The study of marital adjustment has a long history in psychology and also in sociology. Yet the study of marital adjustment still has much to contribute to psychology and other disciplines. The present study aims to find the best way to maximize new contributions at this time and to adopt a more comprehensive perspective of marital adjustment, communication and attachment in relevance to working and non working women. In Pakistan, marriage is a very common practice. Those women who go for different kinds of jobs may sometimes have to face problems in their married life. It has been observed nowadays that women have to face a lot of marital issues due to different environmental factors. One of such factors is job of married women. Definitely …show more content…
But the present study is aimed to study three attachment styles given by Hazen and Shaver (1987), furthermore along with attachment, communication is also an important variable of this study and lastly population include only women from two categories i.e working and non working. Here relationship between adult attachment styles (secure, anxious and avoidant), communication and marital adjustment of the two categories of women i.e working and non working will be studied. In addition to this, specifically secure attachment style will be one of the main focuses of this study. Impact of the dimensions of attachment on marital adjustment of working and non working women is another focus of this study. In the light of prevalent literature (Dilillo, 2001; Bradbury, 1999) it will be predicted that those couples who exhibit negative communications are more at risk of stressed relationship. So the importance of positive and negative communication in marital adjustment will also be …show more content…
The next important factor that contributes to marital adjustment is the duration of marriage i.e the time that the couple has spent together so far. Effect of duration of marriage will be explored in the light of prevalent literature ( Awe,1996) that here is a significant difference in marital adjustment of long married and recently married spouses. In our society it has been commonly observed that after marriage, the most vital factor to marital adjustment is having children. Child birth is observed to be a very important feature which ties up the bond between a husband and wife. Childless couples face more stress in society as compared to the one who have children in early years of their marriage so effect of having children or not will also be explored in both working and non working women in the present
The following paper is given to discuss the attachment styles from the experts by how it was developed, while making note off the theorist whom played a part in developing the theory. This paper will also be discussing the impact the of attachment styles; secure, preoccupied, dismissive, and fearful-avoidant. There will be personal experiences given throughout the paper to further the illustrate the attachment theory. Finally, there will be a contrast on the perspective of the opposing sides when it comes to the durability of the styles. Attachment theory is an evolutionary, ethological, and psychological theory which gives individuals the explanatory and descriptive framework of understanding the interpersonal relationship between individuals in society.
Many of us have heard the shocking statistic that, apparently, half of all marriages end in divorce. This scares many people considering marriage for their life paths, so how can they avoid the trials that may lead to divorce? Although there is no divorce in Julia Alvarez's book, In the Time of the Butterflies, it does get close at times throughout the storyline. There are trials and tribulation in the marriages represented in the book. Patria and her husband have the most successful and happy marriage in the book, mainly because of their spirituality. "
Argument #5: “The communication problems... require a new conceptual framework about the role of talk in human relationships” (Tanner 24). Tanner has given a solution to solve the lack of communication hoping divorces number can decrease. She used the situation mentioned in Argument 3 to directly allow the audience to have a moment of realization and convince her audience to listen and understand their spouses’
It is evident that marriage is full of ups and downs, but the way couples manage these fluctuations in their relationship determines the strength of their connection. Both partners in a committed relationship must feel the same way and work equally as hard to push through potential obstacles. Being devoted to the relationship can ensure that the marriage will be able to survive the hardships and maintain a healthy, successful marriage. The emotional hardships and positives that a married couple endures on a daily basis are presented throughout the entirety of the poem, “Marriage”, by Gregory Corso. Corso’s poem explores the pressures and factors that influence marriage and sheds light on Updike’s short story about a couple facing divorce.
