Many societies are progressing forward to the new era of gender role equality. The long-overlooked notions of women belonging in the kitchen and being unqualified for masculine jobs, are now brought to light for discussion. The words, “feminist” and “feminism”, rose to attention during the discussions of gender equality. It was first officially listed in the Oxford English Dictionary in 1852. Feminism refers to someone who is supportive of equality between the sexes. Although there might have been minor feminist activities throughout history; it was not recognized fully until the early 20th century, which marked the first wave of feminism throughout the world (DeFonza). Gender roles are embedded in many cultures, and to this day some …show more content…
In the book, A Thousand Splendid Suns, Khaled Hosseini portrayed the oppressive nature through the depictions of women’s daily lives, with Mariam and Laila as the major characters, in the Afghani …show more content…
Nana is the mother of Mariam and the mistress of Jalil, a wealthy upper-class Afghani man. Nana was portrayed as the elder woman, who is unsatisfied with her life and resents men for their treatment of women. Through Nana’s banishment from Jalil’s house by Jalil’s wives after she was impregnated by him, Hosseini demonstrated that it was socially and culturally acceptable for men to have several wives but the blame will be put upon the woman if she was to have an affair. Jalil defends himself by accusing Nana of forcing it on him, which led to Nana stating that “Like a compass needle that points north, a man’s accusing finger always finds a woman” (Hosseini 7). This statement is of significance because later on in the novel, various situations that is relatable to this statement occur. The comparison emphasizes the patriarchal social system of Afghanistan and how the women can never escape the blame put upon by the men. Incapable of circumventing the unjust treatment under the fundamentalist system, Nana turned to one solution – endure. Toward the beginning of the book, Mariam asked for Nana’s approval for her to attend school. Mariam’s request was denied, and Nana responded with “There is only one skill a woman like you and me needs in life… And it’s this tahamul, Endure” (Hosseini 17). That response indicates the women’s condition on several aspects of stringent Afghani
The idea that Muslim women are oppressed and need saving from the veil itself is part of the ethnocentric view that Westerners have of muslims. Afghani women, in particular have to deal with white feminists trying to free them from this restriction. Lila Abu-Luhgod gives us some insight on what this certain issue looks like from an anthropologists’ point of view. In page 396, Abu-Luhgod takes a different approach to the issue by providing the reader with an example of work done in a different country in the wrong way.
The author provides various examples on how women were greatly undermined while under the Taliban rule. To begin, towards the middle of the novel, Najmah is converted into Shaheed because it was safer to be dressed as a boy, especially when traveling. "'We will walk through the mountains, where there is snow, and these will protect you. You will be safer dressed as a boy traveling through strange areas' I obey without thinking" (Staples 85). The Taliban made women feel particularly vulnerable to society, forcing many like Najmah to hide their true selves. "
In the book A Thousand Splendid Suns, women are mistreated and abused on a daily basis. It is pointed out multiple times that a man will always find a woman to blame. In the book Mariam and Laila's husband, Rasheed is very abusive to them, and always blames them for things that are not their fault. This eventually causes him to be killed by his wives, because they could not stand him anymore.
Khaled Hosseini not only shows the discrimination of minority groups but introduces the notion that people will discriminate not based on their personal views but upon which they believe as their role in society. In Afghanistan culture “Nang and namoos” defined as "pride" and "honor or dignity" is incredibly valued in the culture with people outwardly going out of their way to maintain their reputation. However, in his two novels Khaled Hosseini presents the idea that this pride inevitably leads to the discrimination of another. This is demonstrated In a Thousand Splendid Suns by the characters Jalil and Rasheed due to the way they treat those closest to them. For instance, Jalil ousts Nana outside of his home upon receiving news that she is expecting his illegitimate child.
Laila also grew up with a mentally ill mother, but had a stable, present father that was there to offer support and encouragement. Her father not only allowed her to receive an education, but empowered her to do so. It is highlighted throughout the novel how the upbringing and home environment of two young women can affect the woman that they eventually will become. In the first part of the book, the reader is introduced to Mariam.
