14. Pamela Meyer: “How to spot a liar” Pamela Meyer is an American author, certified fraud examiner, and entrepreneur. Described by Reader's Digest as "the nation's best known expert on lying," Meyer is the author of the 2010 book Liespotting: Proven Techniques to Detect Deception. The talk was presents at the TEDGlobal in July 2011. As for August 29, 2017 total number of views of this video is 16,694,490. Pamela is an American national and English is her native language. Her pronunciation is clear and easy to understand. Total length of the video is 18 minutes 50 second, while total length of speaking time without pauses is 16 minutes 40 seconds. Total time on pauses is 134 seconds or 13.5% of the whole speech (87 seconds spent to show the …show more content…
The presentation is memorized and well rehearsed with no clear improvisation. In her presentation Pamela Meyer claims that on any given day we're lied to from 10 to 200 times, and the clues to identify those lie can be inconspicuous and unreasonable. She demonstrates the conduct and "hotspots" used by those trained to recognize deception - and she argues honesty is a value worth saving. The macrostructure of this talk consists of Introduction, Body and Conclusion. The length of Introduction is 300 words (10.3%). Meyer chooses to make a shocking statement (with a bit of humor mixed in). She states that a person who sits to the listener’s right and to the left is a liar. And the person sitting in their very seat is a liar too - we are all liars. The length of Body is 2411 words (81.8%). Immediately after the introduction Meyer sets the structure for the talk. She demonstrates what the research says in regards to why we're all liars, how one can turn into a liespotter, and why one might need to go the extra mile and go from liespotting to truth chasing, and at last to trust building. Meyer lets the audience know what to expect. She breaks down the presentation into …show more content…
In her talk, Pamela Meyer lists examples of everyday lying statements we would make to each other such as “you don’t look fat in that” and “I just fished that email from my spam folder”. Meyer uses many comparison and contrast between cases to prove that all lies can be spotted. For example, she shows the reactions of two mothers after their children died. In these clips, she points out that even if the two mother’s words are equally devastating and sad, the unserious tone and calm demeanor of the mother who killed her kids gives away the fact that she was lying. Pamela uses Repetitions in her talk: when talking about people who spoke the truth, she starts six consecutive sentences with “they are”. This clear use of repetition helps her convey her point that every honest person is going to act the same in such a situation and thus provide very clear cues for liespotters to notice. Meyer alternates from a casual and almost childish tone to a serious tone throughout her talk. She does this to highlight the difference between the portrayal of liespotters in popular culture and actual trained
Sydney Caparaso Mrs. Sherry AP Psychology 27 August 2015 Witness for the Defense: Elizabeth Loftus Human memory may not, as many think, resemble a permanent tape of our lives ' events, replayable at a whim. Elizabeth Loftus discusses her theories of memory and accuracy in her book, Witness for the Defense. Loftus has testified as an expert witness in more than 150 court cases, several of which she sites, discussing the different ways a memory can be fallible.
Throughout life, we sometimes don't take the time to think about what comes out of our mouth. We feel the need to tell a falsehood to make ourselves look better or feel better. After all, we don't want to accept the harsh truth of reality that is lives are not perfect. Sometimes we even forget why we're even lying at all. However, we are not alone as human begins it's in our nature to lie.
Pamela Meyer I could not think of a speech off of the top of my head so I chose one of the presentations in this module. I chose to listen to Pamela Meyer speak on "How to spot a liar". Pamela Meyer is the CEO of the social networking company Simpatico Networks as well as Calibrate, a leading deception detection-training program. She worked with researchers and studied all of the published research that she could find on deception "from such fields as law-enforcement, military, psychology and espionage" (Meyer, 2011). She then became an expert herself on this subject and received advanced training in several areas such as interrogation, microexpression analysis and behavior and body language (Meyer, 2011).
Lying has not been formally considered morally wrong or right regardless of the severity. Although it’s near impossible to go through a whole day without even stretching the truth once and decide which types of lies are okay or not. Stephanie Ericsson uses strong metaphors and personal experiences in “The Ways We Lie” to justify the use of our everyday lying. This unbiased essay will help readers decide whether it’s okay to lie on a daily basis. Ericsson starts out with saying she told the bank that her deposit was in the mail even though she hadn't written out the check (495).
