The oldest piece of jewelry discovered dates back 150,000 years (ArtNet News), proving its undying influence on cultures throughout the world. Over time, jewelry has served various purposes, for instance, to signify status, to demonstrate religious devotion, as a demonstration of wealth, and most commonly: the enhancement of natural beauty. However, no matter the country or time period, jewelry holds a sort of significance for the owner, as seen through the history behind the piece. The Joy Luck Club, a novel written by Amy Tan, describes the generational struggle between Chinese-American immigrant parents and their daughters as they attempt to preserve their cultural identity in the face of adapting to American society. Tan uses jewelry in …show more content…
From Jesus Christ dying on the cross to the gifts of the ornamental comb and the gold watch chain in The Gift of the Magi, love’s best expression is through altruistic sacrifice. In The Joy Luck Club, jewelry is used as a sacrifice as an indication of familial love. An-mei receives a string of pearls from Second Mother, who uses her beauty and status as a way to manipulate those beneath her. She does the same thing with the pearl necklace. An-mei becomes awestruck by the pearls, yet her mother sees right through Second Mother’s cheap tricks and reveals to An-mei that the pearls are fake. This disappointment doesn’t last long when An-mei’s mother gives her a ring. An-mei describes the ring as “a heavy ring of watery blue sapphire, with a star in its center so pure that I never ceased to look at that ring with wonder” (Tan 261). This gift shows An-mei’s mother’s sacrifice because the ring held immense value and An-mei was just a little girl. She wanted An-mei to know that real jewelry given from the heart is worth more than any other gift could be. Later, An-mei uses this precious gift as a sacrifice in order to save her son Bing’s life. She tells her daughter, Rose, that throwing the ring into the water in which Bing drowned, “would make the Coiling Dragon forgetful of Bing.” (136) An-mei sacrifices the ring without hesitation, doing whatever it takes to get her son back. This act holds incredible significance due to the fact that the ring was given to her by her mother who died when she was still very young. The sacrifice that An-mei made for her son shows that she looks past the worldly value of the gemstone ring and realizes that her son’s life means more to her than a piece of
An-mei influences the way her daughter Rose grows up because she missed out on having a mother growing up. In their relationship, An-mei sees Rose's problems and wants to help, but Rose pushes her away. She'd rather talk to a psychiatrist than her mother. By the end of Rose's story, her relationship with her mom and her ability to stand up for herself changes. Since An-mei never had her mom around she wants to be close to her daughter and let Rose experience what she didn’t get to.
Foremost, Jing Mei gets into an argument with her mother telling her to be her best but she mistakes her mother for trying to be a prodigy. Furthermore, the narrator sacrifices his beloved fish for a girl who does not even show affection for him. Finally, Harry realizes that his father’s love for him had grown so much while he was at school, home, and even in the
An-mei found hers in the death of her mother, who found relief from a terrible situation and gave her daughter a huge advantage. Lindo got her strength on her wedding day, when she watched the wind and found a beautiful invisible resistance in it. Lindo later uses her strength to manipulate her ‘family’ into letting her go. They found the will to escape from China and make it to America. Their Chinese circumstances led them to face the truth in themselves sooner rather than later.
An Mei’s mother from that point on devoted her life to guiding her daughter in the best direction possible. She used stories and past experiences to teach her about life's struggles and how to deal with them. Near the end of the chapter, two days before the Lunar New Year, An Mei is woken up by Yan Chang telling her that her mother took too much opium and "When the poison broke in her body, she whispered to me that she would rather kill her own weak spirit so she could give me a stronger one." This sentence clearly shows her mother's sacrifice for the good of her daughter. Her mother had committed suicide to give her children a better
The main character, Misha, faces many obstacles in his everyday life with his not biological little sister, Janina. Janina doesn’t always listen to Misha and picks fights just to have something to do. The author states: “She often played such tricks on me. Once, she tricked me into lending her my yellow stone necklace. She wore it for days.
(Tan 24). through this it can be said that Jing-Mei’s mother has a very different culture compared to
The pendant is a key moment in June’s story; her mom is presenting a necklace that she has worn and now it is June’s turn to wear it and take in her mother’s meaning. Because of Suyuan's early words, it is clear her “meaning” is her pride and love towards her daughter. Suyuan is proud because her child chooses others over herself, and that humility is the best quality. Now, June must try to believe in herself as her mother believes in
To summarize the quote that describes the lesson that An-mei’s mother learned and is still relevant to An-mei, it is useless to cry, for tears only feed someone else's joy. This goes to show that even though An-mei’s mother wasn't around a whole lot, she definitely had an effect on An-mei’s personality and
And I wanted to shout to the clock and make its meaningless noise be silent, but I did not” (270). In Wu Tsing’s house, there was a cuckoo clock that went off every hour and after Ghost’s death, An-Mei was fragile and easily annoyed. Reconnecting to what Ghost told her about the turtle, An-Mei does not cry at first about her mother's death and attempts to stay strong like her mother wanted her to. After Ghost’s death, An-Mei wanted to carry on her mother’s strength throughout her life and make it an influence in Rose’s life. In the days after Ghost’s death, An-Mei remained at Wu Tsing’s house because she wanted to get revenge, “And then I recalled to her story about the little turtle, his warning not to cry.
It is my family. It is in our blood. After all these years I can finally be let go” (Tan 159). For the first time in her life of being stuck between two cultures and believing that she does not belong to either, Jing-Mei feels like she belongs. As it was previously stated about the meanings of this family’s poetic names, these names that were given to them by their mother created a meaningful theme.
“Communication is the key to a successful relationship, attentiveness, and consistency. Without it, there is no relationship,” (Bleau). The Joy Luck Club is a novel written by Amy Tan. Set in the twentieth century, this novel depicts the life of four Chinese immigrant women escaping their past and their American-grown daughters. The novel reveals the mothers’ hardship-filled past and motivations alongside with the daughters’ inner conflicts and struggles.
Therefore, An Mei cuts a piece of flesh off of her arm and puts it in soup for Popo to eat. “Here is how I came to love me mother. How I saw my own true nature. What was beneath my skin. Inside my bones” (p.40) At this point in the story, An Mei is recognized for her courage and her honor for attempting to save a family member by sacrificing her own skin and bone.
Lindo gives Waverly a red jade tablet for good luck and Suyuan gives June a jade pendant to remind her of her life’s importance. The Jade pendant from Suyuan shows that she truly loved her daughter because of her differences. The purity and quality of the jewelry also signifies the intensity of a mother’s love toward her daughter. An-mei is given a pearl necklace from Second Wife and made to believe that they are representative of true affection. It is only after her mother crushes the pearls, revealing that
However, this determination sometimes appears to be obsessive to the point of running her daughter’s life for her. Regardless, she is only trying to help, as she encourages Jing Mei by asserting “‘You can be best anything.’” (1). Because of this, it suggests that although she is very harsh on her daughter at times, it is only to make sure that Jing Mei can use her full potential and not end up losing everything like her
Finally, her mother An-Mei confronts her daughter about her past. An-Mei’s mother taught her not to put a worth on herself because if she were to then she can put a label on herself such as worthy or worthless. As a result, Rose was raised to desire nothing, swallow everything and deal with your own anger. Therefore, the problem did not lie with Ted but with Rose.