In addition to financial struggles, women during the eighteenth century faced social pressures from family members and the community. Marriage was the only escape from spinsterhood, which was looked upon as dishonorable (Teachman). For Jane Bennet, social pressures influenced her entire relationship with Mr. Bingley. Introduced at the beginning of the story, Mr. Bingley was considered the most amiable bachelor for the young ladies due to his wealth and high social stature. Immediately after meeting, Jane becomes head over heals for Mr. Bingley, which to many is romantic and can be seen as the “perfect” match. Yet in Jane Austen’s perspective, Jane’s infatuation with Mr. Bingley is too hasty to be consider actual love. Austen created …show more content…
Wickham. Following only her aspirations, Lydia ignored her financial responsibilities to her family and completely disregarded practically in order to gain the social benefits that come with marriage, such as being respected as an adult. Jane Austen added Lydia’s hasty elopement to contrast Charlotte Lucas’ sensibility behind her martial decision. Charlotte’s marriage can be considered the safe option whereas Lydia’s could be considered social suicide due to the fact that it caused family woes and could have potentially ruined the Bennet’s reputation if not for Mr. Darcy’s anonymous intervention. In addition, Lydia’s marriage allowed the audience to understand the importance of reputation within society. When Lizzie learned that Lydia had run away with Wickham, she was immediately concerned with her family’s notoriety, not with her sister’s happiness as most people today would be. The honor of the family was always more prominent than the feelings of the individual, yet Lydia did not have any apprehension for the hardships her family could have faced due to her spur-of-the-moment decision based on passion. While this passionate union caused family woes, it purposely allowed the audience to interpret the superiority of Lizzie and Darcy’s marriage, which consisted of true love, mutual respect, as well as responsible and sensible passion. Whereas Lizzie and Darcy had passion for one another, Wickham’s passion was driven by wealth while Lydia was enchanted by the idea of being a married
Austen writes, “‘Wickham will never marry a woman without some money. He cannot afford it. And what claims has Lydia, what attractions has she beyond youth, health, and good humour, that could make him for her sake, forego every chance of benefiting himself by marrying well?’” (214). Here, Lydia’s positive qualities are listed off: that she is young, healthy, and
Elizabeth then learns that the prior summer, Mr. Wickham made an attempt to elope with Mr. Darcy’s sister to obtain her dowry. Elizabeth immediately realizes that Mr. Wickham is an evil man who only thinks about himself. Mr. Wickham fabricated a false narrative about Darcy so Elizabeth would “expose” him. Mr. Wickham bases his decisions on his bad reputation and excessive debt. Because of Mr. Darcy, Mr. Wickham remains in debt to every tradesman in the country.
Fitzwilliam Darcy that Darcy was accountable for splitting Bingley from Jane "he [Darcy] congratulated himself of having lately saved a friend [Bingley] from the inconveniences of a most imprudent marriage"(CHAPTER). Just then Darcy appears and Elizabeth is indifferent to his preliminary questions about her health. Then all of a sudden he exclaims out his marriage proposal to her saying "you must allow me to tell you how [passionately] I admire and love you." Elizabeth is surprised, and for a few moments flabbergasted, and then composes herself and rejects him. In the novel, Elizabeth expresses herself saying she would only marry for love while Darcy does declare his affection for her, ruins it all by saying “ that he loves despite her family’s inferiority to his own; he loves her despite all his [endeavors] to [conquer] his love’’ (Find the quote in the book).
Lydia told her family that “we mean to treat you all[...] but you must lend us the money, for we have just spent ours at the shop out there[... ]Look here, I have bought this bonnet. I do not think it is very pretty; but I thought I might as well buy it as not.” (Austen 216). Lydia proves the typical female stereotypes of this time period.
Elizabeth realizes in the midst of her distresses regarding Lydia and Mr. Wickham that she loves Mr. Darcy. 3. The one thing that Elizabeth finds consoling in Lydia’s letter is how serious she was in the object of her journey. 4. Mr. Gardiner’s express letter reports that Mr. Wickham and Lydia have not married, but have been convinced to get married.
She learns to love and respect Darcy out of her own free will, despite what her family thinks. Elizabeth listens to others and learns who Darcy is despite society. When she learns that his housekeeper has “never known a cross word from him in [her] life, and [she has] known him ever since he was four years old” (pg 252) along with all of the other wonderful things she hears about him, her opinion of him begins to alter. Elizabeth wanted to marry someone that she loved. Darcy is looked down upon for admiring Elizabeth but is so strong in his opinion that he does not let others influence him.
