In the short story, “Girl” by Jamaica Kincaid, the stories narrators tries to control, who we assume is her daughter, though directions of house hold chores and the use of a harsh but fearful tones about her sexuality, so she can make sure her daughter understands what responsibilities she has in a domestic life style, and that her sexuality control will help her be a respected woman in the community. Or how to control her sexual behavior, both which will help her be a respected woman in her community. The author, Jamaica Kincaid is from a small island in the Caribbean called Antigua, and since there is no indication of a setting in the story, we can assume that Antigua is where the story takes place. Understanding the history of Antigua and what was happening at the time, tremendously helps understand why the mother is trying to control her daughter. In 1667, Antigua became a British colony, and didn’t reach their independence till 1981. Since British culture and beliefs were around for over three hundred years, it’s no surprise that many of them were left behind. Since the mother grew up with the British system that “attempted to erase female sexuality and to control the female body,” (Beyerman, Keith E. 2). It …show more content…
Benna music became a useful form of spreading news and information across the island,” (Landed). The daughter then responds for the first time, “I don’t sing benna on Sundays at all and never in Sunday school”, (Kincaid, Jamaica). Since Benna can be associated with the spreading of rumors, the mother wants to make sure her daughter isn’t participating but instead “[P]rotect[ing] oneself from discrimination,” (Bailey, Carol 111), so it doesn’t interfere with her
Function Guarantee Not Included Producing respect and admiration from children towards their parent’s demands, lectures, beliefs and traditions, would have more efficient impact in the child for a lifetime than implanting fear to oppose their parent’s expectations, negative consequences for disappointment from a parent directed to their child’s actions results in rancorous and strained relationships between children and parents. Jamaica Kincaid’s “Girl”, Junot Diaz’s “Fiesta 1980”, and Edith Wharton’s Ethan Frome, are literary pieces that remark the use of fear instead of adequate education as young characters in them develop views in life during their young stages. Parents deeply inculcate their personal goals and expectations in their children
Overview of the Film The film Pariah written and directed by Dee Rees is about Alike Freeman, a 17-year-old African American female exploring her sexuality as a lesbian. Alike knows she is a lesbian, but is not sure where she belongs or how to tell her family. Throughout the movie she is trying to find ways to embrace her sexuality, as well please her family and friends. Alike does not have support from her parents, which makes being true to who she is much harder. Overall, Alike is not sure about how to express herself, and is concerned about upsetting the people in her life.
The societal norm for Dominican males indicates male approval of activities that if otherwise applied to women would be criticized. Males are encouraged to announce and celebrate their sexual actions as yet another affirmation of patriarchal dominance in which males withhold power over women. When discussing Dominican-ness, Oscar states that he “heard from a reliable source that no Dominican male had ever died a virgin,” emphasizing the importance of sexual activity among males (174). By speaking of sexual experience as such a crucial component to fulfilling the Dominican heteronormative expectation, Oscar is reiterating the point of sexual goals and merits. It is important to note that men are designated the task of taking virginity from women rather than losing their own.
She achieves her aim in highlighting that the prohibitive laws which reduce people like her to mere sexual bodies is a psycho-social remnant of the colonial past. She addresses a number of audiences within the piece, including the human rights community, the governments of both her native Trinidad and Tobago and The Bahamas, and by extension all citizens of the Caribbean and wider world who have been disenfranchised by laws that diminish their humanity and highlight their perceived iniquity. The implication of her essay is clear: if not just any body can be a citizen, the democracy which we have set up is in need of some adjustment. It relates to us because it reminds us that for every time we deny any body rights, we have failed to live up to the principles on which are postcolonial societies are supposed to be
Novelist, Roxane Gay, in her essay “The careless Language of Sexual Violence”, voices her concerns about rape culture and how it is perpetuated in today’s society. She uses anaphora, imagery, and rhetorical questions in order to demonstrate how society “carelessly” (131) normalizes rape. In her essay, Gay uses rhetorical questions and anaphora to further stress her concerns and talk about how writers are gratuitous when talking about rape. She opens her essay using anaphora comparing “crimes” to “atrocities.
