Honour Killings in Jordan
From the start, Marwa was an exception. Growing up in the northern Jordanian city of Irbid, her extended female family members sought marriage after high school, opting out of further education. However, Marwa's father insisted she pursue the latter - valuing education over societal customs. She was able to attend university for an entire year before her life took a dramatic turn for the worst. During one of the routine taxi rides she took to get home from her classes, the taxi driver took her down an unfamiliar route. Demanding to be let out of the moving vehicle, Marwa's pleas went unheard as the driver continued on until suddenly stopping the car and dragging her out. He led Marwa to an empty room and forced himself
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This paper discusses the underlying psychological processes and cultural factors that lead to the commitment of hateful crimes against Jordanian women by evaluating the societies perceptions of women and how they came to that conclusion. Finally, the means of reducing this clear discrimination against women will be derived.
Subtle and automatic discrimination is described by psychological literature as a set of often unconscious beliefs and associations that affect the attitude and behaviour of members of the in-group(the general population) towards members of the out-group (unchaste women) (nap.edu). In the case of Jordan when it comes to honour this type of subtle discrimination can be described as ambivalent discrimination which basically means that the out-groups are not necessarily subjected to uniform antipathy (Fiske et al., 2002). It is related to the social role theory where masculinity and femininity result in the formation of gender moulds. Masculinity is usually praised and given high regards and respect in neo-patriarchal Jordanian societies. Various sayings and proverbs glorify men, their image as well as their masculinity. This ultimately lead to men adjusting accordingly and ultimately consider themselves as guardians of their female relatives allowing themselves to “police and chastise” women (jstor
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The importance attached to sexual reputation is one of the ways men police women. While women on the other hand police each other through the spread of rumours (jstor). Women are expected to abide by social norms and conform to the society’s expectations or they might be killed (jstor).Threats are felt because of reputations and rumours that might cause the initial group (the family and\or society) feel threatened by the dishonour that the second group (so-called “unchaste” women) has brought upon them. The integrated threat theory brings about a fine discussion regarding the types of threats, but a type that fits perfectly with honour killings is the symbolic threat. It “primarily involves perceived group differences in morals, values, standards, beliefs and attitudes”. “These arise, in part, because the in-group believes in the moral rightness of it’s system of values” (Oskamp, google books). When the in-group’s values are threatened by the out-group it is considered to be prejudice (Oskamp, google book). In this specific case, an “honourable” reputation is part of the in-groups system of values and any female that breaks away from these social norms is perceived as problematic and threatening to ones values and culture. This threat often comes in the form of public humiliation and more rumours. Societal pressures to conform stresses the importance of cleansing ones honour by
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The abuse of human life that has happened over the course of history is something that no one should have ever experienced, although similar violence still goes on today. It is a question to ask as in the book Night, “Can this be true? This is the twentieth century, not the Middle Ages. Who would allow such crimes to be committed?” Although people have grown over time to accept people of different color, religion and believes there is still hate crimes in the world today.
In the story “Girl” by Jamaica Kincaide shows that the authority figure’s advice is having a negative impact because she’s forcing the girl to conform to social norms. Throughout the entire story the speaker is reading off a list of things the girl has to do. The only time the speaker brings up a fun topic she turns it into something negative when she says “don’t squat to play marbles- you are not a boy, you know;” This is telling the girl that she cannot have any fun because she is a girl. Telling girls to act in a certain manner can affect their self esteem in a negative way. When someone is forced to conform it is a rejection of individuality which leads to a lack of respect and appreciation for that person.
The repute of the adult is in danger based on the girl’s actions. However, the repute of the girl is also important, as the adult is seen as saving her from getting the wrong attention from society. For example, the adult also says: This is how to hem a dress when you see the hem coming down and so to prevent yourself from
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In the article, “Marked Women, Unmarked Men,” Tannen differentiates how women and men are judged prematurely by their attire and appearance. She explains how women are judged and marked but men are not, but I believe that men are also marked in society. Tannen’s article, written in 1993, relates relatively well to today’s judgemental society. Her article takes place during a conference meeting of eight men and four women. Instead of Tannen concentrating on the meeting, she began to examine the attire of the men and women.
In the short story, “A&P”, by John Updike, the central idea is that you are always being judged even when you think you aren’t. The author’s use of characterization helps reveal the central idea through the three girls. The three girls physical appearance were constantly being judged by society. Through Lengel’s actions and one of the girls be referred to as Queenie, the reader becomes aware of how judgmental society is toward females. In fact, Lengel goes on to say, “we want to decently dress when you come in here” (3).
A. PREAMBLE The terrorist attack on September 11, 2001 has sparked intense curiosity and interest in the world especially the West to learn and investigate the religion of Islam. The Muslim people are portrayed as violent and barbaric, and Islam as oppressive and antithesis to human rights values. Thus, escalation of public opinion about Islam has encouraged debates and forums, and also stirred demonstrations and movements which have compelled the Muslims to speak out their minds and interpret and recast their texts viz. Quran and Sunnah of prophet Mohammad and even question and challenge the prevailing culture and practices, and domineering structures.
The post 9/11 world we live in today is dangerous, confusing, and depressing. Everywhere you look there is a television screen bombarding you with more information than your brain can handle. This overload of news concerning worldly affairs has led to mass confusion, fear and anger. The by-product of these feelings is prejudice. In order to truly understand what “Prejudice against Muslims” means, we need to examine and understand the causes behind the negative attitude held by many against Muslims.
How Internalized Misogyny Affects Women in the 21st Century Internalized misogyny is the phrase that describes the phenomenon which occurs due to the institutional pervasiveness of sexism towards women in society. Misogyny within society leads to the internalization of misogyny where women are then affected by it and direct it towards themselves and other women (Bearman et al.). In the 21st century, internalized misogyny affects women in multiple ways, including seeing other women as competition, women demeaning themselves and their achievements, and the further objectification of women. Internalized oppression is a result of cultural violence because it contributes to “the subordination of oppressed groups.”
Obtaining and defending one's honor defines a person's life the community conveyed in Gabriel García Marquez’s novela Chronicle of a Death Foretold. Honor is an intangible prize that is synonymous with worship and good reputation. In the small town that this chronicle takes place in is very divided through gender. For a woman to be respected highly and maintain her honor she must be pure and practice chastity before marriage. Opposed to that, for a man to be considered with honor, he perform hyper-masculinity in everything that he does, and treat everyone with this pugnacious attitude.
Apparently, men do fear of women; and they put their fear on display with various exhibitions of hatred, which is sweeping broadly, cross-culturally, consecutively over time as a result of mental perturbation, not an endeavour to generate and elevate beneficial environment for a male-biased system. Described as one of men’s psychological anxiousness, misogyny owes its origin to “identical experiences of male’s development cycle, rather than causes by the environment alone” (2001). In other words, men’s development cycle is to blame for their inner struggle; and without uttering it directly, the implied word is “mother” and/ or “wife”. Ultimately, his work on misogyny itself is misogynistic because the underlying message is clear: despite being left with no voice and just a few choices, being victims of brutality, violence and hatred, women themselves are the root of the