When I was a kid, I loved being outside and jumping rope. One day was different, I kept falling and was getting bruised and hurt. However, I stayed optimistic and went back outside. I was failing every time, but I was determined to get it right. Therefore, even though I was in a bad situation and kept getting hurt, I stayed hopeful and positive that I would get it at one point. The book titled, The Last Lecture is the story and knowledge of Randy Pausch. Pausch was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer and was given the prognosis of only a couple months to live. He knows his kids won't have a father growing up, so he puts his parenting and life lessons into this book. The purpose was for his kids, that way they would have some kind of understanding …show more content…
During Randy’s lecture, he tells his audience that since he got his cancer, he learned that the only decision you get in life is how you react to the things it throws at you. He states in his speech, “We cannot change the cards we are dealt, just how we play the hand” (Pausch, 17). It is important because it shows that you have to deal with what happens to you and not just stay in denial on the bad situations, which is exactly what Randy did. That is how Randy stays positive about his cancer. He knows he can’t change what had happened, so he changes how he lives his life. In another chapter where Randy has to make decisions based on his cancer is in chapter 12, titled ‘The Park Is Open Until 8 p.m.’. Randy learns while knowing he has a couple months to live, that he is willing to do anything for his family. Pausch goes to the hospital and states, “I told doctors that I’d be willing to endure anything in their surgical arsenal, and I’d swallow anything in their medicine cabinet, because I had one objective: I wanted to be alive as long as possible for Jai and the kids.” (Pausch, 58). Randy acknowledges and realizes the main effect his terminal cancer has on him. The effect is his willingness to do anything to spend more time with the people he loves. Staying alive for as long as possible becomes his main mission in life, …show more content…
Pausch knew the time he had left was short and he had to make it last. That is exactly what Randy did. He states, "Time is all you have. And you may find one day that you have less than you think" (Pausch, 111). He knows how valuable his words are to some people. Some people ignore them because they think that they won't be that person and it won't happen to them. However, that's exactly the type of person who could end up realizing they have five months to live. The whole entire chapter is devoted to time, but to savor and enjoy that time is the most important. When it comes down to it, the real reason Randy wants to do the lecture and write a book is for his kids. As he says at the end of his lecture, "The talk wasn't just for those in the room. It was for my kids" (Pausch, 200). Randy knows the real reason for doing everything. Flying out of state to do a lecture on his wife's birthday and preparing a long presentations and speech. That reason was his kids. He knows as many memories they create together, they still couldn't have his knowledge and love growing up. This is why he created his book, so they could still have him in their lives, even when he's gone. He realizes his kids and wife are the reason he cherishes time, because he spends all of it with them or dedicates it all to them. While talking about his kids he claims, "I know memories of me may be fuzzy. That's why I'm trying to do
In the beginning of this book, he talks about how the family is making so much money off of the show, but they don’t let that affect their relationships within the family and his daily life. He says, “Even though I might have a few more dollars in my bank account, I’m still the same guy. I like fishing and duck hunting, and I enjoy the beauty of what God created” (vii). I realize this is important as a result of often times when a family becomes famous and starts to gain a large amount of money, the family usually doesn’t have good relationships. And even though they have busy, wealthy lives, they don’t let that affect their relationship between each other or their religion.
The Last Lecture Thinking about finding out when you're going to die. Randy Pausch was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer. Her had a thriving career and a loving family with no regrets of the way he spent his life. For he had already achieved most of his childhood dreams. What was responsible for Randy's success in achieving his childhood dreams aware the characteristics of being earnest, working hard, and communicating with the people around him.
Where are we going? Where is my family? When will I see them again?” This shows how not having his family there affects him because he can’t stop thinking about them, which can make him upset and then weaker and
He is a hardworking man who wanted his children to have everything they needed. The evidence is shown, “You’ve been working too hard. You need a rest”(Bradbury 47). He is working hard for his children and he wants to give his best. The text shown, “But nothing’s too good for
He is able to refocus during these times of frustration, and he continues to care for his father until he passes
His inability to move on highlights the lasting impact of loss and the profound effect it has on one's life
He uses an inspiring tone to encourage the reader that the things in this life are worth fighting for and worth fighting against. His ultimate goal is to emphasize to the reader that we should not let our life go to waste, since it is guaranteed to end one day.
I couldn't tell anyone else. My friends--- they'd think I was off my rocker or turning soft. Maybe I am. I just know that I'm sick of this whole mess” (116). This quote shows that Randy has been suppressing his grief for Bob’s death for a while due to the suppressive feelings surrounding his friend group.
After the father breaks the bind that kept him to his trauma, it could be assumed that he lived the rest of his life with his
His mentioning of the children causes his wife to imagine what fulfilling an upbringing they could have. Downe states that “I would rather cross the Atlantic ten times than hear my children cry for victuals once,” to convince his wife that his motivations for moving to America were for the children. It could be argued that there was a hint of guilt used to make his wife ponder if she is being cruel for keeping the family there. His choice of words serve him by reminding his wife of his love for their family and causing a sense of longing in
By removing the images of what it meant to truly live, placed there by his environment, and looking within himself, his attitude towards death changes to allow a more holistic acceptance of what is to
Doing this makes his words, his lessons on the Meaning of Life more likely to be absorbed by the readers of the novel, just as Mitch absorbed them during his time talking to his dying professor. He calls out how preposterous the common fear of aging is, pointing out how
It seems to be the time that Randy wants to re - invent