The theory being applied to James McBride’s family is Sigmund Freud’s Psychodynamic theory. This theory is based on the grounds of the importance of early childhood experiences that shape personality and behavior (Lifespan). Applying this theory to James’ family we can begin by looking at the time period in which the children grew up. The family grew up in a time where black and whites did not marry and it was unacceptable for them to be together. This caused some of the family members to develop a defense mechanism. A defense mechanism is the denying of reality and projecting feelings on someone else (Lifespan). Because the mother was a white female, the children sought to understand, but where protective of their mother. Ruth uses the defense mechanism to hide or suppress her past and race from her children. Many times the children ask Ruth are they black or white and where she comes from. Ruth suppresses these thoughts and reacts by telling her children not to worry about it or don’t ask questions. …show more content…
James begins with the ID stage. He houses aggression towards knowing his background and understanding his sense of self. He is trying to understand what is good and bad with his own racial identity. The Ego aspect of James is that he is trying to satisfy his need of understanding his roots. James toward the end of the book explores places that his mother grew up to better understand his Jewish roots. He is thinking practical and leading up to his exploration has often put his need for understand on hold. This is considered his healthiest part of his self-development (Lifespan). James Super Ego has developed into more moral standards of understanding race and has also helped influences him to interview his mother to learn more on his
As James McBride finalizes the last chapter, readers become more informed on the topic of race which serves as a major recurring theme throughout the book. Specifically, McBride delves into his mother’s hardship as a wife of a black man and the vitriolic responses she received from a mostly segregated society. Infact, readers also see how after leaving behind her family, Ruth took refuge by almost identifying as black, as it was the only group that accepted her. Therefore, it appears evident that Ruth being sedulous and determined to erase her past that she considered as a unwanted stain or blemish in her life, contributed to allowing an identity crisis to ferment within James. As shown in previous chapters, James recognized his struggle as
In the memoir the Color of Water, James McBride spends most of the time finding his true identity. To understand his inner confusion and turmoil, he had a need to understand his mother’s past. James McBride takes an epic life quest to discover and learn more about his heritage in his memoir. As the book begins, the author has a curiosity and was consumed with the need of learning about his mother and her past.
In the penultimate chapter of the book, James reflects on his life. He hated that his skin color seemed to determine everything about his identity in the eyes of the world. Yet, his mixed heritage allowed him to witness that black people as they proclaimed that white people had it
In chapter 22 James goes and meets Aubrey Rubenstein where he answers all of james questions. For example when James gets there Aubrey gets on the phone and then tells james to go meet Gerry Jaffe and his family and that sounded familiar to him “I knew the name Jaffe Mommy had spoken of them several times” (james 224) that the slaughter house his mom would talk about. James is also told why people would leave that place “why stay? he said it was not an easy place for a jew to live”(james 225) finds out that his mom didn’t have it as easy when he got told it was not the best place to be since pretty much all the jews left. The last thing he finds out is why his mother would not talk about her family or her past.
Natasha Tretheway’s poem “White Lies” is a story of innocence, childhood, and the struggle for personal identity in America. Tretheway uses the techniques of irony and double meaning in her poem to explore racial identity through the first person narrative of a bi-racial black woman looking back on her childhood. The speaker of the poem employs a double entendre to explore her struggle as a child uncomfortable with her racial identity.
James is irresponsible, thoughtless, and most of all untrustworthy. First, James is irresponsible. James took his brother Isaac to a dangerous place when he was required to be at home taking care of his brother while his mom was at work. He makes sure his mom was aboard the bus before they left.
James McBride demonstrates that one can learn about his own identity through others opinions of him in his society. Generally, youngsters often do not care about each other’s races unless someone wants the kids to distinct between the two races. At an early age, James realized that his race has something to do with his Identity. He noticed that both black and white people glare at his white mom and her black kids with an obscene expression on their face, letting James know that his family is different than other families which the society considered more acceptable than his family. James started to compare his skin tone with his mother’s skin tone and noticed that she was white however he was black.
Leper went over in his chair and collapsed against the floor” (Knowles 137). This example of displacement reveals. Another example of defense mechanisms used by Gene is rationalization. Rationalization is a defense mechanism in which feelings or behaviors are justified in a seemingly logical manner. Freud says that,"The poor ego has a still harder time of it; it has to serve three harsh masters, and it has to do its best to reconcile the claims and demands of all three...
Family is one of the most important parts of life growing up. A strong family is what growing children need to be successful and have a bright future. Growing up in a family that is weak, does not have strong family ties and is violent leads to problems for the children and the parents, which is seen in Hillbilly Elegy and Evicted. Violence in families can affect children greatly, it can lead to second generations of poor communication between spouses and can be overall unhealthy for those living in that environment. J.D. Vance is immensely affected by his mother 's violent outbursts and multiple relationships.
This proves that although James is trying to or into his family, his emotion(s) put a major roadblock in his path. Another reason that supports this idea is on page 4. While and after the kitten is dying, he lets his emotions pour over and doesn’t care what his family sees of him, only about the dead kitten.
James was the first African American man to do lots of beautiful things with his education. Herman also says, James’s newspaper articles addressed prominent issue in the black community. When the “Daily American” failed it inspired him to go into the study of law. After a couple of years he grew tired of his career.
As one can see he was pretty unstable for a twelve year back then to deal with a family death. In addition, another way James took his father 's death was by protecting his mother from the outside world. She was the white woman living in a black world and no one was comfortable with that fact. Because of his father’s death there was no one to protect her and he always stayed there watching her replacing his father 's position “ I thought black power would be the end of my mother. ”(McBride 26) because James clearly realized that black and whites never got along and his mom was in both, so it put her in danger.
Growing up, the only father, James knew was Hunter Jordan. James biological father died before he was born. Hunter was the stable male of the family and was James role model. On weekends Hunter would come home and provide them with food and supplies they needed. In The Color of Water James states “He came home only on weekends, striding into the living room with bags of groceries, Entenmann’s cakes, a pocketful of dough, and a real live automobile
Ruth shows her kids that they need to work with their problems rather than push them away, like Beth did. An example, of how Ruth felt about when she was discriminated but there is nothing she could do but to life with it, “She couldn’t stand racists of either color” (Chpt. 4, p.
Growing up in a trailer park and being close to people of several different backgrounds, I early on started to analyze other families and compare them to my own. Many of the families I was close to were dysfunctional and had many unspoken problems. I had a friend that was told by her father that she was a mistake and was supposed to be a boy, so in response she tried to please her father and act like a boy, which lead to her being the subject of tremendous bullying. This situation relates to the Loman family’s in that the children try hard to please their parents and as a result are unsuccessful in other areas of life. The Loman family throughout the course of the book showed these and many other dysfunctional and codependent characteristics.