Stephanie Ericsson begins her explorative essay, “The Ways We Lie,” with a personal anecdote of all the lies she fabricated in one day. She told her bank that a deposit was in the mail when it was not, told a client that the traffic had been bad when she was late for other reasons, told her partner that her day was fine when it was really exhausting, and told her friend she was too busy for lunch when she just was not hungry, all in the course of a day. She shifts from talking about herself to talking about everyone, claiming that all people lie, exaggerate, minimize, keep secrets, and tell other lies. But, like herself, most still consider themselves honest people. She describes a week in which she tried to never tell a lie; it was debilitating, she claims.
In the Ted Talk “How to Spot a Liar” By Pamela Meyer, She spoke about the tells of a liar and why people lie. Meyers had two truths, Truth #1 lying is a cooperative act. The lie has no power until the receiver believes the lie. Everyone who has been lied to has agreed to be lied too, for example when a lady asks her husband if she looks fat in a certain clothing item. Both he
Rhetorical Analysis Most people tend to believe that lying is a way of life, that without it the whole world could crumble and fall. While some tend to believe that any form of lying is a sin and there should be consequences. One author, Stephanie Ericsson, wrote “The Ways We Lie” published in 1993 she talks about how we all lie, it has become an everyday chore to make life easier. She begins by trying to strengthen the bond between the reader and writer showing how they are one of the same. She does this by referencing past experiences, adding informed opinions, and using quotes from other well acknowledged authors, her argument is strong throughout the whole article that lying isn’t just evil, it can be used for good when used the right way.
Adriana Franco Mrs. Belina ENG3U1–7 2 April 2023 Two Truths and the Lie Everyone has told a lie before. Whether it be big or small everyone is guilty of being deceptive at least once in their life. Chances are, it ended poorly too. It could be one’s mom finding out they lied about finishing homework, or a sister finding out they lied about taking a shirt. Eric Wright’s short story “Twins” explores the outcomes of revealing the truth in a deceptive relationship.
Deception is a powerful tool in seeking a certain motive; therefore,
Lying is the most committed sin. Everyday people lie whether small or big. Every human knows that lying should not be exercised, but sometimes, in certain situations, lying is necessary due to the consequences of telling the truth. In the Bible, James 3:8, quoted is “But no human being can tame the tongue, it is a relentless evil, full of deadly poison.”
Many people wonder is it wrong to lie or are there some situation where lying is the best option? In the book, The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Nighttime by Mark Haddon, Mark Haddon shifts Christopher’s outlook on honesty and changed his outlook dramatically. Many people, including Christopher, believe in the statement “honesty is the best policy.” However while Christopher becomes more independent, he realizes that in some situations being dishonest might be the best answer. When his father lies to Christopher, Christopher follows his father’s actions and starts to comprehend when he must lie.
In the book The Liars Club, by Mary Karr, she utilizes the literary element voice to weave together a story of her unfortunate childhood. This book covers the majority of her childhood years, and the several problems her childhood included. When Karr narrates the book she is the sole voice in the text, however she also incorporates others statements and communication through her own voice. She uses voice to piece together her own, and other’s statements into the story of her childhood. While Mary Karr is the only narrator in the story, the text is polyvocal, meaning that multiple individuals are voiced through Karr’s narration.
The narrator in “The Yellow Wallpaper” is unreliable because she cannot determine reality from hallucinations and cannot express herself because she is dominated by her role as a woman. The most unreliable narrator out of all the short stories is the wife who narrated the short story The Yellow Wallpaper by Charlotte Perkins Gilman because she cannot distinguish reality. On the other hand, some would say that the narrator from Strawberry Spring by Stephen King is the most unreliable narrator because he is a serial killer and has no recollection of the murders he has committed. The narrator from The Yellow Wallpaper is the most unreliable because she cannot
In “The Way We Lie”, author Stephanie Ericsson gives her readers a list of ten lie we sometime use it for a purpose and sometime we did not realize we did it. She starts out her story with four lie she used in the same morning as she is starting out her day. She explains these lie are intentionally use to minimize the complications and make the day goes much smoother. However, she questions whether these lie can actually make an impact on the person who carry out and the person who receive the lie.
In Tobias Wolff’s short story “The Liar,” the protagonist, James, lies to help him construct a new identity outside of his family. James tells morbid lies about his mother in order to distance himself from her. Since, the loss of his father, James no longer associates with people who are like him. The lies started after his father’s death and his mother starts noticing how much differently he was acting. Since his mother is treating him like she is disappointed in him, James begins to devolve into a state of repressed bitterness.