The thesis statements that appear in the narrative are: the importance of wealth and social status, the marriage of convenience, the pride – depicted by Elizabeth Bennet- and the prejudice -embodied by Mr. Darcy-. She intertwines the critic on the social values of the time with a love story, perhaps in order to make her work more attractive to the public. To my mind, Jane Austen was not only a great author but also a woman ahead of her time. While everyone else was just content with what they had, she was able to see beyond and be critic with her time; a time of change, especially in Britain, an era of constant evolution and transformations determined by
After hearing stories of Mr. Darcy treating him unfairly Elizabeth begins to fall for Mr. Wickham. Along with a bad first impression of each other, another obstacle they face is Mrs. Bennett’s interest in Elizabeth marrying for money and not for love. Mrs. Bennett wants her daughters to have the wealthiest husband they can find, which is why her daughters went to Mr. Bingley’s
Wickham manages to turn a majority of the characters in the novel against Mr. Darcy. He shapes the story into a cry for pity for himself due to the wrongdoings done to him by Darcy. Somehow, Mr. Darcy remains the better man, refusing to let his anger overtake him and in the end acting as a savior to the Bennett family name. Although he was never deceived himself, Mr. Darcy takes the hits from Mr. Wickham’s deception of others. Jane Austen, author of Pride and Prejudice, pulls on the heartstrings of readers, sending them on a rollercoaster of emotions and sympathy for first Mr. Wickham and then Mr.
Initially, Lydia’s characterisation as “self-willed and careless…ignorant, idle, and vain” foreshadows her eventual elopement with elopement being a punishable offense under the Hardwicke Act of 1753 which enables Austen to advocate a sense of independence, tempered with values of prudence and consideration for others. After Wickham deceitfully claims “Till I can forget his father, I can never defy or expose him”, the dramatic irony in the omniscient narration “Elizabeth honoured him for such feelings” exposes Elizabeth’s prejudiced dislike towards Darcy formulated from appearance and emotion rather than rationality. However, Elizabeth overcomes her prejudgement after reading Darcy’s letter, shown through the cumulative listing “Astonishment, apprehension, and even horror, oppressed her”, resulting in the ephiphany "she had been blind, partial, prejudiced, absurd”, typifying the impact of the epistolary style in promoting introspection and re-evaluation of one’s morality. Consequently, the satirisation of the Regency value of Physiognomy in Elizabeth’s perceptive monologue, "There was some great mismanagement in (their) education. One (Darcy) has got all the goodness, and the other (Wickham) all the appearance of it" validates Elizabeth’s moral development, highlighting the importance of responsiveness to feedback in
Lydia Bennet, the youngest out of the five sisters in the Bennet family, was known to be ecstatic, flirtatious, confident, and a boy-crazy teenager. Lydia always finds a way to get herself into situations, and unconscious because her father payed no heed, while she is favoured by her mother. Lydia came across and man named Mr. Wickham, who comes from a poor family and seems to be a perfect gentleman unlike the other men. He turns out to be a womanizer, dishonest, a gambler, and a foe to the Bennet family. The great dismay of her upbringing led to “neither Lydia’s virtue nor her understanding would preserve her from falling easy prey.”
Sadly, what could have been an engagement fell through when Lefroy’s family intervened. They did not consider Austen to be a suitable match as she did not have much to offer in terms of wealth. The role of wealth and class would become constant in Austen’s novels dealing with love and marriage. It is probable that her disappointment over this brief romance affected the content of her writing. Austen would continue on as a single woman in full pursuit of a professional writing career.
These feelings continued to blossom when she visited his home in Pemberley later in the novel. The housekeeper’s description of Darcy as the “sweetest-tempered, most generous-hearted, boy in the world” further convinced Elizabeth that she may have presumed incorrectly in the past. She was shocked to discover, upon Darcy’s sudden return, that he acted just as portrayed. "Never in her life had she seen his manners so little dignified, never had he spoken with such gentleness as on this unexpected meeting." Ultimately, she learned of Darcy’s efforts in the paying of Wickham's debts and in the arrangement of Wickham’s marriage with Lydia.
He goes to visit the Bennets in search for a wife. He is told that Jane is taken and then catches an eye for Elizabeth and confidently proposes to her but she rejects his offer. He then later settles for Charlotte Lucas, Elizabeth’s close friend. She agrees as she is desperate to get married and knows that he will be able to provide for her.
Elizabeth writes to Mrs. Gardiner to find out why Darcy was there. Mrs Gardiner writes back explaining how Mr. Darcy had gone and convinced Mr. Wickham to marry Lydia. When Mr. Darcy did this, he saved the family's honor. Elizabeth thinks to herself “her heart did whisper that he had done it for her”. (279)