A direct effect of the majority of genital cutting involves the removal of the clitoris, the pleasure organ of a female, leading to a well known conclusion that genital cutting is used to stifle sexuality as well as ensure that sex will be so uncomfortable and painful that it will not inspire a woman to lose her virginity prior to marriage nor leave her husband to seek extramarital affairs. This idea is supported by a multitude of reasons, the ubiquity of which is phenomenal. It is common belief across FGM/C participating cultures that without cutting a woman, she will “manifest her desire through intercourse”
(McGee, Shayla). Not only does it force society’s standards of purity but it prevents homosexual relationships, Mantai exemplifies this
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139). “Marriageability of an African woman is the determining factor of her status in society.” This quote is evidence that a woman’s entire status is riding on her piousness.
Though in some places a woman may technically have a choice to undergo female circumcision, the weight of choice is arguable. A woman that refuses to participate will bring shame upon her family and perhaps even be ostracized. Rather than view the woman’s refusal as a logical decision, she is ridiculed and loses her place in society and lowers her chances of finding a husband (Mcgee, Shayla). They are viewed as a different type of person, in Lesotho, for instance, citizens use the term “lethisa” for uncircumcised
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women; it means “they are no good, they are not whole women” (McGee, Shayla, p.
140). Not only is a woman’s mind swayed through the probability of punishment but for the chance at reward. Genital cutting after puberty is treated like a ritual or right of passage in most cases, signifying a completed journey into womanhood (McGee, Shayla).
Since it is a celebration, girls are rewarded with henna, jewelry, clothes, or
Values Achieved Through Rites of Passage: Family and Sexual Responsibility In “The Initiation of a Maasai Warrior” written by Tepilit Ole Saitoti, The Maasai’s rite of passage is captured through Tepilit’s own eyes. In order for a child to become an adult and gain respect they must complete the agonizing circumcision. For the Maasai, the circumcision symbolizes the passage from childhood to adulthood, and If during the ceremony you show any sort of fear or weakness you were considered a coward and failed the test of adulthood. Having shown some nervousness, Tepilit managed to endure the pain and successfully completed the circumsion, and was now considered a man.
The practice, according to Ahmed, was not generally observed in her society and was seen by women who practiced Islam as a cultural tradition that was not mandated by the religion. Instead of being a religious requirement, circumcision was viewed as a cultural rite of passage for women. In contrast, male Islam routinely performed female circumcision and considered it as a religious need. Men felt that female circumcision was required to preserve a woman's chastity and purity and to keep her from having sex before marriage. Ahmed claims that female circumcision is not an essential Islamic ritual because of the harm it might cause and because of her own experience with it.
“Never Marry A Mexican" by Sandra Cisneros is a complex tale of love, race, and identity with the narrator, Clemencia showcasing these themes with contradicting stories and narration, making her an unreliable narrator. The use of an unreliable narrator allows the reader to question the protagonist's perceptions of herself and her relationships, ultimately revealing the destructive effects of internalized racism and self-hatred. Clemencia desires a white man, and a white man only. This desire is driven by her internalized racism, which causes her to devalue her own Mexican identity and view it as something inferior. She constantly seeks validation from men and uses them as objects of her desire, but not Latinos.
In recent years, there have been anti-circumcision movements gaining steam that mindlessly compares the circumcision of a boy with the genital mutilation of a woman. Circumcision is where the foreskin is trimmed to make my dong look awesome and reduce chances for STD's. What is done to women is equivalent to chopping the head of a penis off. Before I go on further into this, just know that a lot of the language can be offputting, and the images, even though just drawings, can be NOT SAFE FOR WORK.
Essay 2 There are countless reasons why a wife makes life so much easier. In the article, “Why I Want a Wife” by Judy Brady she expresses all the reasons why someone would want a wife. All the reasons Brady list is based off the expectations men set for women. Brady made a very effective article considering her stern tone and language.
