The only way Gatsby will ever be complete is when he has Daisy. For five years, he dreamt of obtaining Daisy, his one true love. Nick analyzes, “Almost five years…when Daisy tumbled short of his dreams…but because of the colossal vitality of his illusion” (Fitzgerald 95). Since Gatsby met Daisy five years before the books start, he yearned for her. His one and only goal was Daisy, and it was the only thing he wanted in life.
In the beginning, before he leaves for war, it seems as though Gatsby and Daisy’s love was real. But Daisy wasn’t the person she used to be or the person Gatsby dreamed her to be and that was overwhelming on it’s own. Towards the end Gatsby’s love seems to turn more into an obsessive to prove his new worth and value, to show off his success and trophies, including Daisy. When that didn’t work out as planned, and he didn’t receive the amount of validation he needed he decided to end his life, over whelmed just like Daisy. The past is the past and you can’t live in it.
With that being said, many readers believed it wasn't love, but Gatsby is having an obsession over Daisy making him seem delusional. In my opinion, I truly believe Gatsby was indeed in love with Daisy. From the beginning to end of the book, his action truly showed that he did everything thing in his power to get his long, lost love back. To begin, Gatsby and Daisy met in Louisville in 1917. Gatsby met the first “nice girl” in his life.
Knowing that she was happily married and had a child, he set himself up for failure. The idea of having something that in reality was far beyond gone, occurred when Gatsby's affection for Daisy stopped him to consider anything else but being with her. Love’s complication makes it one of the strongest feelings known to man. Gatsby succumbed to the feeling of blind love and it ended up hurting him more than helping. It made him host parties he didn't even enjoy to attract the attention of the only person he someday hopes
Compare and Contrast Gatsby’s Parties and Funeral In F. Scott Fitzgerald’s The Great Gatsby, Gatsby is known for throwing very lavish parties. There are many people there, music, dancing, drinking, and everyone always has a great time. The irony of Gatsby’s funeral is that even though Gatsby is thought to have many friends and an exciting life, he ends up dying alone. The differences between the parties and his funeral are that the parties are extravagant while the funeral is dull and that many people go to his parties but hardly anyone shows up to his funeral; the parties and funeral are alike because Daisy is one of the people who is wanted at both the most, but never shows up. Daisy goes to one of Gatsby’s parties after she realizes
Tom’s and Gatsby’s party differed in almost every aspect possible. While Tom’s party was a small party to assert his dominance to his mistress and friends, Gatsby’s party was to lure and impress the love of his life. Tom’s party displayed his snobby old money ideals by not spending much money and effort, while Gatsby’s party symbolized new money with its excessive and flaunting spending and grandiose show. The level of intimacy at both parties differed significantly. Despite Tom’s party being small, it was far from intimate with all the guests budging into all conversations, Nick couldn’t even have a talk with Catherine long enough without Ms. Mckee budging in.
Fitzgerald provides plenty of scenes in The Great Gatsby supporting the ideas whether Gatsby’s love was affectionate, obsession, or objectification. Fitzgerald shows that throughout the story, Gatsby slowly becomes more obsessed with Daisy as he draws closer and closer to be with her. By the end of the book, Gatsby becomes obsessed with Daisy. He only thinks about her and analyze everything in her life. Even in the beginning when the reader finally meets Gatsby, his obsession shows.
Love, a deep affection, is only complete when felt by two unique individuals. In this story Gatsby has become blinded by his affection for Daisy he does not stop to consider anything else but being with her. He has this illusion and fantasy he has longed for since a little boy in his dream. While he has obtained everything else, the fame, glory, and wealth he lacks one thing, a lover. He has his life all crafted out and Daisy was his missing piece.
He tells us that if he falls in love with this girl, he knows his life will be changed forever. He knew that his life would never be the same and his love for Daisy will never stop and ever since then they have been in love. But sadly Gatsby returns back to war and they don't speak again.
These quotes infer that Gatsby doesn't even love Daisy he just thinks he does because he doesn't see her for who she really is, he is blinded by his past, he thinks he can recreate the past and that everything will be the same. He's made some kind of perfect image of her in his mind that he doesn't see her for who she really
They were once in love, before the war. But, after Gatsby leaves Daisy finds a new man. A man with money that could give her anything she desired. Everything except love that is. Gatsby could give her love at the time, but not money.
Gatsby’s name was incessantly linked to a good time. We are first introduced to these charming parties in chapter three of the book. The party host is evoked into our mind as a gentlemanly and high class man, but this scene is also shrouded in a sense of mystery. Gatsby himself only communicates with the narrator, Nick Carraway, at the end of the chapter as he is inaccessible and unknown to many of his guests. The isolation that Gatsby portrays toward his guests and his removal from partaking in his own affairs seems to create an initial image of mystery for Gatsby that affects his character and the relationships he holds with others throughout the book.
Gatsby falls in love with Daisy the first minute he meets her and never stops loving her even though she has obviously moved on. Gatsby does everything he can to be closer to her like buying “that house so that Daisy would be just across the bay” (78). Gatsby knows that if he can get the girl of his dreams he will not feel lonely anymore. " He talked a lot about the past… he wanted to recover something, some idea of himself perhaps, that had gone into loving Daisy. His life had been confused and disordered since then, but if he could once return to a certain starting place and go over it all slowly, he could find out what that thing was” (87).
In the book The Great Gatsby by F. Scott Fitzgerald somewhat portrays some of these things. In the first few chapters Fitzgerald talks about how extravagant Gatsby’s parties are. What type of music he plays and what kind of people go to his parties. In The Great Gatsby Jazz music, Baseball, and the ways of women were slightly talked about.
In the novel The Great Gatsby, Nick, the narrator, tries to climb in his economic standings by becoming a bonds man, while Gatsby tries to boost his social position and achieve a certain level of fame through throwing extravagant parties and flaunting his money. Gatsby’s money, however, is obtained through unethical, illegal means of bootlegging grain alcohol in a time when the laws of prohibition were in place. He is driven to the extent of crime because of his obsession with being accepted by Daisy, a member of high-class society. While in the process of trying to impress her, he becomes entangled with attempting to become welcomed by other East Egg aristocrats and transversing into the extremely exclusive social class, an impossible goal. Gatsby has two unattainable wishes, the first being a renewed relationship Daisy, who represents the unreachable American Dream, and the second being a rise in social status.
