Humans require social connections since they were born. In the Catcher in the Rye, J.D. Salinger conveys the negative impacts of disengaging with society. If one remains isolated for an extended period of time, the person may never find meaning in life. In the novel, Holden's hatred towards his life is a product of his self-imposed isolation. Specifically, Holden cannot make friends, cannot maintain relationships with girls and cannot maintain mental stability. Holden's tendency to protect his isolation eludes him from other people. After Holden finishes talking with Mrs. Morow, he went into a phone both. Holden wanted to give somebody a buzz, but decided not to call anybody after twenty minutes (Salinger 77). Although Holden tries to interact …show more content…
The first girl introduced to have a deep connection with Holden is Jane. When Stradlater said that he is dating Jane, Holden immediatly wants to see Jane. Sadly, Holden missed his chance because he was "not in the mood" to (Salinger, 42). Since Jane is dating, Holden knows that she is no longer as innocent as she were before. To protect his alusions, Holden isolates himself from Jane, making Jane a girl stuck in his past. Even when a girl is right beside him, Holden tends to isolate himself from sex. After Holden pays for a prostitute, he uses his money to talk instead of having sex (Stradlater, 124). This depicts how Holden alienates himself agian, resulting in Sunny viewing him as a madman. Finally, Holden manages to get hislef a date with Sally, but ruins it with a prepostrous idea of escaping society. Sally rejects his idea, and Holden responds, " You give me a royal pain in the ass" (J.D.Salinger, 173). Holden's isolation makes him want to move to a secluded area, however, Sally thinks it is stupid. Holden then loses control and rejects Sally, thereby failing to achieve another intimate relationship. Holden's isolation not only makes him fail to talk with girls properly, he also cannot maintain mental
To achieve true peace and comfort, rather than trying to find love and comfort from others, an individual will search for someone who will give them a sense of belonging. This is seen through the novel, “the Catcher in the Rye” by J. D. Salinger where the persona, Holden, is seen searching for someone or a relationship. For example, the Holden tries to form many relationships including romantically, make friends, and with family members. Thus, to belong with a sense of peace and comfort, Holden attempts to interact with others.
The only person that Holden makes an actual connection to is his sister, Phoebe. This barrier that he has created causes him to become a bit introvert and rather cynical. In the book, Holden finds his roommate, Stradlater, to be overly cocky and his neighbor, Ackley, to be annoying. He starts to make some of the same judgments about a girl that he goes on a date with, Sally Hayes. Sally is pretty and outgoing, but Holden feels she cannot hold a conversation.
In one situation, Holden criticizes dorm neighbour Ackley for disrupting his privacy by unwantedly barging into his room. However, after a fight with roommate Stradlater, Holden is left alone and searching for companionship forces himself into Ackley’s room spending hours sleeping on the spare bed in his room. Additionally, Holden’s contradicts many of his own judgements by forgetting to follow his moral values. When roommate Stradlater brags about sexual advancements he made with Holden’s former crush Jane, the teenager feels disgusted by the sexual relationship
He respected her and did not want to make her feel anymore uncomfortable. Meanwhile, during his stay at the hotel, Holden requests a prostitute, Sunny, to come to his room. Sunny also serves as the Ego because when she attempts to seduce him, he gets tense and decides to make conversation with her instead. After she gets annoyed and decides to leave, Holden pays her anyway.
They became close as time came across, as soon Holden began to be attracted, he calls Sally phony and stupid. During all the time he spends with Sally, he met up with a friend that is a girl named Jane Gallagher. This is the person he really wanted to be with, but for some reasons he couldn't even explain to himself why he dearly like this girl. At some point he decides to call her on the telephone, but in the end he can't bring himself to talk. Holden wonders why and this is when he begins, for the first time, to think properly of his change of mind.