In the novel ‘Boy Overboard’ written by Morris Gleitzman, female characters were disadvantaged by the oppression. Females suffer from sexual abuses, prostitution, child labor, rape and struggle to win attention and voice from the society. In the time period of the domination of the Taliban, female's voice and rights start to diminish. They had to start covering themselves with long layers of garment and be more aware of their surrounding community as that they might harm them. With the disturbs of the taliban which is an islamic fundamentalist group that is still ruling parts of Afghanistan, Pakistan and other countries around, it makes it hard for a women to have freedom.
A Thousand Splendid Suns’ was written by an Afghan American writer, Khaled Hosseini. The novel narrates the strength and resilience of two women who endure physical and psychological cruelty in an anti-feminist society. It also demonstrates how The Taliban uses fear and violence to control the people of Afghanistan, particularly females. Throughout this story the novel exposes the way customs and laws endorse Rasheed’s violent misogyny and it tells the tale of two women who endure a marriage to a ruthless and brutal man, whose behavior forces them to kill him. The protagonist Mariam is a poor villager who lives in a remote area in Afghanistan, in contrast to Laila who is a smart, educated daughter of a schoolteacher.
In A Thousand Splendid Suns, Hosseini’s use of cruelty reveals key aspects of both Rasheed and Mariam as well as essential ideas about the nature of cruelty itself. Rasheed’s cruelty towards Mariam reveals his values of male superiority as well as his thirst for dominance and control. In the Afghanistan society, men rule over women just as Rasheed rules over Mariam. The belief is
Many people unfairly judge and stereotype others in the Muslim culture based on the actions of certain members in their society. They begin to think that all Muslims are the same, which is not true, which is a message conveyed in A Thousand Splendid Suns. In this novel, the author, Khaled Hosseini, portrays the different Muslim lifestyles by using fictional characters in possible scenarios. Throughout the story, the contrast between the roles of men and women prove that their ways of living and their personal beliefs are not all the same.
The truth of her words is reflected not only in Jalil’s mistreatment of Nana, but also in Rasheed’s mistreatment of both Mariam and Laila. In addition, Naghma’s story of the mullah’s son who betrayed her emphasizes how the use of women as scapegoats did not just occur in the lives of Nana, Mariam and Laila, but throughout Afghanistan. Hosseini proves that the mistreatment of women throughout the novel stemmed from the tendency of Afghani men to blame women for events or circumstances that the women could not control or for which they were not solely
Great writers create great characters. In the novel, A Thousand Splendid Suns, Khaled Hosseini describes the life of Mariam and Laila. They both begin simple lives, but as time progresses, they cross paths and go through the worst hardships they could imagine. Hosseini uses the weather to symbolize and characterizes the outcomes of Mariam and Laila’s life. Hosseini uses the weather as a symbol to describe the circumstances of Mariam’s life.
Khaled Hosseini uses imagery to weave together the stories of Mariam and Laila, two Afghan women, in A Thousand Splendid Suns. Mariam and Laila, who come from two different generations, end up being married to the same cruel man, Rasheed, and eventually form an everlasting bond of love and dependence. The author's descriptions of space reflect the atmosphere in the setting and application of seasonal and weather imagery foreshadows the ensuing events. The distinction between the space in Nana's kolba and Rasheed's home correspond with Mariam's feelings toward those characters and her level of comfort.
Equality of genders is a basic human right that all should posses. However, in the novel A Thousand Splendid Suns, by Khaled Hosseini, the reader explores Afghanistan’s true nature of extreme gender inequality towards women and how it affects all the characters within the novel. The novel explores how within a marriage, women have unequal rights, undergo major amounts of physical abuse, and are emotionally and mentally tormented by their very own supposedly beloved husbands. A marriage is defined as a union of two people as partners in a personal relationship.
• Feminism is about contesting systemic inequalities, and seeking equal treatment and opportunity for both genders. • Feminism is not against marriage but respect individual informed choice and does not believe in double standard in judging a person’s conduct. • Feminists acknowledge that equal rights translate into equal accountability. Although feminism continues to be non-monolithic and contentious, it has made several progress and created new worlds of possibility for working women, education, empowerment and even arts.
Women are also used as sexual objects in commodity advertisements. The result of this objectification is the enforcing of that ideology of gender inequality. In conclusion, if we are to get rid of this ideology of gender inequality, we need to bring changes in social and traditional systems. To change these systems in Afghanistan, there is a prior need for changes in current political system which is mostly dominated by conservative warlords and undemocratic tribal power brokers.