Many individuals find it difficult to face the unsettling and perilous realities of life. This becomes even more challenging when the parental responsibility to protect a child from these realities is incorporated. Children are born into a world full of unanswered questions. Although their innocence makes them vulnerable at first, these inquiries are deliberately left unanswered to safeguard them from the terrifying truths of the unknown. In "M3gan is about how scary a tween girl can be," Alex Abad-Santos discusses the pressures and difficulties of protecting a child's innocence from the way the world works. Santos argues that withholding information about the brutality of life may prevent children from being stripped of their innocence too …show more content…
Santos reveals his awareness of life’s unpleasant reality through statements such as, “…they also know the cruelty that the world is capable of” (Abad-Santos, 2023), and “…who isn’t blind to how brutal the world can be…” (Abad-Santos, 2023). The use of the words "cruelty" and "brutal" assists in depicting reality in its rawest form. Parents often choose to idealize a life free of these indignities for the sake of their children. Rather than the harsh truth, sometimes a pleasant lie or no truth at all is necessary when easing a child into a world they do not yet fully understand. This perspective provides justification as to why parents may feel the need to preserve their child’s ignorance and limit the amount of information they receive. Santos suggests that in doing so, parents create a false sense of reality or offer an "optimistic world" (Abad-Santos, 2023) to their children. Here, the term "optimistic" reveals one’s innocence at a young age and provides support for the notion that withholding truths that contradict this ideal reality is beneficial in the long …show more content…
He uses the fictitious movie character "M3gan" to exemplify the dangers of a young individual acquiring too much information on how the world works. M3gan is capable of committing horrific acts, making her an exaggerated representation of today's youth. Nevertheless, she supports Santos’ argument by suggesting that the harm she causes is attributable to her excessive knowledge. “While M3gan… is indeed capable of homicide, the scariest thing about her may not be that she’s willing to inflict mortal harm. It may be that M3gan has, in a very short time, learned how the world works” (Abad-Santos, 2023). This highlights the importance of innocence at a young age and offers another reason why parents should protect their children to prevent them from becoming "too smart for their own good" (Abad-Santos,
That violent, crazy act was the last act of childhood. For as I gazed at the immobile face with the sad, weary eyes, I gazed upon a kind of reality that is hidden to childhood. The witch was no longer a witch but only a broken old woman who had dared to create beauty in the midst of ugliness and sterility. She had been born in squalor and lived in it all her life.” These details support that adulthood is a rough transition
Children are given the luxury of romanticizing the subtleties of life. Curiosity aloofly guides their imagination, which allows them to perceive and preserve the world as utopian, enhancing their happiness. However, as time passes, this luxury is categorized as a childish delusion when it was previously praised. Individuals who lacked this protection were forced to mature at a faster rate, helping them view life with more transparency. Jeanette Walls' intimate memoir, The Glass Castle, questions why this romanization is a distorted perception and discusses how it harms one’s healing.
In the final section of the article, Richarz appeals to the emotion of fear by entitling the section “A generation of anxiety-ridden children”. This appeals to fear because “anxiety-ridden” is a phrase that has a negative meaning and would incite a sense of fear, especially when describing a generation of children. Furthermore, in this section Allan Richarz describes children with phrases such as “fearful of their own shadow”, that something “deprives children of important learning experiences”, “helplessness” and “smothered and fearful.” These are all phrases that have a negative meaning and things that no parent ever wants for their child. Finally, in the concluding sentence and title, Allan Richarz incites fear through describing childhood as a “terrifying and life-threatening condition”.
Walt Disney once said “I don't believe in playing down to children, either in life or in motion pictures. I didn't treat my own youngsters like fragile flowers, and I think no parent should. Children are people, and they should have to reach to learn about things, to understand things, just as adults have to reach if they want to grow in mental stature. Life is composed of lights and shadows, and we would be untruthful, insincere, and saccharine if we tried to pretend there were no shadows. Most things are good, and they are the strongest things; but there are evil things too, and you are not doing a child a favor by trying to shield him from reality;” Rex and Mary Rose Walls lived by this quote.