Similarly, Kincaid illustrates benna, symbolize sexuality, subject the mother to remind her daughter about the identity of it. The daughter tries to defend herself and says, “but I don’t sing benna on Sundays at all and never in Sunday school says” (Kincaid). Despite the fact that the daughter may not deliberately compare benna with sexuality as her mother does, her protestations and by telling she knows very well the benna's tempting force, persona, and forbidden words. Indeed, the daughter, desperate denials may even clue that she really has sung benna in Sunday school with her companions, a sign of her blooming enthusiasm for young men and an indication of an expanding irritation with her mother's recommendation and interruptions into
GIRL by Jamacia Kincaid essay by Eric Richard and Kaden Chen 1: The short story GIRL by Jamacia Kincaid expresses the tone in its title by representing how any woman can be overwhelmed and commanded by others around her. 2: This is mirrored in the tone of the mother figure, which is also very demeaning and heartless to her daughter. 3: Throughout the story, the main character is lectured about how to be a perfect girl in society, including setting tables, dressing right, interacting with men, and other mannerisms. 4: The mother tells the girl all the information about being a woman in one sentence while not allowing her to respond, and when the girl does, the mother just brushes her off.
Also, once girls grow up they are forced to marry young and to do whatever their husbands say, even if he is abusive. According to KaYing Yang this serious issue that often goes unknown and unmentioned. The message of KaYing Yang’s lecture affects me personally because I am a female. Although I don’t live according to an incredibly sexist culture, I still see the importance of helping other women overcome sexual injustices.
A single tune may seem harmless but the meaning behind the words of the song actually contradict the advice the mother is trying to relay. The benna song symbolizes unladylike manners that the mother is constantly repeating to her young daughter not to do. The mother uses her words to dictate her daughter to religiously be very mannered like. As singing the song may damage her reputation. Which the mother would not approve of it, so what the mother means is that she would like her daughter to sing or speak in a very formal way.
Inside and beyond the myth and the social impact of the subject as One or Substance. Alan H. Goldman’s essay ‘Plain Sex’ is a central contribution to the academic debate about sex within the analytic area, which has been developing since the second half of the ‘90s in Western countries. Goldman’s purpose is encouraging debate on the concept of sex without moral, social and cultural implications or superstitious superstructures. He attempts to define “sexual desire” and “sexual activity” in its simplest terms, by discovering the common factor of all sexual events, i.e. “the desire for physical contact with another person’s body and for the pleasure which such contact produces; sexual activity is activity which tends to fulfill such desire of the agent” (Goldman, A., 1977, p 40).
Society encouraged young women "to exercise gamesmanship instead of honesty, to control rather than
The short story “Girl” by Jamaica Kincaid was published in 1978. The entire story has to do with mother talking to the daughter. The daughter does not say much. The subject matter of “Girl” has to do with being a female and how one should act. The theme of female sexuality is used throughout “Girl” to show the danger of female sexuality, power of domesticity, and sexual reputation.
No matter how people learn lessons, they will stay with the person forever, and help them through life. In the short stories “The Lesson” by Toni Cade Bambara and “Girl” by Jamaica Kincaid, there is lesson that a character will learn about life. Although, in “The Lesson”, the teaching was more profound and had a deeper meaning behind it, while “Girl” was a parent forcing instructions on a child in order for the child to learn how a woman is to live. This being said, the teaching is more profound in “The Lesson” than the one given in “Girl.” “Girl” is a short story that teaches that there are many lessons we learn throughout life from parents, or in this case, a single parent.
Human Sexuality Diane Dyche Sociology 21 # 22071 The top three things in my life that have most influence my viewpoints about sex and sexuality are my family, peers, and tv and movies. My family influenced my viewpoints on sex and sexuality because that is usually what I grew up listening to. My family was very open about a person’s sexuality and sex while growing up. They talked about gender roles, sexuality, and even sex.
The students had locked Margot in the closet because they didn’t like her, and they were jealous of the fact that she saw the sun before seven years ago. Margot is a tiny girl with snowball like skin. All she ever wanted was to see the sun on venus. A couple of days later, the students remember to let her out, only to find an empty closet. While Margot was in the closet she realized that she did have food to survive.