Maksym Marak Norwood English 10H-7 15 May 2023 Epic Gangster W Cool Title In The Things They Carried by Tim O’Brien, the death of Kiowa is employed to show how war does not have purpose or morals, and instead only causes psychological burdens of those in the war. One example of Kiowa’s death symbolizing this is when Norman says “‘I didn’t flip out,’ he would’ve said. ‘I was cool. If things had gone right, if it hadn’t been for that smell, I could’ve won the Silver Star,’” (O’Brien 143). By still thinking about a medal instead of his own friend who died, this quote is a prime example of the psychological border put by war. Instead of grieving the loss of a friend, Norman is more worried about not winning the medal because he left Kiowa to …show more content…
Along with his own belief of that, his father was also pushing for Norman to win as many medals as he could during the war, so not getting a Silver Star made Norman believe his father would be disappointed, making Norman feel even worse about it. Another example is when it's said, “Not here, he thought. Not like this. He released Kiowa’s boot and watched it slide away. Slowly, working his way up, he hoisted himself out of the deep mud, and then he lay still and tasted the shit in his mouth and closed his eyes and listened to the rain and explosions and bubbling sounds. He was alone,” (O’Brien 143). Norman was devastated about losing Kiowa when it happened. Norman had …show more content…
A guy who can’t get his act together and just drives around town all day and can't think of any damn place to go and doesn't know how to get there anyway. This guy wants to talk about it, but he can’t… If you want, you can use the stuff in this letter,” (O’Brien 151). This last quote, also connects highly to the work as a whole because Norman is writing about himself as someone who wants to talk about his problems with someone, and just get away from his old life in general, but can’t because of the way war works; it breaks you as a person and builds you back up as a soldier, and you can’t leave that behind. Norman has many bad things in his head from the war, but he can’t seem to bring himself to talk about them with anyone to make himself feel better about
Therefore, if we trace things back a little bit, we can clearly see that O’Brien is writing that way to express his fellow soldier’s sorrow of losing his best friend. His writing style is unique in a way that he doesn’t express the feelings just bluntly. He could just add words that emphasizes sadness, but instead, he added the act of his friend to show the underlying feeling about one during the war. Therefore, after reading about that chapter, people will say they were so cruel during the war, but if they think deeply, all chapter is about the writer’s friend grieving for his dead
Throughout the story, Tim O’Brien writes about things he carried from the war to his normal life and speaks about the difficulties of it. He carries things from the war to his normal life because of the PTSD he suffers from. He brings words from the war over to normal life because the words used in war have become the new normal for him whether it be good or bad, but either way, PTSD reminds him about the experiences using these words during the war. The story states, “He doesn’t know how to live with the guilt of the war. He uses words that he would only use in the war because he is not used to normal life after the war.”
Norman could’ve easily saved his friend, but failed when he couldn’t handle the environment. He continues to blame the environment, and this blame would eventually drive Norman to the point of insanity. Norman did try to cope with the loss of his friend, but he only made his condition worse. He tried talking to other people, but no one cared to listen to him and ignored him. At this point, Norman made fake conversations in his head to comfort himself when no one else would in attempts to cope.
Unlike Tim, after the war, Bowker never was able to find a place where he felt he was needed. It was almost as if everything he remembered before the war was the complete opposite. This accompanied with the fact that Bowker still felt guilt for not saving Kiowa's life made it impossible for Norman to find happiness post-war. Norman kept running situations through his head of how he could talk about the war to his family and old friends but all thought about telling them is how he wasn't "uncommonly brave" (135). Bowker's head kept circuling back to how he wished he would've saved Kiowa which killed his mental health.
In the novel The Things They Carried by Tim O’Brian, the death of Kiowa helps develop the motifs of guilt and shame consequently affecting the meaning of the book to surviving the war. Kiowa proved a genuine friend to O’Brian and the rest of the platoon not simply through his words, but his dignity and actions. When he died, it was brutal and dehumanizing, ultimately causing much guilt and blame throughout the entirety of the book. O’Brian even claimed “when a man died, there had to be blame. " This blame and guilt affected the novel and shifted the tone entirely.
