REPENTANCE AND FORGIVENESS
IN ISLAM
INTRODUCTION :
Human are eligible to be perfect . Human makes mistakes in life as they are not angel and unwillingly commit sin which cannot be erased .
Forgiveness is a essential thought of mind in Islam . Muslims have a belief in Allah that he is so merciful that he will forgive all of their bad deeds.
There are two type of forgiveness which is mentioned below
• Allah forgiveness
• Human forgiveness
Human being is in need of them of both . It is necessary for a human being to ask for his forgiveness before his last breathes .
It is necessary in Islam to recognize your mistakes which had been commited before as for forgiveness it is essential to pure your heart from preventing similar one.
It is necessary to follow simple steps for the forgiveness !
As Allah says in the Quran :
"Do not despair of God 's mercy; He will forgive you of all your sins".Qur 'an (39:53).
As Allah loves his people who are guilty of thir deeds
Yet another place Allah say :
"And He wishes to forgive you" Qur 'an (4:146).
So it is clear from following verses that Allah loves his human being who is being guilty on their deeds and wants forgiveness on it STEPS OF DETERMINING YOUR SINS:
• Identity the wrong act :
The thing come first is to admit your wrong act , this is really a big act . To accept your bad deed is very difficult task to do because your ego come first before your thoughts which results in non accepting view formation .
This is a gloomy step
The “perpetrator” then reflects on their comment and feels guilty for it then transforms their attitude so they aren’t the “bad guy” anymore. I believe that forgiveness allows the perpetrator a chance for inner transformation and “to escape the whirlpool of wrongdoing” (Matthieu Ricard- 236)that they may feel caught
People choose forgiveness because they want to release the initial offender from their guilt and past action to form a better relationship with them. As Chernoff discusses, "When we release others from the penalties of their actions, we create a space where our own thoughtless actions against others can be forgiven as well”(1). The quote above explains how forgiving others can allow for a better relationship based off of forgiveness between the initial offender and the avenger. People forgive because they see it as the right thing to do. In the text, "In reality, I was just a man who got somebody mad-- mad enough to want to kill him-- and survived it.
Eva Kor says, “They can take a piece and a pen and write a letter to someone who hurt them. Please do not mail it to that person. It's for you to know that you forgive,and you can go on with your life without a burden and pain that the Nazis or anybody else ever imposed on you”(It's for you to know 3) You don't have to tell the person yourself that you forgive but you can move on by forgiving them for yourself. This helps people to move on so that they are forgiving and that they can be healed.
We are humans and a majority of us have dealt with heartache, pain, broken promises, along with the joyous things like dreams, aspirations, and successful futures. Humans mess up and make mistakes, but we have to remember that forgiveness is a very prestigious and powerful thing. Forgiveness affects people’s lives in positive ways through the hardships, difficulties, and struggles of life. There comes a time when forgiveness should not be available to some individuals. However, this depends on the past situations that have occurred in your life as well as other individuals.
Everyone has heard the saying “nobody is perfect” and it is true we are all humans, we all make mistakes sometimes, but to what extent does someone stop forgiving when they have endured all the hardship a person gives them after they have been forgiven several times. There is a certain point in life when some people do not deserve to be forgiven because every time that person is forgiven, that person takes advantage it because that person knows they will be forgiven. There is one very prominent character in a story who fits the reason of why some people do not deserve forgiveness, especially when they've been given multiple chances to do the right thing. That person is Amir from the book the Kite Runner by Khaled Hosseini.
“Are you a perfectionist?” when I asked this question most of my classmates say “No”. I used to agree with them because “A good man is hard to find” and “A perfect person is impossible”. You always think Perfectionism can’t exist, nobody has enough ability to touch it that why pencil have eraser. However “Is it true?”
Forgive, not because they deserve forgives, but because you deserve peace. It’s not easy to stop blaming someone’s fault, especially for someone who do wrong to us. In the book The Sunflower written by Simon Wiesenthal, a survivor of the Holocaust during World War II, he described his conflict with Karl, a dying Nazi soldier who killed many innocent Jews and begging for forgiveness for his outrageous crime at the end of his life. At the end of this sad and tragic episode, Simon did not response to Karl’s request directly; instead he left us a tough question: “What should you have done?” Based on what Karl had done during World War II and his repentance, each person might have their own point of view about where should we draw the line of forgiveness.
1. I feel that forgiveness is not for the other person, it’s a process that provides you the energy and the self-confidence to move on. One reason why is forgiveness is not for the other is because in my experience, forgiveness is a situation where serious harm has been done to you physically or mentally. The next steps are finding a way to relieve your conscious of the harm caused.
Everyone makes mistakes, commits sins or does some bad deeds. As time goes by, one is unable to live with all the guilt from these sins and mistakes. One regrets it, repents it and does all sorts of things to make it right. Ultimately one only looks for ways to forgive oneself and this requires the atonement of past sins. Atonement in real life refers to the actions of making amends for a wrong or an injury.
What Would I do? There are many definitions of forgiveness. The dictionary defines forgiveness as “The disposition or willingness to forgive.” I agree with that, but I believe that forgiveness also lies in the hands of the victim and varies based on the crime.
Forgiveness is a process, so you may need to let go more than once. Should the negative feelings reappear, be gentle with yourself, and choose to release them one more time. 7. I need to understand why before I can forgive.
What makes one willing enough to sacrifice her own life for others? How difficult can it be to willingly die for what one believes? What does it take to be a Christ-figure? Khaled Hosseini emphasizes the concept of sacrifice in A Thousand Splendid Suns. In this novel, Hosseini presents Mariam as a Christ-figure through her qualities and sacrifice.
Hence, a true redemption can only lead to a healed sin. Before one understands what is forgiveness, reconciliation and healing, one should know what it really means. Forgiveness means acceptance of the offender and restoring relationship. Such an act sets in motion a process of reconciliation and healing.
My Personal Code of Ethics as an Education Leader As an educator, and conceivable future educational leader, my personal code of ethics is one that envelops uprightness, correspondence, respect, imparted objectives, sympathy, open-mindedness, and confidentiality. A leader recognizes what is correct and utilizes it to make the best decision paying little mind to personal danger. I will utilize this personal code of ethics when settling on decisions including ethical issues and to guide my profession. I accept the focal and most basic reason for an educational leader is: To foster a dream for the organization as a learning community that respects the characteristic worth and abilities of every person and that fosters the planning of students
It’s only a fortunate few who are given the chance to atone for their sins. Committed sins create problem between friend, family and others. Forgiveness is not an easy thing to do when things have gone extremely wrong. “To err is human, to forgive divine” (Charu. B) That means committing errors is human, to forgive is divine.