Dude, You’re A Fag: Masculinity and Sexuality in High School Book Review
The novel Dude, You’re A Fag: Masculinity and Sexuality in High School by C.J. Pascoe revolves around the social construct of masculinity as shown in adolescents and teachers in the high school River High, where the author conducted roughly a year and a half of field work. Pascoe “ask[s] how heternomative and homophobic discourses, practices, and interactions in an American high school produce masculine identities.” (17) To examine these constructions, Pascoe focuses “on the gender and sexuality practices of students, teachers, and administrators, with an emphasis on school rituals.” (17) Using such approaches, Pascoe seeks to highlight the masculine identity by uncoupling
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This involves reviewing the high school’s gender and sexuality curriculum. Some policies included segregated colours for graduation robes based on biological gender and abstinence. How teachers and administrators act in regards to sexuality follows. A prominent example is when a teacher organized groups of students to create their own political parties for a class exercise. One group of students headed a party based on sex education. This culminated in condom distribution, in which the presiding teacher demanded all condoms back – but specifically from boys in the class. This reaction reinforces a masculinization of sex. “The condom, as a cultural object, also illustrated the importance of heterosexual activity to masculine identities. While the girls tittered and laughed, it was the boys in the class for whom the link with sexual activity was important.” (35) Pascoe uses this example, and others to explore how official high school representatives’ reactions to sex and sexuality reinforce a masculine …show more content…
Pascoe splits this chapter into two factions – The Basketball Girls and the Gay/Straight Alliance Girls. The Basketball Girls section starts off with a review of tomboy pasts: young girls that behaved like boys. This state of mind is often reviewed upon as revered, while the opposite (boys who behave like girls) is usually met with shame. These girls embody masculinity like straight white boys do: “taking up space, teasing girls, and positioning themselves as sexually powerful.” (133) The GSA Girls played with the line between masculine and feminine identities through gender maneuvering. “Gender maneuvering refers to the way groups act to manipulate the relations between masculinity and femininity as others commonly understand them.” (116) These girls were politically active in their approach to masculinity and sexuality, something that caused friction with school administration. An example was when the Homecoming Pep Rally fell on National Coming Out Day. The GSA wanted to wear shirts reading “Nobody Knows I’m a Lesbian” for a prep dance. Upon the event, the principal forced the girls to cover up these shirts during their dance. For contrast, one condoned dance included a female student grinding her pelvis against a male student’s face. “Mr. Hobart [the principal] had effectively set up a two-tiered system in which explicit expressions of heterosexuality such as sensual dance moves, skits that told stories about heterosexual
Teenagers, in general, are rebellious and often tend not to follow the norms of the society. Max Apple’s “Stepdaughters” and John Updike’s “A & P” depict the same situations; teenage girls doing things against societal rules, and some people opposing their actions while some are supporting them. In “Stepdaughters,” the teenage girl, Stephanie, practices shot-put, a male dominated sport, going against the norm that girls should not play masculine sports. But her mother, Helen, does not like Stephanie practicing shot-put as she feels it takes away the girl’s femininity, while her stepfather grows to support the girl’s passion for shot-put. In “A&P,” three unnamed girls come to the grocery store wearing swimsuits, against the norm that girls
In discussing the many facets of masculinity among young men, one key issue has been the correlation it has with several developmental concerns. In Michael Kimmel’s 2008 publication “Bros Before Hos: The Guy Code”, he talks about how men believe manhood is really achieved. More specifically, he talks about “Guy Code”, the universal rulebook that all men must follow if they wish to remain in good standing among their fellow man. These rules are taught as early as their toddler years.
Lily D’Elia Ms. Lee ENG1D1-07 8 June, 2023 Feminism Making a Difference in Society Moxie girls unapologetically tackle the controversial topic of feminism in their school, and inspire the readers to do the same. This was displayed in the book Moxie by Jennifer Mathieu, which took place in a small town in Texas called East Rockport. In the book, the girls experience severe sexism from the school staff, and football boys at school. Particularly one boy, Mitchel Wilson, captain of the football team, whose father happens to be the principal at their school. Many of the girls did not agree with the unfair treatment they received at school, but were too scared to speak up for themselves.
What constitutes “masculinity?” Sadly, the term has been defined so harshly that it is having detrimental effects on our society. The definitions of gender roles bombard us everywhere, from books, to advertisements, to movies, there is seemingly no place one can hide from these absurd standards. Canadian sociologist Aaron H. Devor points out in his article “Becoming Members of Society: Learning the Social Meanings of Gender,” that gender norms are learned early on in life, burdening children with these restrictions (388). This is what makes movies which clearly reject and mock gender roles, such as The SpongeBob SquarePants Movie, so refreshing.
English Essay Q3 Texts used : The Altar of the Family and At Seventeen Traditionally, society views males as strong, aggressive, dominant and unemotional individuals while females play unimportant and demure roles within society. Sheila Morehead’s “At Seventeen” and Michael Wilding’s “The Altar of the Family” challenge this idea of masculinity and gender roles, “The Altar of the Family” especially does this as the protagonist of the short story is a young boy, David. David is constructed to challenge the stereotypes of masculinity and through this the author is able to push the message that being a man doesn’t mean you need to conform to these gender stereotypes and not conforming to the stereotypes doesn’t result in being a failure as a person.