The fact he felt this way still haunts him now causing an emotional burden. As well, Soldiers can be affected emotionally by whether or not they receive a medal during the war. Another emotional burden is when Norman is driving around the lake feeling guilty about not getting a medal and about letting his friend die: “I could’ve won the Silver Star for valor,”(140). This shows that even after the war has ended soldiers continue to be affected emotionally by the burdens faced in war. Even after he left the war, Norman continues feeling shameful and guilty about the things he’s done.
“There was nothing to say. He could not talk about it and never would” (O’Brien 147). O’Brien shows the pain and trauma that Norman felt whilst he could not seem to tell anyone though he yearned to (Speaking of Courage, Notes). This gives basis to his isolated soldier role which O’Brien uses to highlight the surviving guilt for Norman’s regret of cowardice. In the chapter "Notes," O'Brien's method of reaction retelling gives a basis on how O'Brien revised the scene in "Speaking of Courage" to be more meaningful with greater detail and focus on Kiowa’s demise and Norman’s stagnation on the scene.
In the short story, “The Man I Killed,” O’Brien focuses on this to show that everyone fighting in a war has a story. He spends the story describing the man he killed and searching for justification of his actions. He carries around guilt with him because of it, and his fellow soldiers try to help him justify and come to terms with his action by saying things like, “You want to trade places with him? Turn it all upside down= you want that? I mean, be honest,” (126) and “Tim, it’s a war.
O’Brien tells the readers about him reflecting back twenty years ago, he wonders if running away from the war were just events that happened in another dimension, he pictures himself writing a letter to his parents: “I’m finishing up a letter to my Parents that tells what I'm about to do and why I'm doing it and how sorry I am that I’d never found the courage to talk to them about it”(O’Brien 80). Even twenty years after his running from the war, O’Brien still feels sorry for not finding the courage to tell his parents about his decision of escaping to Canada to start a new life. O’Brien presented his outlook that even if someone was not directly involved in the war, this event had impacted them indirectly, for instance, how a person’s reaction to the war can create regret for important friends and
In the chapter Speaking of Courage, the narrator explains how Norman tries to save Kiowa, “He would've talked about this, and how he grabbed Kiowa by the boot and tried to pull him out. He pulled hard but Kiowa was gone, and then suddenly he felt himself going, too.” (page 143). Norman lived with this for the rest of his life, playing what he could've done to save him over and over again in his head. Another example is in the chapter,
Seven. Count ‘em. You weren’t a coward either” (136). Norman’s conversation that he plays out in his head with his father, demonstrates how veterans from previous wars or more traditional people have had a different experience in the war compared to current or more recently deployed veterans, so they have different opinions on the war. Norman Bowker feels that his father would not hear what he was trying to say about being brave or
Norman had felt as if he had no one to talk to or relate to because no one around him had experienced war like he had. He tried to keep jobs when he was home from war, but not one of them had lasted more than 3 weeks. Since he feels he is unable to speak to anyone about war, he writes a letter to O’Brien, telling his entire war story. He soon feels as if he cannot do anything without thinking about war and hangs himself in the locker room of his town’s YMCA.
The person had to deal with death and the reality of war under the worst case scenario. Bob “Rat” Kiley was that soldier and one of the many soldiers that left something in the war. He had lost his friend Curt Lemon and that’s the first sign that the war has been turning to be painful for him. This coping mechanism for the death was to write letters to lemon’s sister and he shot a baby Water Buffalo. This coping mechanism is seen in the chapter “How to tell a true war story”, shows how he has been affected and explained the toll the war had taken on him.
Norman is unable to find words to describe his struggles and therefore can’t move on from the war. This just shows that the horrors don’t stop, even after the war. Norman is desperately grasping for a way to understand everything but he is unable to. Because of this, Norman, unlike Roy, is unable to cope and eventually takes his own life to escape his own mind. Additionally, Tim O’Brien himself has been greatly afflicted by the psychological aspect of war.
Already he had passed them six times, forty-two miles, nearly three hours without stopping” (O’Brien 139-140). As if Norman was stuck in a loop, he drove around that lake, reliving moments of his life from when he was in Vietnam. He questioned, doubted, and second guessed things that had happened. He wants to tell his story to his friends but they all moved on with their lives while he was in Vietnam in the war, leaving him with no one. He wanted to talk to someone but he couldn’t.