People live all their lives trying to chase dreams. Most people do and those are the risk takers they ones who aren 't afraid to try even if the future is uncertain. The ones who don 't try often look imagine how their life could have been if they had taken that risk. In the book Ethan Frome by Edith Wharton we see the main protagonist Ethan lack the courage to chase his dream and in the end pays the price for it. In the book he is dealing with inter conflicts between two women. One is Zenna his sick and depressed wife and the second is mattie the young a pretty maid.He has a responsibility and sense of duty towards zeena, but he loves Mattie. However, he had a chance to a risk to express his love to Mattie while Zeena was not there, but …show more content…
As said in chapter 6, “he had not touched the tip of her fingers,” (Wharton 73) in other words, he did not even try to take the risk to try and hold her hand. I believe it was because he was scared. We see the narrator keep referring to the cat, as if Zennas presence was still in the house. He was not sure what would come if he took this chance to embrace his relationship with Mattie and do what he desires because in the back of his mind he kept thinking of Zenna. Clearly, if he would have taken that risk to make a move by touching her hand, then he would have actually felt happy. Even though he, “was so irrationally happy,” (Wharton 73) just from imaging how it would be like to live with her, still he did not really take the risk to try and experience how it would feel like to express their feelings and dream of them …show more content…
Ethan chooses his duty to Zeena over his dream with mattie he would receive when proposed with the option of moving to the West, he decides against it because of what he owes to Zeena. He doesn 't knows if she would not be able to support herself and that clouded future is why he doesn 't agreed to leave. Again, Ethan chooses between duty to Zeena and seeking his personal dream when he and Mattie were going to take their lives so they would not have to live without each other. Throughout his time with Zeena, he was forced to choose between duty to his family and his dreams. He could have left and continued his dream of being an engineer but instead he married her do to a sense of payment for what she had done for his mother. He cast away his dream because he did not know whether he would have an opportunity like this
When cat broke the pickle dish Mattie “had sprung from her chair and was down on her knees by the fragment”(Wharton
His love is so great for Mattie that he even considers leaving town with her for the west and starting a new life, even taking into account the care and well-being of Zenobia. So even in this act of love towards Mattie he is still thinking of his current wife that has no love for him. Ethan’s second-to-last act of love is to knowingly end both his and Mattie’s life, because they both know they cannot be together. Ethan declares that he would rather Mattie be dead than not his, and to this end they both agree.
Ethan’s agreement that death is better than parting is an example of cognitive dissonance that directly affects the plot of the novel. Cognitive dissonance is best described as an inconsistency in the beliefs that one holds, which is prominent in the thoughts as opposed the actions taken by Ethan. He is essentially given an ultimatum when Zeena threatens to fire Mattie; Ethan must make the decision to act upon his desires without the benefit of time as he had once thought he had. Before this is thrust upon him, he has the general cognition that he should not pursue Mattie. This is evident in his lack of action during their dinner without Zeena.
Wharton uses him to show the problems gender roles can create in a marriage and everyday life in general. Ethan marries Zeena because that’s his options. Zeena agrees because she’s already been living with him and there isn’t much difference. They assume the normal husband-and-wife roles and continue living. Zeena did the cooking (until she got “sick”) and Ethan did the farming.
Ethan thinks his actions through and realizes the guilt he would have if he left Zeena in Starkfield with the farm, in
Kirsten Dunst once said, “You can never control who you fall in love with, even when you're in the most sad, confused time of your life. It just happens.” This quote relates to the relationships between the characters in Ethan Frome. The relationships people have with each other can affect them in a negative or positive way, and in Edith Wharton's novel, Ethan Frome, Ethan Frome and Mattie Silver enjoy a unique relationship that affects them both in a positive way. One positive effect of Ethan Frome and Mattie Silver’s relationship is that Frome initiated to invest more thought into his actions.