I can’t help it.” What Holden needs to realize that his ‘trouble’ isn’t a problem but a blessing. He talks about how most guys do not stop when their dates do not want to have sex but in Holden’s case he does stop because of all the respect for women’s space he has on the inside. This internal respect comes back when he is with Sunny. When Sunny gets to
Holden perceives that he is alone in the world and is searching for someone with whom he can make a meaningful connection. He is in desperate need of a person to release him from his loneliness and feelings of despair. When Holden’s strong connection with Jane Gallagher ended, his life began a downward
Holden experiences sex in his thoughts but also in certain situations that he eventually backs out of. He encounters a situation with a prostitute named Sunny, instead of Holden actually having a sexually encounter with her he worries about her innocence. Holden is able to detect that she’s young by her word choice and the way she carries herself, when he notices this he decides not to have sex with her and to try his best to perserve her innocence. Holden fails to realizie that the girl’s innocence has already been stolen from her. Love is depicted in the story a lot and hurts Holden; He falls in love with Jane Gallagher but is crushed when he finds out Stradlater took her on a date and most likely took her innocence away from her.
Holden attempts to assert himself above everybody else in society and essentially portrays that he is better than everyone. Isolation is a major characteristic in Gothic writing because it forces the audience to solely focus on the protagonists and his everyday struggles with fitting into society. Holden isolates himself from everyone by the judgment he places on people in society. This isolation correlates to him immaturity and the reason he doesn't connect with anyone. When Holden comes out of the theater and sees the phonies in the mist, he states, “At the end of the first act we went out with all the other jerks for a cigarette.
Holden has had several opportunities to have sexual intercourse with another female yet he keeps avoiding it, therefore unlike the rest of the teen population who have had intimacy with another being, he is an outcast, an alien. In this case, Holden is alien to sex and what intimacy truly is; his little knowledge on this is causing him to avoid going through with having an intimate relationship or sex with someone, even a prostitute who will charge him more than what she was worth. Fear can also play a role in alienation from society. Holden has a fear of human behavior and arguably even sickened with the human behavior.
Chapters 18-19 Left Side Journal Holden is probably the most obnoxious in these chapters meeting up with Luce. The reason is because all he does is talk about sex even though he is a virgin. What I don’t understand is why does Holden care so much for others sex lives? I get that he is a virgin and he may be curious, but it is just really rude and uncomfortable not only to Luce, but also to the reader. The main thing I focused on in these chapters is the question that Luce asked Holden - “When are you gonna grow up?”
Holden is about to go on a date with Sally Hayes and he deciding which show to buy tickets for. “... I went over and bought two orchestra seats for I Know My Love... I didn’t much want to see it, but I knew old Sally... would start drooling all over the place when I told her I had tickets for that” (Salinger 152). This shows that Holden is mindful when taking care of his friends and wishes to please them.
Alienation & Outcasts: In Catcher in the Rye, by J.D Salinger, the characters are the main reason for causing their own alienation and being victims of alienation. Holden, one of the character causes his own alienation and chooses to be lonely. One example is when Holden tries to call some of his friends but in the end, he “ended up not calling anybody” (Salinger). Holden is given the chance to hang out with some of his friends but decides he did not feel like it and gives up. Given the chance to ask someone out, Holden instead, decides not to because he gives them, Holden’s family and friends, an excuse for him to stay away.
The theme of loneliness is demonstrated multiple times through Holden’s self destructive behaviors with his friends and family, his fear of rejection, and his rude behaviors and language when he feels rebuffed by a friend. As a result, Holden is confused, he is pushing his friends away, and his emotions are in disarray. Holden’s loneliness in The Catcher in the Rye illustrates what life would be like without friends, and reinforces how important friends are in
Throughout the novel, Holden constantly complains about his loneliness. Unlike others that would normally stay away from other people due to their shyness, Holden does the exact opposite. He constantly reaches out to other people getting together, planning dates, etc. in attempt to fill his desperate desire for human-companionship/interaction. Holden fails to fulfill this desire (excluding Phoebe) as everyone he meets falls under the category he created we know as “Phonies” as Holden describes.