“She was black as could be, twisted like driftwood from being out in the weather, her face a map of all the storms and journeys she’d been through. Her right arm was raised as if she was pointing the way, except her fingers were closed in a fist. It gave her a serious look, like she could straighten you out if necessary.”
In this quotation, from the beginning of chapter four, Lily describes the black Mary statue. Lily has just spotted it in the Boatwright house. She has yet to learn of its significance, to experience its important role in the lives of the Daughters of Mary, and to understand its place in the family history of the Boatwright sisters. Rather, Lily simply yet viscerally reacts to the statue’s material, color, and gesture. Immediately
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At this stage, Lily has really own known one African American: Rosaleen. While she cares for Rosaleen, maybe even loves her, Lily still sees Rosaleen is a domestic figure—as a woman who fits into the stereotypical role of a southern, uneducated housekeeper. Later, readers learn that August once worked as a housekeeper as well, but like Lily readers learn that August chose another life for herself. Lily believes that people have set roles, which they cannot transcend: black women work as housekeepers, black men do not become lawyers, and poor white women like Lily go to beauty …show more content…
In these two very intense moments, she comes face to face with love and learns that it not only brings people together but also sometimes drives people apart. Just moments before this quotation, Lily was driving with Zach when she realized, definitively, that she loved him. Then, in the field, she licked honey off of his hand. These two experiences, involving emotional outbursts and physical interaction, only serve to confuse her as to the point of love in life. Lily does not have much experience with the positive effects of love. Her father, whom she loves, never shows any affection for her, and she has reason to believe that her mother, whom she so desperately wants to have loved her, abandoned her before Lily accidentally killed her. This complicated relationship to love leaves her without a clear idea of whether love can be a positive force in life at all, and she reaches the extreme, negatively charged opinion that the fiery passion of love destroys the world. Later in the novel, when Lily learns that love is not only about rejection and longing, her opinion of love softens a great deal, although she never recants on these poignant, passionate
In American writer Sue Monk Kidd's fiction novel The Secret Life of Bees, the reader is introduced to Lily Owens, a naive and unfortunate character longing for her mother's absence. Growing up with an abusive father, T Ray, Lily is kept miserable until a stroke of confidence allows her to run away with the only person on her side, Rosaleen. Through multiple influences and revelations of truth, she can develop individually with the help of her new family, the Boatwrights, transforming her into a profound and confident character. One of the major influences Lily undergoes throughout the book is the religious rituals August and the Boatwrigts assign her. An example of this is the observance of a religious statue, The Black Mary, worshiped by the
“I still tell myself that when he drove away that day he wasn't saying good riddance; he was saying, Oh, Lily, you're better off there in that house of colored women. You never would've flowered with me like you will with them.” (Kidd 531) Lily imagined that T. Ray thought she would have a better life with the sisters she loved so much rather than living with
In this example, Lily displays her admiration for the First Lady because of her apparent desire to ‘fly away.’ This indirectly characterizes her as free-spirited and one who would love
This parallels with the Christian belief that Mary is the
With love, we can be accepted into a community, or accept ourselves. During a religious procedure where everyone gets to touch the black Mary’s heart, Lily states, “June kept playing while each of them came, until there was only Rosaleen and me left. May nodded to June to keep on with the music,” (Kidd 111). The Black Mary itself symbolizes maternal figures, representing strength and guidance. The Daughters of Mary put their belief and trust in Black Mary to guide them, shown by them touching her heart.
And Deborah loved him. But when Deborah told T-ray about being pregnant thats when he got mad and they got married. So lily probably thought at this point that T-ray never did love her.then august told her that her mother did come to stay here leaving her behing for a couple months. Lily was thinking that her mother didn’t love her because she left without her and didnt come back. After that lily was mad at her mother that she didnt love her own daughter.
Continuing, another theme that led us through Lily’s adventure of growing up was her discovering how important storytelling was. She was going through gruesome horrid things, and when she read things like Shakespeare she realized how important it was because it helped her escape to a fantasy world for a little bit of time. Lastly, Lily learns the power of the female community. Lily grew up without a mother, so for a large chunk of her life she didn’t know the real power the female community held.
In the book The Secret Life of Bees by Sue Monk Kidd It is shown throughout the novel Lily the protagonist has a complicated relationship with her mother. What makes their relationship complicated is the fact Lily doesn’t know much about her mother and any information no matter how insignificant it still matters to her. ”My mother’s name was Deborah. I thought it was the prettiest name I have ever heard... Once I asked him(him being T.Ray her father) when her birthday wa or favorite icing she preferred.”
The readers can visualize Rosaleen’s physical appearance through Lily’s description, which represents that she is a colored woman. Within Rosaleen and Lily’s relationship, they benefit from one another. Rosaleen takes care of Lily as if she were her own, true daughter. Rosaleen gets the opportunity to be able to protect and love someone other than herself. For Lily, since her mother is absent, Rosaleen is her new guardian.
A lot of folks won't buy it 'cause it's got the Virgin Mary pictured as a colored woman.” (Kidd 64) In this quote, Lily is actually taken by surprise when she finds out that the black Mary on the honey jar was identical to the picture of Mary she had. Naturally, the store owner assumed she was shocked because of the fact that there was a colored woman on the jar; he jumps straight to a prejudiced
Lily ponders the idea of why it is so difficult for people to forgive. There is someone else Lily must forgive: herself. Lily's first reaction, when August tells her Deborah married T. Ray because she was pregnant with Lily, is that it was all her fault that Deborah was burdened with such a terrible husband. Then, when Lily tells August her story about how she happened to come to the Boatright house, she explains with tears and misery that she hates herself and is a worthless person who isn't worthy of love. Before she can become whole and love herself, Lily must forgive herself for killing her mother, and she must understand that this was an accident that she can't go back and fix.
Lily soon realizes that they do not see her as white. They think she is the same as everyone
Although losing her mom was a great tragedy it led her to where she is now and where she found the Boatwright family. Killing her mom was the only way she would have found the picture of the black Mary with Tiburon, S.C. on the back.
Love can cause the happiness of the people who receive it, it strengthens and brings out sides of us that we were too scared to embrace, and it causes people to make sacrifices for the benefit of others. Love in this novel was the very core of optimism for many characters. A character who gained the most out of the love of others
She finds herself in a small town called Tiburon in South Carolina, living with August Boatwright who was once her mother’s maid. After staying in Tiburon for a while, Lily calls her father, curious if he knows what her favourite colour is. They only spoke for a short period of