Life Experience, Education, and Volunteer Experience
My decision to seek admission into the graduate social work program was one I have not taken lightly. I am one of the countless individuals who put family and others first to raise my kids and provide for my family. There were several hurdles along the way, for instance, becoming a single mom, at the age of twenty, before I even had a chance to adjust to the idea of becoming a mom. My mother was single for most of my childhood and was a significant role model throughout my life. She showed me how to love, respect, and appreciate the things that mattered. I worked whatever job I could find to provide the necessities of life but found myself continuing to repeat the same mistakes. Five
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We ran away to Vegas to get married. Although I informed all my family, nobody showed up, which devastated me. We started our new life off with little to no support but determined to succeed and prove my family wrong.
Sadly, my husband struggled to hold down a job, due to his alcohol abuse. I felt abandoned as if he was having an affair with booze. I covered most of this up from my family and protected him fiercely, so much so that even he felt as though I was on his side. Nine years, three kids, a dog and a man who was exactly who he portrayed himself to be, I was done and we divorced. I believed the kids and I got away unscathed but I was so horribly wrong.
At first, I took a year to work on myself, everything from appearance and personality to personal goals. This new way of living appealed to a new group of friends and acquaintances and I was thrilled with the outcome. Two years passed and I started to date again. It was a scary endeavor and although I took it real casual for a while, I met the man of my dreams. I fell for him quickly and loved him in a way that I did not know was possible. The best part was how much he loved
Everyone has a story and a place where it all began. My story began in New Brunswick, New Jersey shortly after my second birthday. When I was two years old my parents finalized their divorce. This ignited a series of events that would teach me to be the independent, compassionate, and resilient young woman I am today.
When he bothered to show up, I would become so clingy, holding him ever so tightly. Little did I know that I was yearning for the stability to come back. I subconsciously made a promise to myself that I would obtain stability and I would find it in myself that time around. The divorce
Seeing her unhappy and unfulfilled made me determined to change the order that I make my choices in life. Don’t get me wrong, I want to have a family eventually. But instead of having a child first, like all of the women in my family before me, I want to complete my education and start my career. Family will come after. I would like to say that I figured this out on my own but my mom’s support and almost daily go-to lecture of, “I want you to be independent so you don’t have to depend on a man,” worked on me.
The number one thing I’ve learned in this entire process is that the only way anyone can rise from the ashes and make something out of the debris that is their life is to change themselves. I’m not talking about changing your zip code, or rearranging your face or other body parts. I’m talking about digging deep, looking within and taking responsibility and accountability for your own mess. For me, I had to accept that I should have never married my husband; I knew he wasn’t the man for me. I have to accept that I was impulsive and emotional and didn’t plan or prepare for my next step after telling my husband I was done.
Being raised in a single parent household my mother tried to take on both roles and raised me to become the man I am today. Always pushing to make A’s and B’s and be an honor roll for majority of my grade school career, and having me in school every day and
Before pursuing a career in social work, I was never really aware of what social workers were nor how valuable their role in society is. Throughout my childhood, I was never exposed to a life in which social workers were common figures. It was not until I went to high school that I got a better understanding of what the world really looked like and the importance of social workers. I went to a low-income high school in Homestead and it was truly an eye-opening experience. I was always accustomed to an environment with no violence or crime and when I moved there it was a depiction of a reality that I was not aware existed.
The prompt for this essay is quite simple: write about how your involvement in sports, community service, leadership, academics, and other extracurricular activities have affected your overall character. However, I feel as though this essay would be better if focused on my career in lacrosse and how it’s changed my life over the past five years, helping me throughout the good and bad, the simple and the challenging. Lacrosse has been a part of my life for about five years now. I started playing when I was in fourth grade, simply because I wanted to branch out and try something new, exciting, and a little bit out of my comfort zone.
This paper describes and analyzes a life review interview with an older adult. The purpose of this paper is to discuss, record and reflect on an older adult’s life in order to evaluate them on the last stage of Erik Erickson’s theory of psychosocial development; integrity versus despair. This paper will also focus on the elements of a life review as well as the reflections of the interview on the part of the author. JC is a seventy-seven year old white male who lives by himself in New York City. He was born in London, England, and was an only child.
I am confident that the skills that I will gain from completing a social work master’s degree will help me collaborate with people in need and aid sustainable growth in their lives. My first introduction to social work as a profession came while living on a small
The quality MSW program offered at Our Lady of the Lake will enable me to conduct research into, and increase my understanding of the diversity this program entails. I know that my adaptive personality will help me to form lasting connections to further build my professional goals. I believe that I my passion, drive, having an open mind and willingness to learn will grant me success as a Social Worker. I am determined to do all that I can to pursue a Master’s degree in Social Work and commit myself to improving the social and personal experiences of family’s, geriatrics, and children. After receiving my degree, I want to find a career in Child Welfare, while also servicing the geriatric
I am applying for a place to study social work because I have always wanted to be able to make a difference to people's lives. With social work I believe I can do this in a caring and supportive way. Many of my life experiences have led me to who I am today. The first thing I remember that caught my attention was how my cousin would always stay with my family. He would be spent weeks with at my house without contract with his parents.
Sounds like a deal too good to be true, right? He is the biggest mistake I ever made in my life. His mum and my dad were going to get married, what was I thinking getting in bed with him? Lucky me, he left town the next day. Lucky me, our parents called off the wedding; otherwise, I would never have been able to forgive myself.
Over the semester I have learned many new aspects of social work that have helped deepen my understanding of what social work is really about. This course has taught me things that will help me become a better person and will also help me with my future working with children. Self reflection is a key skill to have when working in social work. We need to understand how we are, and our social location, influence everything we do with social work. My beliefs and values would be beneficial for being a social worker because I have a caring no judgment, personality that allows me to be a neutral and to listen to people.
The past four years of my life hold both my highest of highs and my lowest of lows. High school can be a very awkward time period in a person’s life. Four years ago, I made the intimidating switch from St. Mary’s School to Algoma High School. There were certain aspects of high school which made me nervous, but academics was not one of them. I learned how to be a responsible student in my earlier years, and school had always come relatively easy to me.