Women realizes that without work and salary had make them lost their confident as individual to pursuing a professional job because they don’t know their worth anymore. For example the author state, “a Time magazine cover story on “The Case for Staying Home” and a “60 Minutes” segment devoted to a group of former mega-achievers who were, as the anchor Lesley Stahl put it, “ giving up money, success and big futures” to be home with their children. (Warner, 2013) Women thought that by stay home will solve the relationship issues and that women will be recognize as a good mother, but O’Donnel’s experience prove this to be wrong. Women who are working, they value their self more and put their self in front of a lot of things like marriage and manage work
She emphasizes the recognition of “cross-cultural” communication is beneficial to repair the conversational issues (Tannen 264). She proposes couples to improve their relationship by learning differences, adjusting conversational styles, and changing attitude. Learning differences is crucial to couples at the beginning of improvement, which helps couples to achieve mutual acceptance. Ideally, couples change their communication patterns according to their partners’ preference.
Communication is a critical foundation of every relationship; without it the relationship is deemed unsuccessful. Unsuccessful communication can result in constant tension, power inequalities and disagreements. Relational Dialectics is a communication theory, formed by Leslie Baxter and Barbara Montgomery, in which personal relationships are judged upon the management of tension produced by contradictory forces. (Thrift, 2017). Each of the contradictory forces contain two components, an internal source, between the individuals in the relationship and and external source, which is interference from the outside world.
I find the content in chapter 10 regarding marriage and intimate relationships exceptionally familiar. Again as a veteran of marriage of over twenty years now I have experienced many elements of the information being discussed, including this being my first marriage and my wife’s second, obtaining a step daughter, having two sons of my own, deciding on work and child rearing roles and now most recently the loss of a job which brings financial risks. These elements of the marriage environment all have brought unique and challenging circumstances that were able to be processed and worked through with communication.
Marriage is one of the most important aspects of a woman’s life during this time. Women play many roles in marriage such as greeting their husband with a smile when he returns. It’s the women’s responsibility to provide the husband with a joyful home. It is the norm for most women to be involved in this type of marriage. That is the reason why most women get married, because that is what
Marriage is an important institution in a society and although there have been changes in the trend of marriage pattern, it is still very clear that marriage still matters. Marriage exists and its main aim is to bring two people together to form a union, where a man and a woman leave their families and join together to become one where they often start their own family. Sociologists are mostly interested in the relationship between marriage and family as they form the key structures in a society. The key interest on the correlation between marriage and family is because marriages are historically regarded as the institutions that create a family while families are on the other hand the very basic unit upon which our societies are founded on.
3.4./Attachment Theory (188) & Socioemotional Selective Theory (286>). Bjorklund (2015) stated that attachment theory was used to explain the relationship between babies and their parents formerly and the attachments established in infancy were comparatively durable and were repeated in another relationships afterwards in life, it has been employed to illustrate favorable outcome in establishing romantic relationships as well. People who are categorized with security in their attachment would properly have long-term and more cheerful sentimental relationships than others at lower degree of security level, also, we have derived caring of specific age range, that is actuated in elder age of life when connecting with babies and youngsters, majority
In essence, poor communication results in low self-esteem, which can trigger individual or familial maladaptive responses, especially in times of high stress. According to Satir’s review, functional families are having clear, complete, congruent communication in which there are clear roles and rules to govern family processes. A functional family is compatible with Satir’s notion of an “open system”, interchange of information and resources is clear within and without the adaptive and dynamic
This new perspective makes the reader think differently about the situation, and allows the reader to more easily empathize with the point of view of a wife. Syfers uses the empathy from this new perspective to support her thesis, saying at the start of the essay “I belong to that classification of people known as wives. I am a Wife” (64). By explaining at the start of the essay that the author is a wife, all of the following explanation of a wife’s many duties compared to a husband’s few are strengthened; as these arguments are being told by a person who has first-hand experience and be more reliable. This insight into a perspective which the readers do not know about, makes it easier to change their opinion on the relationship between a husband and wife due to the new found empathy from the point of view of a wife.
We look at the different ways to communicate effectively, the power and conflicts that occur within relationships, and the personal responsibility role we each take on in a relationship. When most people hear the
Society does not teach couples the requisite spirituality, and they become stuck in what Campbell describes as the “first stage” of marriage: the producing and raising of children. This causes strife, as couples interpret their union through their children instead of through each other (Campbell 7-8). Rather, when celebrated in the proper context with the correct partner, marriage brings about stability. Stability generates and maintains a resilient family. A resilient family begets a strong society.