Celeste, a tough sixteen year old adolescent, strong willed, but occupied with emotions and struggling to deal with family, remains to hold up herself together to face the world. Her family is her mother and elder brother as her father has left them when she was 12 years old. That was when she just stepped into the most fragile age; the age adolescence; when children thinks about everything and all the things around them and within themselves. The separation from her father did have a great impact on her as she was really attached to him. This did improve the mother daughter bond, but it also caused diminutive issues with in the family She started to believe that she doesn’t get as much as attention she needed to get from the family, and this weakened the bond which held the family together. She started spending more time with her friends and she was much more attached to them and also considered her friends as family. She also got involved in a romantic relationship, and got caught and upon being asked to end it she remained to see that boy. She was very stubborn and did what she thought was …show more content…
Celeste, had similar issues like many other adolescents. She faced a lot of ups and downs in her life which contributed towards shaping. She has been influenced by different systems explained in the theory. For instance, separation of her parents, growing up in Italy, financial issues, and poor relationship with the family. Firstly the separation of her parents directly influenced on her; Even though her mother was understanding, loving and caring, she was unable to fill in the gap of a father. Celeste missed the presence of her father and this actually might have contributed in her stubbornness and attitude towards the family. Her mother’s strategies were not sufficient to guide her, because due to the family issues and poor relations, in her life her friends had the most
As the story progresses we come to understand the reason behind all of this. Unfortunately her home life is not the best as she lost her brother and her mother a victim of attempting
I believe a difficult moment for her was when her mother and Lori went away for the summer and left her in charge to pay the bills and feed the kids. Her father kept asking for money and as he expected her to do she would hand it over. He eventually convinced her that for her to get the money back he needed her to go on a “business trip” with him. This trip entailed her practically being sold to a man for sex by her own father. She kept thinking that her father would stop this man or that her father would come save her if anything were to happen.
Dinah had zero interaction with any other girls her age throughout her childhood. “I wanted to cry, but I realized that I was too old for that. I would be a woman soon and I would have to learn how to live with a divided heart.” This quote illustrates the resilience of women and emphasizes their ability to adapt and overcome obstacles.
She was ashamed of her family and she rarely spent time with them once she went to college. I understand that she separated herself because she was angry, but her mother and siblings struggled as well and it was not right to leave them
During the middle of the story she began to have a change of heart. She started to hang out with her aunt more and realized it takes a lot of effort. During this time of self discovery she noticed small details about her friends and family. But by the end of the book she starts to see things from others views to give her insight to how others might see things.
In the except from the novel “ Under the feet of Jesus” by Helena Maria Viramontes shows the development of Estrella from being angry to understanding what she needed to do to succeed. The author uses figurative language and selection of detail to show the changes Estrella’s character went through, which reveals that knowing what things are is beneficial. The author uses figurative language like similes and metaphors to show Estrella’s frustration with her teacher and her understanding of tools. The author says, “ all that a jumbled steel inside the box… seemed as confusing and foreign as the alphabet she could not decipher.”
It is crucial to Jeanette’s development that she recognizes the need to be independent and to acknowledge the drive and determination required to succeed in life. Without the ability to persevere and push oneself past their fears, a person will inevitably fail, something Jeanette will not tolerate. In another example, while
Julia is quite the opposite from her; she is a free spirit, which her mom does not like because she is a hispanic mom who believes no child of hers should go out and be "in other people’s cocinas" (Sanchez, 56). Julia feels suffocated every time Ama compares her to Olga and says Olga did things better which shows imbalance of power in Olga having the power for being the favorite even if she’s dead because she always did what Ama told her and in Amas eyes she was perfect, while Julia was like the black sheep of the family because she never helped and was always getting in trouble. The only thing Julia wants is the love of her mother, but what she gets in return is the blame for her sister's death. That day Olga died, Julia had argued with a teacher, and Ama had to go talk to the principal instead of picking up Olga. Ama never blamed her directly until one day she said, "Maybe if you knew how to behave yourself...
After that she started to be a nicer, more mature sister and she started to care about more than just herself because when she was walking home from school Holling pushed her out of the way from a bus that was about to hit her and then the bus hit him instead of it hitting her. And she said “Holling you saved my life.” and when she was with her family at her dad banquet they had flowers on their shirts to show that they were the perfect family so she took her flower and flushed it down the toilet and said to Holling “ down the toilet.” Because she didn 't to be part of the perfect family.
She has just turned fifteen, but in her culture she is now a woman. She must put away her childish things and except that she will contribute to the family as an adult. In her mind she is still a child who plays with dolls and has little and now she must accept the changes
Nevertheless, as the story unfolds, Tan explains in more detail of the relationship of the mother and her daughter. In which the mother fully believed her daughter would become this great prodigy. Therefore, pressuring her daughter
She watched her mother die slowly and she watched her dad struggle to take care of her. As a young kid or even as an adult watching the person who is supposed to raise you and teach about love, and everything you need to know in life will greatly affect what type of person you turn into. One of the most heartbreaking things you can go through as a child is watching your mother slowly die and then watching your father struggle to take care of her and provide for the family. Ida went through a lot, her mom was sick and then her mom’s sister Clara came to help out and caused a lot of drama in the family. All the fighting put a lot of stress on young Ida, “Mama charged Clara with sneaking into the house like an enemy, charger that she had always covered papa, berated her for taking advantage of illness to have her way” (283).
Her husband isolated her from others and her child, which caused her condition to worsen because she felt that she couldn’t care for her family as she
A stable home life can cause a child to flourish emotionally and gain security. The Bean Trees, by Barbara Kingsolver includes the life of a young girl named Turtle, who previously experiences physically abuse in her household, leading her to be fearful and distrustful of others. She is taken in by Missy, who nurtures and shows her a stable household. After Turtle’s first visit to the doctor, the doctor says to Missy, “‘Sometimes in an environment of physical or emotional deprivation a child will simply stop growing, although certain internal maturation does continue. It’s a condition we call failure to thrive’
Her personal experience is socially and theoretically constructed and emotions play an essential role in the process of identity formation. Her identity is not fixed, which is portrayed by inquisitiveness that her own mother and Aunt thought she was possessed, enhanced and made this story an enriching experience. The family is the first agent of socialization, as the story illustrates, even the most basic of human activities are learned and through socialization people