Mask On: The Study of My Professional Persona Nobody is really how they seem. In the book “Pathways to Bliss” the author Joseph Campbell explains that Carl Jung, the Swiss psychiatrist, tried to define the many parts of the human personality. In the explanations, he mentioned a big part of the human psyche, the Persona. He says, “Society has a number of roles that we need to play. We assume these roles just as an actor might slip into different pieces of a costume” (Campbell 71). Everyone has many of these costumes or masks; some of these include your Persona with your friends, family, and even your professional interactions. When I was offered the opportunity for a job interview, I put on a show with my most professional Persona in order …show more content…
Since I was expected by society to act a certain way in a professional setting, I changed my whole personality for the time that I was there. In order to get ahead in life you need to play different roles. Jung explains that “you should play your roll, knowing that it is not you” (Campbell 72). In contrast to my professional Persona, when I am with my friends and family I am usually humorous and outgoing because I have gotten to know those people and have been around them for so long. With strangers however I tend to keep to myself and do not usually approach anyone unless I need to. Even the general Icebreaking activities that are done in classrooms give me anxiety and makes my palms sweaty. My professional Persona consists of confidence, assertiveness, and communication skills while my Persona with friends and family varies but usually is less serious and more honest than the former. The mask I wore at my job interview was superficial and purely to benefit me. Without this mask I would almost be unrecognizable to
The writer’s use of anecdotes, imagery, irony, and considerate syntax, portrays an incident in his life when he was said to be a person that didn’t exist. Through this usage, the reader infers that the essay creates relatable incidents to the way society identifies individuals, that leads to the formation of individualist, specified personas. Society tends to stereotype individuals depending on substantial exteriors, which leads the individual to construct an altered persona depending on the society surrounding; such as family, strangers, teachers, etc. Somewhere along our life span, we have been “labeled” or classified as people we truly aren’t
The book Bridges Not Walls: A book about interpersonal communication Stewart identifies how communication shape and define who we are. In this reflective journal entry, I will use the quote “Identities are multidimensional and changing” (Stewart, 2012). Over the course of our life, we grow physically and mentally however some people like to believe the infamous quote “that’s just how I am” when someone is trying to assist them in growing their personal identity. That is a dangerous statement because it is proven that our identities are constantly changing with society.
Personal identity refers to the concept you develop of yourself that evolves over time. This includes aspects of your life you don’t have control over such as where you were born and raised, your skin color, and your sexuality. However, your personal identity may also contain things such as choices you make and what you believe. These aspects that are controllable are subject to change as you develop a better sense of self identity. Defining my self, I can attribute several processes that allow me to view certain aspects of my identity.
The way a person dress may or may not be connected to the type of person you are, In “The Minister’s Black Veil” by Nathaniel Hawthorne, Mr. Hooper wore a black veil to hide his sins. The appearance of someone may or may not be linked to personality because it could be based on religion and environment. The people from the church were judging Me. Hooper because it wasn't normal for people to wear that all day everyday. The people didn't take the time to listen to him and ask questions about it.
Caleb Bigley Professor Katherine Lang English 101 4 June 2016 Compare and Contrast: Authors’ Views on Texting Every author has their own unique and individual style of writing. That’s just who they are.
This is where the question of “Do I like who I am?” comes into play. Self-esteem, more so than the other major components of self, weighs heavily on how one interacts with others. For instance, if an individual is insecure about their uneven teeth because they are viewed as an imperfection, one may be less likely to willingly interact with others in fear of judgment. This lessens the amount of friendships made and overall lessens one’s confidence. On the other hand, if one is secure of who they are, it is evident in the way one communicates and their good feelings associated with life in
But by doing this, these people hide parts of themselves from others, making themselves seem one-dimensional. They hide behind these masks they form, and conceal themselves from the terrifying, outside world. Duality is then manifested from this side hidden from society, and for good or for bad, people learn these hidden aspects of themselves. Although others may not yet know of these hidden sides of subjects, one
An essential part of my personality everyone should know is its duality. I would describe myself as neuroticly introverted, but to any observer I probably seem like an extrovert, which would be a reasonable assumption, considering I address the school as class president and perform stand-up comedy of my own volition. This split in my personality took place in elementary school, back when my social skills were nonexistent. While most of the boys played football or soccer, I preferred to play pretend on the playground. Little did I know, I was missing out on a major portion of socialization by not playing sports and was instituting a self-imposed isolation.
In order to create a positive professional image, impression management must effectively accomplish two tasks, establishing credibility and maintain authenticity. When presenting yourself in a manner that is both true to self and valued and believed by others, impression management can yield a host of favorable outcomes, for a team, and an organization. On the other hand, when I present myself in an inauthentic manner, I’m likely to undermine health, relationships, and
The way one portrays his or her self can very quite differently from person to person. Clothes, makeup and jewelry are all superficial ways one can depict one’s self. In contrast, one can portray him or herself on a deeper more intimate level. Establishing the way a person wants to be portrayed is like learning to walk, it takes small productive steps to gain the strength and knowledge to get to the desired destination. Trials and tribulations illustrate and shape one’s true self.
How others see you is influenced by material, social, and physical constraints. This causes a tension between how much control you have in constructing your own identity and how much control or constraint is exercised over you. How we see ourselves and how others see us differ in many ways, but is an important factor of our identity. “A Lesson Before Dying”,
Everyone has a secret. As we go about our days, we all put up a persona to hide our secret, our shadow. In “Stay: the Archetypal Space of the Hotel”, Jennifer M. Volland introduces how hotels allow for fluidity between Carl Jung’s idea of persona and shadow; someone’s persona is how the world sees them, while their shadow is their secret self. In David Foster Wallace’s essay, “Shipping Out”, he recounts his seven night trip aboard a luxury cruise. In retelling his journey, we see Wallace’s persona that everyone else sees, but Wallace also allows us to see his shadow, paranoia.
Professional Presence and Influence When we ponder: what is means to be human, surely most of us today think this question relates to our own humanity. Maybe the thought of being a living creature capable of not only basic functions like breathing and eating but of internalizing experiences, memories, complex problem solving and communication. Or perhaps it could touch on the fact that we “humans” are beings of blood, flesh, bone and energy that interacts between one another. A human is all of these and more. How this relates to healing is story long and old.
A personality assessment is a method of examining and knowing human personality traits, this means getting to know the characteristics of various individuals such as behavior’s and social affiliations, to actualize this, we will be applying the Myers – Briggs Types Indicator (MBTI), of emotional intelligent (EI) Key word: Personality Assessment Introduction As we recalled from the above definition of personality assessment, is a method of examining and knowing human personality traits, this means getting to know the characteristics of various individuals such as behavior’s and social affiliations, to actualize this, we will be applying the Myers – Briggs Types Indicator (MBTI), of emotional intelligent
I manage my three identities by using them only when need it, for example, I only use my autonomy face when someone is trying to make a decision for me. I kind of put my serious face and tell them that I will decided and that they can’t make a decision for me. When I do this I am somewhat true to myself because I like to be a friendly person and I really don’t like to argue with anyone, but when it comes to someone deciding something for me, I really don’t tolerate that. I also only use my competence face at work because I don’t like to be treated like a dumb person that doesn’t know anyone.