The pleasure of women was forced into a box of vaginal intercourse only. Speaking of pleasure, Tuana focuses a portion of her article on the subject and how men and women’s pleasure are treated differently. The goal of sex was supposed to be reproducing and there was an ‘understanding’ that for women, pleasure was not a necessity to achieve this goal. This belief, along with another, create the basis for why Tuana believes the clitoris has been largely ignored in science and medicine. Her reasoning resonated with me, so I am sharing it in its
Holloway was impressed by the work Monique preformed as not only a healthcare provider but a midwife. Once, when Holloway was observing and assisting in a birth she realized Monique, “was responsible for the future of this village” (8). While working with Monique, Holloway learned more about the health aspect of this culture, for example; female genital cutting. At first mention of this Holloway was surprised to learn this was a common tradition among adolescent women. Since this tradition is not ordinarily practiced in the United States, she was eager to learn more about the why this procedure is part of their culture.
To initiate, the implementation of gender equality laws will help conclude unequal treatment towards women and create opportunities for women to refuse unsafe work and treatments. Also, without the right to make individual choices for body, women 's prosperity, well-being, and potential in society are restricted and gender inequality is therefore perpetuated. According to the academic article, Sexual Health’s Women’s Rights, “120 million girls worldwide have experienced forced intercourse” (Ngcuka) activities against their own individual soul. Many women are suffering from forced physical and sexual violence because of the limited laws and regulations that allow women to refuse unsafe treatments and practices. According to reports, the “ 32
Moreover, this restriction on expressing sexuality encourages passive behavior amongst women. In addition, linking a woman’s ethics to her body reinforces the double standard related to sexuality between men and women. Ultimately, being sexual is “stigmatized in women, but encouraged in men” (Heldman, Part 2). This double standard, combined with the expectations of passivity, reinforces the concept of rape culture. Women are expected to refrain from sex in order to embody purity and thus, are defined by what they do not do.
Marriage by definition is “the legal union of a man and a woman as husband and wife.” Americans statistically fail in a marriage, (According to Susan Estrich)“with more than half of all marriages ending in divorce, families are not what they used to be. In modern marriages, one of the partners will get married to the other for the wrong reasons such as financial stability (wealth). (According to Emma Goldman)” Marriage is primarily an economic arrangement, an insurance pact.” This is a common mistake in marriages because you are marrying someone over money not love, and that's a bad way to approach any relationship.
If a woman is sterile and is of low class, the society is able to rid of them by forcing them to
The few personal stories from the women who experienced circumcision offer powerful additions to the horrifying nature of genital mutilation and how the poorly done operation forever ruins the women’s hygiene and health. The result of Soraya Mire’s choice to only showcase the graphic parts of female circumcision takes away the cultural meaning and importance of the practice. Soraya Mire’s strong opinion on female circumcision relates closely with the Western approach to viewing external cultures and disagreeing with practices that
Indeed human rights have failed to achieve its goals in many countries around the globe due to economical and political diversities. According to Himalayan Foundation, 20,000 Nepali girls are enslaved. The recent Rohingya refugee crisis and genocide by Burma has questioned human rights defenders. WHO reports say that around 125 million girls and women were victimized of Female Genital Mutilation in 29 countries in Africa, Middle East and Asia. Surprisingly more than 2000 victims of FGM have received treatment at London Hospitals in last three years, reported by Martin Bentham in ‘London Evening Standard’, 2013.
Informative Speech: Female Genital Mutilation Specific Purpose: To inform my audience about female genital mutilation and where the controversy of it all lies. Central Idea: Female Genital Mutilation is a tradition in certain parts of the world. Most of the time these procedures aren 't carried out safely and the final outcome of the girls that have been mutilated are to work as sex slaves. INTRODUCTION (Attention Getter)This is Kizibianca of kenya, africa. At a mere fifteen years old she was woken up at 5 am and led outside of her hut by the the local traditional brothers and female elders.
In Canada, many people understand marriage to be a legal union between a couple that formally recognizes their true love for each other. In other parts of the world, different cultures practice arranged marriages planned by the family or guardians of the bride and groom. Without a doubt, there are successful long-lasting love stories derived from arranged marriages. However, the whole process of an arranged marriage can have negative social implications. In my opinion, I believe that arranged marriages are wrong and should no longer be acceptable across the globe.