Do I think Muslim women need saving? It depends on how we determine the word saving. When I think about this question, I come up with a conflicting question, are we talking about cultural saving or religious saving? Are we talking about the patriarchal culture or the sexist interpretations of the Qur’an?
My issue with the word saving is what are we saving them from? They are not the only part of the world that has a patriarchal culture. We, in the United States, still live in a patriarchal culture, it may not be as severe as in the Middle East, however it still exists here today. Women still do not get the same opportunities in the work place, in the education system, and in their day to day lives they experience some form of sexism. So, can
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Is it a man? Is it a woman? Who has the right to “save” another person? The God-complex ensues because often times when someone does something to help another person, (i.e., a doctor or a lawyer) they develop a hero complex. Who all of the sudden decides that someone else needs to be saved? Why does that person think that the society they live in is so much better than someone else’s?
We believe ourselves, in the United States, to represent the Christian faith. We believe that it is our role to show others the “light” and bring them closer to Jesus. But, who are we to say that our religion is egalitarian when in reality, there is also sexism in Christianity? Our religion is just as problematic as Islam faith is. So why do we feel it is okay to say that we are out there saving Muslim women, when they can turn around and say that we are the ones’ that need saving?
“Politically dominant Christianity brought with it not only an implicit radical egalitarianism but also the patriarchal ideas of its originary Judaism, and with these the religious sanction of women’s social subordination and the endorsement of their essential secondariness— through, for example, the biblical account of Eve’s creation from Adam’s rib.” (Ahmed,
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Unfortunately, men have taken the word of God, and distorted it to fit their needs and wants. This, sadly, means that women’s rights were taken away, men were able to take control of their wives, they were able to tell them how to live their lives. If we look at Ancient Egypt versus Ancient Greece, we see that Ancient Egypt was actually a very egalitarian culture. Women had the right to divorce, to marry for love, and the right to own property. In Ancient Greece, men and women only married for the sole purpose of having male heirs. “Girls” were expected to be quiet and submissive and were not supposed to interact with the males since they were seen as inferior. Once Ancient Greece started conquering Ancient Egypt, the women of Ancient Egypt became oppressed and had their rights taken away.
There is plenty of sexism in the Qur’an, just like there is plenty of sexism in the Bible. But does the oppression of women come from the Qur’an or does it come from the cultural standards of that country? So, if we were to save the women, where would we begin? Do we start with the culture and hope that it trickles into more religious beliefs?
Someone in class stated that part of the Qur’an was only written for a certain point in time. If that’s the case, then why do we still hold those beliefs hundreds of years later? How can we say that what God, or Allah, says is timeless if it specifically says that it was
(Gordon 58). The house chores that would usually be saved for the women of society was shunned by Arab women in a response to their sheltered status shoved on them by Islam. Before Islam, women were writers, historians, nurses, and warriors. But with Islam their rights were stripped away and they were placed in harems-the women quarters of the Islamic household (Gordon 58). The harem usually consisted of up to four wives, concubines, slave girls entertainers, and domestic slaves (Lewis 74 and Segal 38).
Given the oppressive rule of the Taliban, how could women survive without men in their family? The book The Other Side of the Sky by Farah Ahmedi and Tamim Ansary, answers that question by the journey of Farah and her mother. Their journey goes from Afghanistan all the way to America. On this trip, Farah and her mom face many hardships, including their physical injuries and losing their family. In Afghanistan and Pakistan women lacked various rights under Taliban rule that limited their freedoms, but conditions have improved since the Taliban relinquished their power, which shows that given the opportunity women can become independent.
The ideal woman of this time period was a pure, feminine, and submissive woman that was always considered inferior to men mentally and physically (Lavender 1). Women thus became the face of religion, and became their job to convert the men of the country back
However the power fundamentally lies on the men of the book. Women were kept ‘under control’ by men who used violence were authoritative. It is rather safe to say that one must not be quick to assume that women in this book had very little freedom. This idea of women having social and sexual freedom was something brand new for the era when the books was written (90 years ago), which makes the ideas introduce extremely
Women are useless; at least that’s how they’ve been regarded as throughout history. During the totality of history women have been treated and observed as inferior to men. Women have always been the subjects of judgment, being seen as both weak and as obedient servants by their societies as well as their respective religions. Women have long been the discussion of men, with no input from women. Interestingly, women’s fate has always been determined by the opposite sex, without an insightful analysis from those who will be affected from the boundaries that would be set as a result.