Boys to Men In the essay What Does “Boys Will Be Boys” Really Mean, the author Deborah Roffman explains how people perceive and classify boys to be extremely messy in their actions and continuously receive passes for their unacceptable behavior. In the essay How Boys Become Men, the statement “Boys Will Be Boys” expresses how the rules boys set for themselves in their childhood unintentionally effects the decisions they make in their adulthood. The two essays focus on different situations but they come together with the same opinion about men and boys; of whom they focus on the most. One essay focuses mainly on how boys behave and the reason why people classify them the way they do, whereas, the other essay focuses on the effects of how boys learn to behave a certain way and grows into adolescents with the same behavior.
2. An academically and socially struggling 11-year-old female student, Irina, comes to speak with the school counselor, Mrs. Moon, about her increasing awareness of herself as lesbian. Irina’s parents are conservative Catholics and the culture of the school community is likewise politically conservative. She would like to meet in a group with other gay and lesbian students in the school. As a result of the school’s emphasis on the Common Core, group counseling has been eliminated this year.
“Doing Gender” by West and Zimmerman is similar to Butler’s “Performative Acts and Gender Constitution.” However, West and Zimmerman build upon the ideas that Butler puts forth. Butler focuses on gender as performance and how gender is made up by specific actions. While West and Zimmerman take the concept of performance and constitution and applies it to a new concept, the sex category and how sex categories and gender are intertwined in society. Sex categories and gender, according to West and Zimmerman, are different and interconnected.
Pascoe explains the teenagers use of the fag discourse by stating that “becoming a fag has as much to do with failing at the masculine tasks of competence, heterosexual prowess, and strength or in any way revealing weakness or femininity as it does with a sexual identity” (Pascoe, 54) The only reason these teenagers feel this way is because they have been socialized to believe that masculinity is the cornerstone of being a male. They grow up seeing this reinforced on all levels and they witness firsthand the range of repercussions for not following this model. It only takes a moment to fail at being masculine, and when you fail at being masculine you are and should be bombarded with judgement and
Over the course of the term, we covered a variety of sexuality topics, including transgender, sex education for children, contraception, abortion, sexually transmitted diseases, and how to define what is sexually normal, etc. I found some of these materials interesting to read, especially the article about ‘’The case for starting sex education in kindergarten’’ by Saskia De Melker. Before, I used to think that it’s inappropriate to teach children about sex, because of where I came from, the thought of teaching young children about sex never really crossed my mind. It wasn’t until I read the article by Melker that I realize it’s crucial to start teaching sexuality education for children early, because as the author pointed out, children have ‘’the right to frank, trustworthy information on the subject’’ (Melker, 2015). Instead of delaying this normal process, maybe parents and teachers should be the initiator that teach children about all the ‘’necessary skills to protect against sexual coercion, intimidation and abuse’’ (Melker, 2015).
Any girl who has attended a public high school understands the daily dilemma of dress code. On those scorching hot days as the school year approaches summer, many girls can be found scavenging through their closet for a “school appropriate” outfit or one they won’t melt into a sweaty puddle in. Her dresses will show too much leg, her tops will inappropriately expose her shoulder or collar bone, and her shorts will be too short — at least that 's what the school says. Dress code in modern day high schools should be boycotted because they are a violation to student and parents rights, sexist, out of date, a double standard, and they disrupt a female students education. It 's fair to agree with a policy that claims stringent dress codes increase the emphasis on academics and reduce the pressure of socioeconomic status; however, these dress codes violate the students First Amendment right to freedom of expression and the parents’ Fourteenth Amendment right to raise their children in their own way.
What if your middle school girl came home from school one day and told you that she had to wear boy’s gym shorts because the yoga pants she was wearing turned boys on. Well, this happened to a 13 year old girl for two days in a row at her school. Most schools in the United States have a dress code policy containing many rules for what kids have to wear. In the United States dress code has a very controversial background with many opinions for and against it.
For Goodness Sex, by Al Vernacchio, is a welcome relief from the two previous books; Girls & Sex and Man Interrupted, as the focus is about sexuality as a whole; gender, sexual orientation, etc., rather than on the culture of females and males. In a chapter titled “Gender Myths,” Vernacchio (2014) asks the question, “male and female, is that all there is” (Vernacchio, A., p. 112, 2014)? In teaching his class on Sexuality and Society, Vernacchio asks these questions and questions similar, demonstrating that he takes into consideration that there are feelings at stake and keeps in mind the human aspect of sex and sexuality as he is intentionally behind challenging students to foresee and develop their sense of values about sex, instead of constantly being “in the moment.”
In “Commanding the Room in Short Skirts: Cheering as the Embodiment of Ideal Girlhood”, Adams and Bettis argue that a feminist poststructuralist reading of cheerleading states cheerleading as a discursive practice that has changed significantly in the past 150 years to accommodate the shifting and often contradictory meanings of normative femininity. Overall they argue that cheerleading is surrounded by gender. A gendered activity reconstructing feminism and what people typically think about women in sports. With cheerleading transitioning into a female dominant activity, it comes with some negative stereotypes. Cheerleading is also described as an erotic icon.
Introduction 1. Attention Getter: The provision of sex education in schools has been a controversial subject matter among different education stakeholders ranging from parents to educators. A focus, however, on the prevalence of adolescents’ abortion, pregnancy, and HIV and AIDS rates indicates significantly high rates.