Why men betray women. By: Isaias Lozano This has been the topic of many discussions, researches, hypothesis, and of courses just simple conversations amongst friends, but in reality what drives men to be unfaithful? Is it debauchery? Emotional dissatisfaction? Or just plain boredom? I´m not here to argue the reasons to why and how, nor give you a psychological run around, It´s best to speak from the heart and do a self-assessment of the reasons why I would probably be unfaithful. Flair and panache two words that mean the same and sound elegant, however today´s youth refer to it as swag. I feel that men and women need to show panache throughout their relationships; sometimes stagnant attitudes are flaws that will tarnish the luster in which …show more content…
This has been scientifically proven; when it comes to empathy women are the dominant force because they unconsciously know the 3 types of empathy. In case you are wondering and also save you some Google ling time they are as follows: cognitive empathy, being able to know how the other person sees things; emotional empathy, feeling what the other person feels; and empathic concern, or sympathy -being ready to help someone in need. But for some reasons I have found that some women don´t express this to their mates, they much rather do it with their besties or bff´s, also known in my time as simply…their girlfriends. This is a big concern because men don´t seek approval from women for fear of exposing their sensitive side, this is a tip for women, no matter what, always show positive reinforcement in a relationship, sometimes we just wish for our girls to simply say, “you know what you did awesome, but things will work out better next time I’m sure of that” whether it’s in an interview or anything related to an activity that your mate is performing that didn´t meet the required outcome. If you don´t do this, you can be sure that the girl sitting next to him or the guy next to her in class or wherever will, and that is when compare and contrast kicks in allowing for undermining of a relationship to take place. This doesn´t mean that whoever does it is purposely trying to interfere in your relationship, but nonetheless it´s a small dent on the armor that you both have built if it’s not carefully
The betrayal; the cut that always bleeds. It goes beyond the surface; damaging relationships and destroying the trust between loved ones. This is explored in Neal Shusterman's novel Unwind. In the story he explores the deception of those in which were once trusted, and the repercussions their actions have on the characters. We explore in great detail in which one betrayal may cost a life.
2. Peers also influences a man’s unfaithfulness. When men have single friends they are convinced easily based on their influence. In the American society it is very common that men propose to women. This gives men the edge or zeal to still propose to ladies and end up being unfaithful.
In The First Betrayal Josan, a man who works in a lighthouse finds himself in the midst of a violent storm. Consequently the disheartening storm threatens to destroy the light in the tower, causing the ships to crash into the rocks. In the passage- The First Betrayal, Patricia Bray’s use of harsh diction and vivid imagery creates a mood of suspense. For instance, the author’s use of word choice illustrates a tone of fear.
Analysis: The First Betrayal In “The First Betrayal,” Patricia Bray uses diction, detail, and imagery to convey a suspenseful mood in the story. Patricia bray creates suspense by using connotative diction that conveys a hopeless mood for the reader. For example, the words overwhelm, threatened, and consumed create suspense by making the readers feel that Josan will die when the lighthouse crumbles underneath him. The words terror, devour , and relentless also add to the feeling of apprehension because they suggest Josan will not escape the tower
Friendship Comes at a Price Does friendship come with betrayal? In many novels that dive deep into the concept of friendship, there is also the idea of betrayal within friendships and relationships. This causes one to think about whether friendship comes at a price or if true, devoted friends do what is best for one another. This argument is seen in the novel Of Mice and Men by John Steinbeck. Numerous people believe that the shooting of Lennie should be considered as murder and was not an act of euthanasia.
Betrayal Essay Betrayal is the breaking or violation of trust, or confidence that produces moral and psychological conflict within a relationship amongst individuals, between organizations or between individuals and organizations. It is hard to forgive betrayal. Survival, Power, and Jealousy are the reasons why “Betrayal is the only truth that sticks”. Power is one of the reasons that betrayal is common.
This behavior can strain the bond and connection between the two resulting in either the end of a relationship or an unfulfilling and dissatisfying relationship, like
In theory, any relationship is an important one, they teach us to communicate and we learn from our mistakes. Sexual Relationships are especially important because of the connection we make towards a partner, a lover, a companion (Kate Hathaway, 2013). Lately these types of relationship are getting a bad rap because of infidelity, but I don’t see us fixing the problem and instead we are ignoring what happens and moving on as if it didn’t. I think we’re becoming immune to infidelity, also known as cheating in a sexual relationship.
Today in the 21st century there are many guys who cheat on their wife and some who have an affair. Some men later on regret it and others don’t. Some cheat because they’re lacking some kind of need from their spouse and they go outside of their marriage to find comfort. Others just cheat because they can’t resist
Joseph Boyden’s novel Three Day Road demonstrates how effective betrayal is at destroying our hopes and beliefs. Both brief relationships involved a coming together of the two races and both of them ended in disappointment for Niska and Xavier, but not necessarily for the trapper or Lisette. Niska is betrayed by the French fur trader, a betrayal that echoes the betrayal of indigenous groups by the first colonists. The French man reveals to Niska,” [He] took [her] ahcahk,” (Boyden 174).
The themes of the story are both the same being betrayal and anger. They are however expressed in a different way. Unferth and Beowulf show anger toward each other in different ways for example unferth is shown as someone who is jealous of beowulf and will use any flaws that he sees in him to make him look bad. “unlocked his thoughts with these unfriendly words for the journey of beowulf” The author has a style where it keeps you up to see whats next and what would be beowulf’s response to what unferth said to him.
In the novel, Of Mice & Men by John Steinbeck, the author demonstrates how friendship is profitless, impracticable, and full of deception. Friends don’t always have your back when you think they do. Nothing really does hurt more than being betrayed by the one person you trusted the most. Friends sometimes aren’t worth the heartbreak you go through in the end.
Most people do things in the name of loyalty when it reality it betrays the person they are trying to be loyal to. People decide to betray or remain loyal to others for the greater good of their cause; unaware of the morality of their decisions nor of the effects their decisions have on others. In Hisham Matar’s In the Country of Men, the object of betrayal within the book is subject to the betrayers’ idea of
The patterns of trust and subsequent betrayal found in the Invisible Man by Ralph Ellison, serve to teach lessons about what it was like for African Americans in post-slavery America, when the book is set. The Invisible Man trusts easily and naively. Yet, despite working hard, he is betrayed by the institutions and people he looks up to as role models as they exploit his expectations for their own agenda. Overall, there are four strong examples of those taking advantage and hurting the Invisible Man. With each incident, he learns a lesson about how blatantly the black population is disregarded, along with being given an object that represents the underlying racism found in a society.
Most importantly, why do women sabotage themselves in relationships? A few reasons: They lack confidence They aren't 100% sure of what they want