Loneliness Many Americans today claim that if one works hard, then they will not find true love,; Marche states that, “The price of self determination and self reliance has often been loneliness”. Loneliness is one of the main themes in The Great Gatsby by F. Scott Fitzgerald. Gatsby, the main character, searches for true love his entire lifetime. He throws many extravagant parties in his house to feel less lonely and does everything he can to try and rekindle his past relationship with Daisy. Gatsby exemplifies that loneliness is at the core of being American because, he, a man living the American dream, wants contentment in his life, something that he never obtains. Gatsby, a successful wealthy man, spends a large portion of his life …show more content…
Gatsby falls in love with Daisy the first minute he meets her and never stops loving her even though she has obviously moved on. Gatsby does everything he can to be closer to her like buying “that house so that Daisy would be just across the bay” (78). Gatsby knows that if he can get the girl of his dreams he will not feel lonely anymore. "He talked a lot about the past… he wanted to recover something, some idea of himself perhaps, that had gone into loving Daisy. His life had been confused and disordered since then, but if he could once return to a certain starting place and go over it all slowly, he could find out what that thing was” (87). Ever since Gatsby had left Daisy, he has felt content with his life because he knows something is missing. Gatsby feels lonely and will continue to feel lonely without Daisy. Gatsby’s diminishing life is full of loneliness because it is “the promise of a decade of loneliness, a thinning list of single men to know, a thinning brief-case of enthusiasm, thinning hair” (129). Gatsby never does have Daisy all to himself, and dies knowing he never achieved anything more than great wealth. Gatsby is a perfect example of an
Gatsby’s love for Daisy could even be described as his love for the idea of having Daisy, saving his love from Tom who doesn’t fit in his plan of being with Daisy. This is still not to discredit his hope as he “believed in the green light, the orgastic future that year by year” (Fitzgerald 138) as he grasps toward this enchanted light which represents hope. The hope of reaching is dreams and was at the end of Daisy’s dock. Tragically Gatsby died as someone who was not liked and maybe even despised by others and disregarded despite his
Holocaust survivor Elie Wiesel once said, "No one is ascapable of Gratitude as one who as emerged from the kingdom of the night. " I believe that we can only truly appreciate what we had after it is gone. I think that it is harder to learn to live without than it is to learn to live with. In the novel "The GreatGatsby", Gatsby falls deeply in love with Daisy.
Gatsby invests his life to winning Daisy that his ambition turns into an obsession of having Daisy. Gatsby builds up a facade of his life to look more intriguing for Daisy. Gatsby throws parties to try to attract Daisy, but these parties are host to many guests that “came and went without having met Gatsby at all” (41). Gatsby’s death erases the facade of popularity when no one who went to a party of his shows up at the funeral. Gatsby is alone in the end.
Gatsby didn’t love Daisy, but was in love with the idea of having everything, the perfect life. In the end, his vast amounts of wealth could not buy Daisy’s love or even his own happiness. Gatsby filled the void in his heart by surrounding himself with expensive things, but the way in which he acquired his wealth, though not clearly stated in the novel, can be assumed he took the easy way of turning to a life of crime. Gatsby’s romantic view of money did not prepare him for the selfish and corrupt circle of people in which he would soon be associated with. Although through Nick’s narration, Gatsby is portrayed as more of a kind man than the audience has perceived.
But ultimately Gatsby is the most hopeful man in the world. His heart is bigger than his ego. His uncanny knowledge to act rich make him a great man It might be argued that Gatsby’s feelings for Daisy are idealistic; with a strong determination he tries hard to be close to Daisy. He moves to a house just across the lake, throws huge parties with the hope she will be at one, also makes plans with her 5 years since seeing each other. Finally, he takes the blame after she killed Myrtle in the car accident.
Throughout the entirety of the novel The Great Gatsby, the love triangle between Gatsby, Daisy, and her husband, Tom, put the readers through an emotional rollercoaster. Most people probably wonder who Daisy truly loves more: her husband, or her first love. However, the real question is this: is Gatsby truly in love with Daisy? Or does he just love the idea of having her after all these years? Years after he returned from the war that essentially ruined his relationship with Daisy, he is still madly in love with her.