In Ancient Greek Civilization, women were viewed as submissive. A man always controlled the women; that either being the Father or Husband. Women were forced to stay in the house and complete all household duties. Women were not even granted the right to attend assemblies, participate in politics, or even represent themselves in court. Having little to no overall power in your society can have a huge burden on Women but this can also fuel certain Women to strive to change the society they live in.
In the beginning, women were treated badly. The sultan loved his wife, but once he finds out that she was unfaithful he then kills her at the break of dawn. Although, he marries a new woman each day, spends the night with her, and then kills her in the morning. His actions show us that the women were seen as deceitful, and the lives of women were meaningless shown in how many
With the rise of civilization also came the rise of patriarchy-based societies and the slow decline of the importance of women in society. For the longest time the history of the world has been written by men who have been the head of the patriarchy and have forgotten the role of women in history. It is important to realize that women do in fact have a place at the table with men when it comes to importance in history, and are not just the ones cooking and serving the meal. It is women who tasked with raising the next generation. By looking at women of the past, people of the future can learn and evolve to fight oppression and gain their own power.
Laws gave men the power over women. They were expected to obey their male relatives and had few rights. Any disobedience is considered an offense to their religion. Women were not allowed to take any career. Their only job is to bear children and run the household.
Women were held responsible for the first original sin or sometimes known as the fall of mankind. Since Eve took the apple from the snake the church felt it was necessary to punish all women for her mistakes. In the book of Genesis, God tells Eve “Your Desire shall be for your husband, and he shall rule over you” (Hopkins 5-6). People during the Medieval Society took this as an order that women should at all times be obedient to their Summerlin 2 husbands. The church got rich off of peoples fear of the devil and again, women were the subject of
Also women did not really have a say in what could happen in a situation because the men had to speak for them. Women had to be loyal to the husbands or there would be a consequence for there actions. An example for this is when Jocasta and Laius were deciding to expose Oedipus on Mount Cithaeron. Laius took the newborn Oedipus from Jocasta 's arms and sent him with someone to be left out and to be exposed. Mothers have a strong connection with their children, so it must have been very difficult for Jocasta to watch her baby be exposed.
Altogether, the tradition of patriarchy debase women and their confidence with Christianity as the main
Since the starting point of the human being, men have been ruling the world. In one way or another, the male was the dominant character in our particular evolution. It does not matter if they were right or not because they had the power and their rules have been oppressing women for ages. The early modern period was not an exception in this tyranny and women had suffered several troubles under the yoke of a strict society that forced them to follow three golden rules: chastity, modesty and obedience. Although women have been oppressed during the history, they have been trying to rise up several times and show up.
One of the biggest struggles that women has to go through is not getting paid as equally as men. An Equal Pay Act in 1963 had to be made in order to forbid sex based wage discrimination, even though women are still getting 91 cents of every dollar earned by men (10 Challenges That American Women Still Face Today, paragraph. 2). In Russia, many women are paid less than men and their wage and salaries were 70% of men (Snezhkova, (2005), Page 3). This became a problem for many other countries where women wages would be 84% of men also and they would only receive just 58% of the income from their spouse (Social Inequalities, the World Cup, and Some Simple Solutions, Paragraph 6). In other words, this statement is saying that even though men and
As Malala said nowhere in the Quran does it say to treat women that way. Therefore, it is the cultures belief that believes to treat women that way. In a Christian culture, rules or standards Muslims have for women does not exist. As a result, it is not the religion causing the problems, culture influences people how to behave. Malala also states, “I was a girl in a land where rifles are fired in celebration of a son, while daughters are hidden away behind a curtain, their roles in life simply to prepare food and give birth to children”.