (----------) Engels says that “the overthrow of mother right was the world-historic defeat of the female sex”(book) he basically implying that after the end of matrilineal, the rights of women and females were gone and controlled by the males. Additionally, Joseph divides patriarchy into different categories such as economical patriarchy and religious patriarchy (arab). Economical patriarchy means that in the families men are the ones who make money while women are seen as the secondary sources even if they work harder and gain more than the man. Religious patriarchy means children supposed to follow their father’s religion which teaches children to follow their fathers and obey them from their
Patriarchy in a system simply refers to males put in a higher position than females excluding them from being the head of the household and in many different governmental and leadership positions. This way of life proceeds to spill over into other areas of life, which allow men to believe they have the authority in all positons over women. Misogyny refers to the hatred of women, and the patriarchal system can easily lead to men hating women for various reasons. When one is in a system where the male already has authority and power, it could be easy to begin to view females as worthless individuals. In Sharon Lennon’s story, “What Is Mine,” she tells a story from her past about being mistreated by the baseball coach.
English Essay Q3 Texts used : The Altar of the Family and At Seventeen Traditionally, society views males as strong, aggressive, dominant and unemotional individuals while females play unimportant and demure roles within society. Sheila Morehead’s “At Seventeen” and Michael Wilding’s “The Altar of the Family” challenge this idea of masculinity and gender roles, “The Altar of the Family” especially does this as the protagonist of the short story is a young boy, David. David is constructed to challenge the stereotypes of masculinity and through this the author is able to push the message that being a man doesn’t mean you need to conform to these gender stereotypes and not conforming to the stereotypes doesn’t result in being a failure as a person.
For example, in the past, women are not allowed to work and study, they are only an object to help to do cleaning and give birth. Even nowadays some rural area still used women as an item of trading. In today’s world, most of the culture support patriarchy system. Patriarchy system is a hierarchy system political, cultural and economic structure are controlled by men. While the opposite is a matriarchy, a hierarchy system that women rules the world.
So, what is wrong with the patriarchy? Is it because men are at the head? In the poignantly titled book, “Is There Anything Good About Men: How Cultures Flourish by Exploiting Men” Braumeister states, “…The one-sided conventional view had its roots in the feminist critique of society as patriarchy…a conspiracy by men to exploit woman.” (Baumeister)
In “Family Structure: The Growing Importance of Class” from the Washington Monthly, Senior Fellow in Economic studies Isabel V. Sawhill makes a comparison and contrast between blacks and whites from the 1960s to today, describing how both white and black families have changed over time through the factors such as gender roles, single-parent families, race, and class. In the beginning of Sawhill’s essay, she shows the similarities between what happened to black Americans in the early 1960s and what is happening now to the white Americans and how it is not just race that affects family structure, but class as well. She then proceeds to explain how a job and education can affect a marriage. Jobs require higher level of education, which leave
Although I feel like families fit multiple theories at any given time, I agree most with the Family Systems Theory. This theory takes a look at the entire family and how it functions as a complete unit as opposed to the individuals. It takes a look at the interconnected relationships within the family unit and how they function together. This theory makes me think of an engine. When all parts of an engine are working properly the engine runs smoothly or purrs as a mechanic might say.
This paper is a rereading of Henry James’s The Bostonians in an attempt to answer the question ‘can woman be a patriarch?’ Or how far woman’s quest for being a patriarch is a success or failure. First of all, there must be a reference to the origin and meaning of patriarchy as well as its historical development. Patriarchy is a central concept that is prevalent in large parts of the world.
Growing up, I lived in a very traditional-style family structured home, where gender roles and gender socialization played key roles in the development of my sisters and me. According to the lecture, a traditional family is one where two individuals who are legally bound together by marriage, share responsibilities in taking care of their direct offspring, with the mother in charge of the house and children duties, and the father as the provider (Cohen 2018). While both of my parents do a little bit of everything when it comes to contributing, it has always been the standard for my sisters and I that my father was the one who would work all day, while my mother stayed home, engaging in the housework and taking care of my sisters and me. My
A patriarchy is a system where men dominate, and women are marginalized. The patriarchy can be traced to Aristotle’s writings in Ancient Greece, where he spoke of women as subordinates of men. Aristotle was also dependent on dualism (dividing reality into different spheres). In the case of men and women, men were seen as the rational and women, the emotional. These labels lead to sexist behavior and thus oppression of women, because they were seen as less than men.
Family Systems Theoretical Connections Within the family systems theory , it primarily is focused on the system and not the individual members. In the book Me, MySpace, and I: Parenting the Net Generation by author Larry D. Rosen, Rosen gives his view of the family systems theory. In the section “Family Systems Theory” the author explains that the system begins with the idea that the family is a whole, but realizes that it is more than the sum, of its parts. (Rosen, 2007)
Knowledge of a society is acquired through the understanding of its family structure as its cultural beliefs and values are heavily based around them. Family is above all, considered important when in comparison to the individual desires. It is said that family play an important role in an individuals life chances, determined through how well a family is presented for job or marriage candidates. (Imamura 1990) The Meji period implemented the patrilineal stem family system known as the ‘ie’ system which was where the eldest son had the right to receive the family inheritance and the other sons would have to leave the household.
Patriarchy is a system of society or government in which men hold the power and women are largely excluded from it. This influenced the life of almost all ancient civilizations because it was apart of the main infrastructure. For example, in the Gupta Empire, many Indian families had patriarchal influence, headed by the oldest male member. All family members worked together to condition their crops. Since drought was colloquial, they had to work closer together.
Bowen family systems theory is used for understanding both family emotional and relationship processes (Knauth, 2003). Kolbert, Crothers, and Field (2013) suggest that although there are few publications on Bowen family systems theory, it provides counsellors with a framework for clients, specifically with helping adolescents understand how their functioning and identity have been influenced by their family. Bowen’s differentiation of the self has been argued to be equivalent to identity, and an individual’s balance both togetherness and individuality within their family, family members are both borrowing and lending aspects of themselves between each other (Kolbert, Crothers, & Field, 2013). Bowen, (1978, p. 188) suggested that individuals
Women were expected to be domestic house wives who were supposed to be loyal and subservient to their husband. As you can see, in a relationship the male was more dominant than the female. Males are considered more dominant than females because they are ones who provide food and shelter for them women and fulfill their specific gender roles such as work at outside jobs. Since the Declaration of the Rights of Women and the Equal Rights Amendment, feminism has been established in the society presenting women to the same priveleage as men, thus reestablishing equality between the two genders in the
According to the famous sociologists Sylvia Walby, patriarchy is “a system of social structure and practices in which men dominate, oppress and exploit women”. Women’s exploitation is an age old cultural phenomenon of Indian society. The system of patriarchy finds its validity and sanction in our religious beliefs, whether it is Hindu, Muslim or any other religion. For instance, as per ancient Hindu law giver Manu, “Women are supposed to be in the custody of their father when they are children, they must be under the custody of their husband when married and under the custody of her son in old age or as widows.