Step Toward Becoming a Good Father
President Barack Obama says, “Any fool can have a child, but it takes a real man to be a father.” Such a statement from a positive person like Mr. Obama, who is an excellent father himself, speaks nothing but the truth. He means that any man can have babies (baby makers), but not every man can be a father. Making a child is very easy, but making a good father is very difficult. You, as a father, my questions to you are: are you a fool who’s having babies? Or are you a real father who’s having them?
My thing is this; every father ought to be a good one, since the welfare and happiness of his children are at stake. It’s also hard to raise a child the way you would really want to when the system and negative
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The examples and the moral principles and values that you set for them to follow—that’s what counts. Don’t just set them and expect your children to follow them without your supervision. Make sure that they are following every rule and regulation step by step. That’s being a good father, a father who loves and cares for his own flesh and blood—a devoted father. As a father, if you expect your children to behave in a positive way; your behavior cannot be negative toward them and other people; it just won’t …show more content…
Finding the best way to establish a value system that will guide them for the rest of their lives is a must. Always let your children know that it’s imperative to tell the truth at all times, even though the truth is going to get them in trouble. However, let them know also that by telling the truth they will be forgiven and blessed. But by telling lies, they will get severe punishment from their parents and from God himself. Let them know also that the children of the devil and Satan lie, but children of God tell the truth, just like I told my kids. Such a strategy will help your children to tell the truth and nothing but the
“It is not flesh and blood, but heart which makes us fathers and sons.” – Johann Friedrich Von Schiller. Throughout any relationship there are going to be positive and negative impacts on anyone in that relationship. No matter if it’s a friendship, romantic relationship, work relationship, or in this case a family relationship, there are going to be ups and downs. The relationship between dads and children and how it changes under difficult situations is the focus of this essay.
The kids love their parents for who they are but sometimes are embarrassed by their parent's actions. After being in dangerous situations, and dealing with their parents not being responsible they realize
Motherhood who needs it? Is it women, men, society or everyone in general who needs motherhood? In “Motherhood: who needs it?” Betsy Rollin argues that people are having children for all the wrong reasons. Instead of having them because they want to they have them because they feel that it is expected upon them as a woman.
Dr. Victoria Talwar, an assistant professor at Montreal's McGill University is an expert at child lying behavior says that they lie to protect themselves (Talwar, 4). The lying starts by giving an excuse to get out of trouble. Kids already know the what will happen if they were caught doing something wrong so it is logical that they cover it up with lies. This example gives readers a logos
The lies affect the happiness of the parents for the sake of they cannot be with the person they love. The lies do not affect the person telling the lie. When they lie, they do not know how the other person feels about the situation. The crucible can still happen today, thanks to teenage girls that still lie almost everyday of the year. Moreover, lies can still cause serious trouble for a few people and it can also cause death of a few people as well.
Some days, it is easy and fun; other days it can be challenging, to say the least. But you know what? A Daddy is who I am. I love it and would not trade it for anything in the world. I thank God above that
I have eight nephews and nieces. I always try not to tell lie to them
Many people wonder is it wrong to lie or are there some situation where lying is the best option? In the book, The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Nighttime by Mark Haddon, Mark Haddon shifts Christopher’s outlook on honesty and changed his outlook dramatically. Many people, including Christopher, believe in the statement “honesty is the best policy.” However while Christopher becomes more independent, he realizes that in some situations being dishonest might be the best answer. When his father lies to Christopher, Christopher follows his father’s actions and starts to comprehend when he must lie.
The children, not that they asked for it, are dealt the bad hand by fate. It is up to them to decide what to do about it or even to do anything at
What makes a good father? It is someone who is a leader, someone who always wants what is best for you. Especially when times get rough. Over time parenting has changed and grown in many different ways. Authors tackle the ideal parent and different parenting actions and views.
Everyone was uncomfortable and annoyed that they were all lying but once the child said his part, everyone was laughing and felt free because they no longer had to hid an important secret. Also, saying the truth in general is always the better way to go. In summary, pride and lies will lead to trouble, worries, sin, and strife, while humility and the truth will lead to joy, peace, freedom, and
Do children deserve to be told the truth by their parents? Is it advisable to tell lies to children about situations that they do not completely understand? These questions have been contentious for a long time. Parents find it hard to weigh in how much truth they should reveal and how much information to conceal from their children. Some parents may hide crucial information such as divorce, disease, and other information as they see it as a means of protecting their children.
Permissive parenting makes the child friendly but at the same time it makes them stubborn too where areas, uninvolved parenting spoils the child and makes them more mature that their peers. Try to be friendlier with the child but at the same time be firm with them. Try to understand them but don’t let them take advantage of this understanding
Telling the truth isn 't always easy, but sometimes you just have to do it. Every kid grows up thinking Honesty is the best policy, but is it really? As you grow older, it seems that one loses that mindset. It 's not entirely bad or good. There is one thing that everyone must learn to do, that 's knowing when to tell the truth and when not to tell the truth.
Becoming a father in my life was the best thing that has ever happened to me. Living for someone else and not just yourself is a special feeling. Knowing that it is your sole duties in life are now to love, provide, teach, mentor, discipline and love some more. I always hear people say “ Im don 't think I 'm ready to be a parent.” and to be honest I do not think anyone is ready to be a parent.