Mattie breaks Zeena 's rules by using her red pickle dish, which gets broken by the cat. This would not be so problematic if it were not for the relationship between Ethan and Zeena being so strained already. The broken dish, and the events before and after the incident, symbolize Ethan and Zeena’s marriage, which was a marriage of convenience. Zeena struggles to keep the facade of her happy marriage ‘unbroken,’ while Ethan makes an
The feeling of uncertainty can lead to the fall of dreams, unless you have the determination to get up and try again. Taylor, from a novel named The Bean Trees, encounters many doubts and failures from not only herself, but from the people around her. She is a mother who wants to adopt a child in which she has a strong bond with, but is told she is unable to because she doesn’t have consent from the child 's legal guardian. A young boy named Trevor, from a novel named Pay It Forward, has came up with a project to change the world, by helping others by paying it forward rather than back. He feels as though the people he is helping are not going to pay it forward, which will thus make him believe his project won’t work.
The cat… tried to effect an unnoticed retreat, and in doing so backed into the pickle-dish, which fell to the floor with a crash” (Wharton, chap 4). When Mattie moves in and her relationship with Ethan grows, she begins to break Zeena and Ethan’s marriage. Mattie moving in could be represented by the cat getting on the table. When the cat knocks over the dish, it breaks. This symbolizes that when Mattie got too close, Ethan’s marriage broke apart.
The tragic novella of Ethan Frome, by Edith Wharton focuses on adultery in rural New England. Stressing the importance of relationships, the narrator tells the story of Ethan Frome, a man searching for love. Despite being married to his cousin Zeena, he only views this civil union as a moral obligation. Then, he ventures into an adulterous relationship with Mattie Silver, and begins to understand what love is really about. The author often focuses on a red pickle dish, a treasured wedding gift, which unexpectedly shatters.
Ethan tries to be a good person, but eventually falls into despair, Allen cheats in order to try and find a fast way to wealth, and Margie uses everything, including her own body to try and receive money. Ethan first starts as an honest, integrant and overall very passive man. Ethan never cared about wealth all that much; he only cared about the happiness of his family. He tried ignoring the new values of the current society, but he could not escape from them when his
Throughout the duration of the novella, Zeena is certain that she is the bearer of a worsening sickness. However, Ethan is skeptical of this, and as a result questions the prognosis the expensive doctors provide her with. The novella indicates this disagreement when it states, “Turning her head at this, she answered solemnly: ‘I'm a great deal sicker than you think’”(Wharton 68). As indicated by the quote, Zeena believes that she is plagued with a kidney disease, a main constraint endured by the characters. To further explain, it not only provides Zeena with confinement to her home, but it also means that Ethan must work to take care of the farm and the house, restricting him from having time for himself.
Also, knowing that you didn’t get to fulfill your desires, and give it a shot will leave you wondering “What if?”. Everyone’s dreams are important, and you won’t know if you’re good atSomething unless you try
What would happen if the dreams you most desired were at risk of never coming true? In the poem, "A Dream Deferred" by Langston Hughes, he uses figurative language to convey the importance of what happens when a dream is deferred for too long due to oppression. Not only does Hughes uses similes to help the reader understand the author 's point of view, but also metaphors and imagery. "A Dream Deferred" was written in a time where oppression was not only harmful but also a painful way of life for Hughes and hundreds of other Americans. In this poem, he uses imagery to convey just how desperate those Americans felt at that time with what was happening in the world, and what would continue to happen if nothing was fixed.
Ethan finds himself falling in love with Mattie, but in order to have a successful relationship with her, he must learn to stand up against any obstacles that may interfere with their future. The first challenge that he needs to face is his current marriage to Zeena. Mattie and Ethan are not able to be publicly affectionate, because Zeena and Ethan are currently in a relationship. Ethan knows that he needs to stand up to his wife and end their current relationship, but he is incapable of facing Zeena. “His wife’s retort was like a knife-cut across the sinews and he felt suddenly weak and powerless.