Under Age Marriage: Should it be allowed?
Mariam Al Failkawei
0009405
ENGL 112-1
Gerald Naughton
April 2, 2016 Under age marriage
Do you think that teenagers should be allowed to marry? Marriage under the age of 18 has become less prevalent nowadays compared to older times however; it is still seen more commonly in some societies to this day. Marriage is by law and most cultures a holistic bond that is created between to people who have decided to share their lives together. With this bond comes a huge amount of responsibility for people involved. This level of responsibility could be rather overwhelming to the young under 18 individual. Moreover, many people who get married under the age of 18 have to give up large portions of their
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In fact, people under age can’t understand the relationships between two couples and the world to the extent required for a successful marriage. Also, taking a serious step in their own life such as getting married have disadvantage like having to leave high school early which they need to have job to provide for their family. In real life, many of couple under age think of divorce because they still have to live in their parents’ house who have to take care of them and figure they should finish high school and graduate from university first. Research shows that when a younger person is married, and has the child when they make the decision to divorce this leads to the child getting involved with a broken family. Often they are suffering from how they can get this relationship to work and may end up hating each other. Many of people against early marriage because they think that it’s the end of freedom. When younger people take the serious step to change their life from a smaller girl to become wives and mothers before they are …show more content…
It is mainly the family’s decision to take the girls out of school. As, their lives become surrounded just by looking after children. Some of the families, even here in Kuwait, traditionally take the girls at the age of 13 and marry them to an older man to take care of her. When she is fully grown he considers her as a wife. As noted by Tjøtta (2008), if they marry earlier they will no chance to finish education or no will they have the foundations of marriage (p422). When they do not finish their education they lose the opportunity to have a bright future. However, the education for girls is not just a basic right, but it’s the power for girls to standup for themselves and to face anyone who wants to deprive them of their rights in education. Young girls should not be allowed of the underage marriage because it stops them from attending school which leads to low performance, knowledge and make free decisions including to whether want get married or not. One evidence shows that girls don’t get a chance to continue their education they don’t have any chance to get jobs they can’t even afford material health care for her baby or for herself because she doesn’t have a job to get income to provide the requirements for her living. After a period of time when a girl has a child and wants a source of income to provide supplies for her child, she would need to look for a job. Unfortunately, some jobs may not
In our first study, Kendra Randall Jolivet discusses divorce through the child’s perspective. Jolivet focuses on how divorce affects children. Jolivet’s study is on the GordonPoll Youth Survey. The survey asked more than 1,000 teenagers between the ages of fourteen and eighteen their opinions on divorce and obtained their attitudes, thoughts and feelings towards divorce and family issues. The survey not only included children with divorced parents, but also children that come from married homes.
The girls in favor of pro-choice shared that sometimes these children are left without parents. They are either left in orphanages or in foster care. Not all children have the right support and may feel unwanted as they grow up. Furthermore, some families cannot afford to have a child because they are not financially stabled. Some people feel they are not prepared to be parents.
Based off of this alone, it is evident that there are pros and cons as to if the age should be younger or kept at 21. There are many people throughout the country that feel like the age of 21 is too high to be the
However, today there is growing awareness of how harmful they can be, especially for young women. Arranged marriages lack the element of love and mutual consent, leading to a lack of normalcy for young women. This part of my essay will talk about the dangers of arranged marriages for young women. Firstly, arranged marriages restrict young women’s freedom of choice. In many cases, young women are forced into marriages against their will, often for the sake of financial gain or to maintain social status.
A young woman becoming engaged with an older man that is three times her age is not acceptable. A minor is not required to be committed in a relationship if they do not obtain the full knowledge 12 years of education, and they have the responsibility of buying a home, having a job, etc. It is important for every young child to be able to attend school and to learn essential things they will refer by for their
To further justify this point, Thomas (2013) articulates, “Taking stock of…spiritual weakness, early marriage seemed like the wise thing to do” (p. 89). Although I do understand the argument he wishes to convey, I do not necessarily agree that young marriage is a wise decision. Pursing marriage at a young age allots problems to arise early into the relationship. The couple may not be ready to pursue marriage in various other capacities outside of strong sexual desire. Responsibility to admit weakness is commendable, however, I believe further self-control and wise counsel should be addressed primarily before jumping into marriage.
Often times girls are married at a young age when they enter puberty, and may stop attending school to be with their husband and family once started. The marriage is a traditional ceremony and not a legal marriage. So states that have laws of being a certain age do not
Well, that is a false statement. The average age for a man to get married is twenty nine years old and the average age for a woman to get married is at twenty six. At the age of 14 and up most teens have no idea how to take care of themselves. Women that marry under the age of 18 are most likely to go into poverty because they drop out of school and, therefore, lack the knowledge of how to meet the family needs. Did you know about fifteen million girls are married before the age of eighteen each year?
Should high school students be able to drive themselves? Many people have argued that the driving age is too young. Some say that there is a larger risk when teens are behind the wheel. No,the driving age should not be raised . Imagine parents that have a full time job trying to get their kids back and forth to school and work and home.
In Shakespeare’s Romeo and Juliet, Lord Capulet, Juliet’s father, decides that no matter what Juliet says she has to marry Paris even though she’s already married to the love of her life, Romeo. Getting married for a young person is the biggest life-changing event of their life and an important decision. The type of marriage a person has is mainly based on culture. Arranged marriages have evolved over time and are still in use today for certain people. Arranged marriage from the parents of a child is a bad idea because it may turn into a money pit for both spouses, it may restart old family feuds from the past, and it is unfair for a child not to be able to pick their own spouse to marry.
In India they do arranged marriages and surprisingly the teens does not mind being set up for the marriages. The reason these teens don’t mind being set in arranged marriages is because they don’t have to worry about the struggle of a relationship. Many young teens in India look at marrying a person they don’t know gives them a lifetime to learn and love them. These marriages are not based on feelings, but commitment. In the text Sabatina was forced to go with the arranged marriage in which she didn’t want to do but since it was her family’s tradition she had to do it
Marriage strengthens the family bond, especially when a child is being born into the family. Like the saying goes, “it takes a village to raise a child.” The point mentioned in the video was marriage without consent would only lead to undesirable consequences. If one has decided to settle down with the partner of choice, it is without a doubt that the family will have a say regarding the marriage. One must ensure to be competent in taking care of the partner of choice as the family entrusts the responsibility to the individual.
It is a sad situation that is happening because the divorce of parents greatly harms the child 's relationships with people, school life, and their economic financial. Usually, the better the parents adjust to these losses, the better the children will adjust, and the fewer problems that will come
The children don't go through problems like marriage they go through bullying. Some people aren't accepted in school and that makes everything harder for them. Bullies make fun of them and call them freaks to the point where they believe it. A lot of these students commit suicide because it was all to much. Bullying hurts and nobody should have to endure being bullied.
It is important to remember that arranged marriages in places such as India and countries in Africa often involve a dowry. In other words, the groom and their family will pay the bride’s parents for the hand of their daughter. This leads to fathers marrying off their underage daughters to