In spite of their internal clash with each other, Korobi gets confused with Vic’s feelings of love and care towards her, “I’ll have to make my next decision: Vic or Rajat, America or India” (OG 218). This instability in the choices of her love and life is because of a strong lack of stability in her background life. Korobi doesn’t know the importance of love, life and relationship since she was brought up in boarding school. This atmosphere failed to make her understand about the exact meaning of love when she is young. All these factors caused disturbances within her to fall back in the hollowness of instability in love.
The reason of instability in love is because she doesn’t grow with her parents. Bond of parents is very essential in a
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Her emphasis on the culture and tradition of India brings out an individual’s sufferings which is responsible for the entire change in fate. Divakaruni accepts and respects the culture and tradition of India, but at the same time the cultural intolerance saddens her. Through this novel she proposes the new patterns of wisdom and compassion which provides new perspectives to the idea of marriage and love. She expertly portrayed the various facets of Korobi’s personality; how her instability in love made her to change, how she feels drawn towards Vic, her feelings for her fiancé, her failed attempts to find her father and finally her victory that made her to reach a balanced level of maturity in the process. She is aware of this fact:
Actually though I think of my female protagonists having both strengths and weaknesses. They are complex characters; they often make wrong decisions; this is as true of Korobi in Oleander Girl. Perhaps what distinguishes my characters is their courage and spirit and a certain stubbornness which enables them to keep going even facing a setback. I think it developed organically as I wrote but also it came out of a desire to portray women as powerful and intelligent forces in the world. (Times of India, May 6
The characters perceptions of the meaning of love differ vastly, leading them to lose sight of love’s meaning or purpose.
Love is a specialty Love consists of many stories and good times with your family and friends, but it also consists of many challenges along the way. In “Sketches”, Eric Walters explores the impacts that love can cause people who truly care about others and or are facing the same challenges as Dana. Furthermore, love can help in times of need and this is evident in Walter’s characterization of Dana and the gloomy yet helpful setting of Toronto. Eric Walters’ use of love in the setting, especially when they are alone on the streets at night and when Dana is in the sketches building, lets Dana, Brent, and Ashley realize that they love each other. He uses love as a primary setting when Dana, Brent, and Ashley are on the streets alone at night,
Do we really love what we do? In the article “In the Name of Love,” Miya Tokumitsu covers the issue that doing what you love (DWYL) gives false hope to the working class. Tokumitsu reviews how those who are given jobs ultimately cannot truly love what they do because of the employers who make jobs possible. These same employers keep their employees overlooked.
More often than not, society compels us to behave like genders we are not. For instance, when faced with challenges like finance, family issues and education, women are expected to be exceptionally strong. Likewise, when men are confronted with sensitive issues they are not expected to openly show their emotions like women. Some jobs description requires female
The more a person knows about themselves, the more they can trust themselves to make the right decisions in the future. A heroine needs to get to know themselves before they are fully a heroine. They need to be their own
Instead her personality makes the male characters change to accommodate to her, they realize that she is not
Women have always been portrayed as the weaker sex compared to men. It has been demonstrated in history itself and throughout literary works. Shakespeare’s Macbeth and Homer’s The Odyssey, however, portray women to be more powerful than men, even when their society thought otherwise and underestimated them because of their gender. Lady Macbeth, The Three Witches, Queen Arête and Penelope demonstrate the astute, charming, and ambitious side of women that was overlooked by men when it came to having power and making decisions.
There is a transformation in the image of women characters in the last four decades. Chitra Banerjee Divakaruni is one of the famous contemporary Indian English writers. Her novels give
Later, however, they also find a way to bring order and bring balance to the love. In the real world, love can just as easily be changed by order and chaos. But without chaos or order being involved in love, then love cannot last. Chaos and order, only together, can help preserve love in the
Arranged marriage is a controversial practice in many cultures around the world. However, studies have found that roughly 85 percent of Indians prefer to engage in this tradition, and have a higher rate of marrital success than a marriage based on personal choice. (Dholakia, 4) Yet, even considering these statistics, it remains a concept that is met with dissapproval, thought to be archaic and demeaning to those involved. Chittra Banerjee Divakaruni’s short story Clothes depicts a young woman transition, from being obliged to follow this cultural norm, and the shifts in her mentality throughout this process. It is not unreasonable for the reader to view the protagonist, Sumita, to be a victim of this presumably inhumane practice.
Can Societal Gender Roles Limit an Individual? A man is supposed to be strong, powerful, and well respected. What if all genders were seen in the same light? In most societies, past and present, men are viewed as the dominant gender.
Marriage and love is another theme that is highlighted within the story. Marriage is a new bond with love which builds up between a couple. But in the story, love and marriage are complicated and disparate attitudes on love and marriage are crystallized. Mr. Kapasi finds no comfort in his marriage. The environment also reflects the inner disputes on marriage between the characters.
According to this theory, nature of love is changing fundamentally and it can create either opportunities for democracy or chaos in life (Beck & Beck- Gernsheim, 1995). Love, family and personal freedom are three key elements in this theory. This theory states that the guidelines, rules and traditions which used to rule personal relationships have changed. “Individuals are now confronted with an endless series of choices as part of constructing, adjusting, improving or dissolving the unions they form with others” (Giddens, 2006). For instance, marriage nowadays depends on the willingness of the couples rather than for economic purposes or the urge to form family.
She describes as a strong and beautiful woman. Also, a woman in the male-dominant world seen as a weak and vulnerable
While men were portrayed as strong, brave and independent. Shakespeare was one of the few authors who challenged this stereotype. In Merchant of Venice he showed Portia as a submissive lady who had to follow her father’s will. Near the end of the play, however, she turned out to be a very strong, intelligent and independent lady. Men were shown as dominant at first , however, their roles were switched at the end when they seemed helpless and hopeless and they were saved by two women.