There are many concepts related with intimacy. Attachment and authenticity are two concepts that affect how intimate someone is with their partner. Intimacy killers are things that can affect a couple’s relationship in negative ways. Sexual intimacy is something that can affect relationships positively or negatively. It is very important to understand how each of these things can affect a relationship.
The stress of infertility can cause loosening of family bonds and increasing conflicts. Sometimes the emotional pressures reach with a degree that the person who has an infertility problem, may see any impact towards its own and therefore impute each confrontation or reaction of the spouse or others to their handicap(9). Failure to do tasks such as reproduction and fertility, leading to lower self-confidence and the result is a reduction in self-esteem(6). In addition to self-esteem, attachment also is considered as well as the psychological and interpersonal variable that determines the type of person psychological compatibility or incompatibility with infertility(10). Research on mature attachment has confirmed that attachment system is activated under stressful situations and people will be to set of emotions and encounter with them in ways that reflect their beliefs about themselves and others(11).
The Differentiation of Self is one of the concepts and it describes how people cope with life demands and pursue their goals on a continuum from most adaptive to least. Variations in the adaptiveness depend on several connected factors, including the amount of solid self, the part of self that is not negotiable in a relationship. Triangles are the basic molecule of human relationship systems. A two-person dyad becomes unstable once anxiety increases. Then, one or both members of the dyad usually pull in a third person to relieve some of the pressure.
The couple talked about this afterwards yet for the sake of his daughters’ welfare the couple soon put the experience behind them. However, as the girls got older they became really difficult and constantly annoyed Chloe with rude comments and accusations that she couldn’t cope with having them around. It felt like a nightmare looking forward to each weekend. She and Ted does very long and odd shifts so they barely spend time together during weekdays and nights, the only time they ever get to have quality time together was at the
I feel I gave up the passion of dancing because I’m trying to make another person happy rather than myself. While being pressured from my family to continue my education, I forget there is more to life than just school. I spend more time completing my assignments rather than spend time with my family. Having no social interaction with friends and family can lead to being depressed while isolating oneself to homework “As I mentioned, some people’s depression seems to be a direct result of their social struggles. They were fine before but have become sad and hopeless in the face of their isolation, rejection, and loneliness” (Ruiz 2).
Slovak is feeling bad for leaving it on bad terms, letting him leave the way he did. The flexion of their marriage trying to ignore their problems, the guilt of wanting to move on and to forget about that part of her life, but looking for some type of answer. The past of her relationship with Frank was intense, from the complexity of her domestic relationship with Mr. Slovak, in an emotional and physical way, as if he had no intention of loving her, comparable to his shadow to fill in the emptiness, to fill a void in his life. Mr. Slovak was several year’s older than his wife, although he had very few wrinkles and grey hair’s. he was tall and handsome, what every woman would dream of.
The two characters had dealt with their problem and transformed in the end of the story. The comparison will be disscussed not only how they dealt with their problem but also other aspects in their life such as marriage, expectation of the culture where they lived and of course their
If parents are constantly fighting this means that one of them think that they're marriage is over. They may try counseling but it will most probably won't work because one of the thinking of one of the parents. Divorce needs to be thought as a process instead of as a single event that influences people's lives. The negative effects children in divorced families have is not because of divorce but due to exposure to traumatic processes and experiences. During the course of a marriage, one or more marital partners begin to feel alienated from the other.
Then finding it again can turn out to be really challenging. Therefore, we might ask ourselves what are those things that get in the way of us being creative. There are number of reasons that causes the disappearance of our own creativity such as, being thoughtful all the time, not living at the presence, but as I grow older, I have noticed that the first cause is the conditioning of the cultural and social mind set. We live in a world of rules and we are conditioned by everything that surrounds us consequently it is hard to live our own lives according to our desire or
about themselves. There are a lot of things that might go wrong due to the impact of emotions that the separation of parents has brought unto them. Due to the emotional effect caused by the divorce and having single parent, children would not be open to others and they would have difficulties in making friends because they think that they will be bullied because of not having a mother or a father. They would change. They would not be what they used to be.
Chapter 11 is about friendship. There are many different things that go into friendship such as, the nature of friendship, how friendships are developed, specific rules for the friendship, and also the pressures on the friendship. But for this particular incident I will focus on the pressures placed on the friendship. This pressure can from an internal or external place. The internal tensions of a friendship breaks down into three different parts.
When comparing these two relationships it’s obvious that both relationships have a problem. At the rate the first couple is in the stagnating stage, were they 're unable to grow and their distances because of the arguments and fights they always have. The terminating stage is really close for them, if they don’t do anything about their problems the end of the relationship might be really close. I believe that the problem in their relationship is that their is no balance in the relationship. My cousin 's girlfriend seems to not care about the relationship they 're both in.
The symptoms of postnatal depression for her meant, she would feel sad after she gave birth, it lasted more than a year, she would also feel fatigue (tired), therefore had a loss of interest in enjoying things she usually had fun with. Chloe’s depression interfered with her daily life, and increased anxiety, she felt that she was unable to look after her child, and she also felt anxious to keep in touch with family and friends, likewise, she stopped sharing her feelings, some signs included her crying for no reason, therefore a friend who witnessed her changes informed a service provider as their