In “Possible Worlds: Why Do Children Pretend” by Alison Gopnik, the author talks about children and adults understanding the past and using it to help one later in life. Understanding
This enforced optimistic ideology manipulates her children’s perceptions of their lives which takes any accountability for their misfortunes away from her. She chooses to neglect her children but enlightens it to be a generous gesture because “suffering when you’re young is good for you… It immunized your body and soul” (28). She influences her children to be accepting of their misfortunes so she may restrict the necessity of providing care for her children. The children are used to being deprived of simple needs such as food and health care so they do not mention to their parents when their difficulties have increased.
Consequently, it is possible for the grown-up children to believe in the public opinion, which interpreters their life stories without acknowledging all the perspectives. Although it is easier to blame parents who have distinct methods of education,
Another example of technology as a catalyst for violence in the story is the role of the nursery and the way it influences the children's behavior. Latching on to the entertainment given by the technology, Peter felt as though it was acceptable to wish death upon his father (372). This statement highlights the extent to which the children have become dependent on technology and the virtual world. The nursery becomes a space where the children can indulge in their darkest fantasies, creating a sense of invincibility and a disregard for human life. This materializes in the kids thinking that it is acceptable to wish death upon someone.
In this place we see that people created a "nursery", which is an advanced virtual reality program, that is able to create any environment that is in the owner 's mind. Furthermore, as the children are addicted to the nursery, the parents started to know that something isn’t right. Instead of successfully moving away to a new resident, the children killed their parents by visualising the scene of their parents being killed by the wild lions of Africa so much that they become real. In this text the author shows us how the technology can remove people’s sympathy towards each other. We can also imply from the children that they have lost the ability to love as they are more willing to spend their life in the nursery than living with their parents.
Children talk about how their parents abandoned them and left them behind. For instance, Enrique states, “I wouldn’t be this way if I had two parents” (198).Enrique tells his mother that he acts this way because both of his parents were never in his life. Enrique acts out because his parents are not in his life . He says that if his parents were in his life, then he would of never choose to sniff glue or join a gang before he reconnected with his mother. Also, Enrique says to his mother that “You long ago lost the right to tell me what to do” (198).
Some people might argue that a child’s upbringing forms the child’s foundation of life. It forms the child’s identity and its view of life. The upbringing of children is a wide concept because it is never the same. The question is if there is an edge between upbringing and torture. The intention of upbringing is indisputable – you want your children to have a great life and a great future, but perchance certain ways of educating children can cause more damage than good.
In this quotation, Cameron describes the innocence we have as kids. We are told that as we grow older, we will grow wiser. We are told that as we mature, we will see that there is less to be scared of in the world. However, the ignorance that we have as kids is what protects us. This can leave an unsettling feeling in the reader, especially if the readers have daughters themselves.
This story creates an emotional appeal to the fellow parents that are reading this passage. Parents emotionally connect to stories involving children. Children are extremely powerful for making people feel. The reality finally starts to set
Children are the most vulnerable to outside perspectives and ideas when they are still developing their sense of reality. Most importantly, children are vulnerable when they are still learning the extent to which the boundary between possible and impossible exists. As children learn, they realize that the world that once seemed limitless has limited capabilities. Their entire world is put into perspective based on their personal experiences. In “Bless Me Ultima”, a novel by Rudolfo Anaya, Antonio Marez experiences this progression firsthand.
The experiences people go through impact the way the see world and those around them. Children are raised by their parents and witnesses to the triumphs and failures. When the age comes many often question their parent’s decisions. Some may feel bitterness and contempt while others may feel admiration and motivation. The “Sign in My Father’s Hands” by Martin Espada conveys the feeling of being treated as a criminal for doing the right thing.