Love, a deep affection, is only complete when felt by two unique individuals. In this story Gatsby has become blinded by his affection for Daisy he does not stop to consider anything else but being with her. He has this illusion and fantasy he has longed for since a little boy in his dream. While he has obtained everything else, the fame, glory, and wealth he lacks one thing, a lover. He has his life all crafted out and Daisy was his missing piece.
When he met Daisy in Louisville, a beautiful girl living in a beautiful house pursued by many other men who found her most desirable, she became the physical embodiment of his dreams. Fitzgerald wrote that whan gatsby Daisy, “the incarnation was complete” (Fitzgerald 117). Gatsby did not really love Daisy, he hardly knew her. He loved what she represented to him, and he loved who he was while he was with her. Gatsby became more fascinated with the idyll of love in his pursuit of Daisy, there is little between both of them that could constitute a real foundation for an authentic relationship.
If Gatsby is to truly love Daisy, instead of destroying her marriage, he would have let her go. However, because of his extreme devotion towards Daisy, he dreams of a utopia where their feelings for each other is mutual. Thus, he demands her to say that she has never loved Tom to affirm that she loves him only, but Daisy does fall in love with Tom at some point in her marriage, in between the five years of Gatsby’s absence. Nonetheless, Gatsby does not give up. He “[clutches]
Gatsby is a perfect example of what Fitzgerald shows as the American dream. He is rich and popular, however he is not happy. He wants to go back to a time when he believed he was truly happy. “His heart beat faster and faster as Daisy's white face came up to his own. He knew that when he kissed this girl, and forever wed his unutterable visions to her perishable breath, his mind would never romp again like the mind of God.”
F. Scott Fitzgerald, purposefully displays Jay Gatsby’s wealth to reveal his emptiness. He initiates by explaining that after thousands of people, only “servants” stayed with him which shows that no one really cares for him, and that no one would help him when he needs it. Furthemore, Gatsby uses his “bearing parties,” to fill his loneliness and see happiness in other as he watches them enjoy the party. Besides, Jay has hundreds of real “books,” yet none of them have been read which symbolize his lack of education and his need to fill that gap. Moreover, Gatsby represents the perfect man; he is athletic, young and rich.
In the 1920’s, social classes were divided with a large gap. The poor wanted nothing to do with the rich, and the rich wanted even less to do with the poor. In the novel “The Great Gatsby” by F. Scott Fitzgerald, he uses the class structure in the 1920’s to redefine poverty. While the rich people in the novel are material rich, they are still “poor” socially and psychologically. Poverty is shown in a differently in this book than other books being written in this time era, and in doing this, it shows the rich what they are, and how they treat others from a different perspective.
However, when Gatsby comes back as a mysterious millionaire with a lavish lifestyle, Daisy falls for him again. According to Daisy, the reunion with Gatsby is miserable not only because of the rekindled flame between the two past lovers, but also because Gatsby now has the upper-class lifestyle she yearns for, yet she is not with him (Gam). Her love is based on his attraction which comes not from Gatsby himself but from his money and material luxury. People around her gradually
Love is the most powerful and mysterious force in the universe and a vital part of love is one’s sexuality, because it decides who you love. The Great Gatsby, by F. Scott Fitzgerald, is a tragic novel set in the roaring twenties. The central theme in the story is love, and what it means in this time period of extravagance and lavish lifestyles. Questions arise about power and wealth, and what this signifies in a romantic relationship. The reality is that this is a loveless tale, because there is no love between the characters.
As American business man, Richard M. Devos, once said, “Money cannot buy peace of mind. It cannot heal ruptured relationships, or build meaning into a life that has none.” In the novel, The Great Gatsby, by F. Scott, Fitzgerald, Daisy, an elite socialite, is blinded by dollar signs and makes multiple decisions based on class, ultimately leading to the destruction of those who she claims to love, and without a doubt love and idolize her. Jay Gatsby has been in love with Daisy for five years, and supposedly she is with him, but she’s too impatient to wait for Gatsby while he is at war and decides to marry an arrogant, racist, and rude former college football star, Tom Buchanan, for money. Daisy is a self-absorbed, vacuous socialite whose decisions lead to the destruction of Gatsby.