Connecting &Communicating in a Digital wired world…
Years ago, companionship and conversation were important part of society. People prized dinner parties because they allowed one to engage in conversations. Conversations enrich our minds and our lives.
The art of communication has always been central to human civilization and its development. Communication is also what keeps families, businesses and societies together. Communication is all about staying in touch, conveying our emotions and thoughts and exchanging views and opinions.
Communication and its many facets – conversation, discussions even confrontations, is by default a method of sharing and storing information. We talk to one another mostly to obtain or share information, whether
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Now when we want to share something, we share it on Facebook.
There’s nothing wrong with technology – it has been and will continue to be amazing and empower us to reach the world right from our chair but what we can see is that we are grasping the tech apparatus wrong in the way we perceive it.
Technology has also almost killed off that great art of communication – writing letters. In days gone by, young romance started with a love letter. As the romance progressed, so did the language, the poetic prose and the treasured words of the love letter. Some would scent it and write it on treasured stationary. Today, young lovers stay in touch via Snapchat or WhatsApp.
Communication is the most important part in any partnership, be it a business relationship or a personal relationship – every marriage calls for a sound exchange of view ideas and thoughts. Keeping the channels of communication open is vital as they say, for a good partnership and a sound marriage.
The office is often where we spend a greater part of the day – how much do we communicate with each other? When I was working back in the corporate world, before internet days, tea room breaks were much looked forward to. We would sip our tea and catch up each other. Today, I believe some choose to send e mails to their colleagues in the next door cubicle rather than meet in
He remembers people coming into their house and crowding around their television to watch it with them for the first time. In today’s society, there is so much technology and we have gotten so used to it we do not think for ourselves. Mr. Francis explained to me that since there was no technology or cell phones, people actually communicated with each other and had real conversations. He told me that today’s generation relies on our phones and social media so much we forget how to communicate in the outside world, and we talk to people like we talk to them online.
Chapter two in the textbook Reflect & Relate an Introduction to Interpersonal Communication by Steven McCornack talks all about what “self” is and how to achieve complete fulfillment for one’s self which is also known as self-actualization. The components of self, as described in the book are, “ . . . self-awareness, self-concept, and self-esteem” (McCornack 39). Self-awareness is the idea in which one can take a moment to move feelings, beliefs, and other external influences aside and just evaluate oneself in a holistic perspective that is not skewed by opinions of others, etc. Having the ability to actually think about who one is brings a lot of power and mental stability in such a way that allows for improvement.
When using REBT to address Maliya’s problems my goals would be to help her recognize and correct irrational thinking and see how her thinking is connected to her behavior. . In order to accomplish this, I would simply explain the concept of irrational thinking and replacing it with more rational thinking. From this point we would begin to examine some of her flawed thinking. In order to find out what her self-talk is, we would need to examine some current problems that she faces by using trauma focuses cognitive behavior therapy and play therapy. By employing the A-B-C-D-E model of disputing, we would learn about her thoughts and feelings regarding any traumatic events.
1 Deborah Tannen, Ph.D. That’s Not What I Meant!. Amazon, 1987. Reviewed by Shelby D. Slocum, Pittsburg State University, KS. This book provides an explanation of the common misconceptions in communication.
details. They make people feel included by requesting input and giving praise (Tannen, 1990, p. 74). In Mars and Venus in the Workplace, John Gray identifies four reasons to talk. The first reason is, talk to make a point.
This theory was made by Michael Argyle (1925- 2002), who was a social psychologist. In the late 1960s he studied social skills, body language, non-verbal communication and interpersonal behaviour. In this study, he found that non-verbal signals can be much more important and useful than verbal communication when trying to trigger peoples’ attitudes and feelings. His research showed and found that the stronger the relationship between the people communicating so with close friends for example the much better eye contact. However, when the relationship is not very strong so when speaking to a stranger people don’t have very good eye contact and they tend to look away when talking.
In her essay, “I Had a Nice Time with you Tonight, on the app,” Jenna Wortham believes that social media apps are a helpful way to connect. Wortham swears by apps and is grateful that she can communicate with her boyfriend who is three thousand miles away. Yet some may challenge the view that Social Media apps are a reliable and effective method of communicating, Sherry Turkle stresses people are substituting online communication for face-to-face interaction. Although Turkle may only seem of concern to only a small group of people, it should in fact concern anyone who cares about the negative effects social media can have on people. In her eyes, nothing can replace person-to-person communication.
Socio-linguist Deborah Tannen demonstrates how men and women communicate differently in her essay “Sex, Lies and Conversation: Why Is It So Hard for Men and Women to Talk to Each Other?” In her observations of communication styles, she discusses the way in which men and women communicate leads them to conflict because they have different understanding of their partners’ role. She also explains male and female communication differences not only cause ineffective conversation, but also push couples into a dilemma in their relationship; however, as men and women better understand the differences, their relationship improves. In the first part of her essay, Tannen discusses men and women do not have enough effective communication, which damages their marriage.
The first thing everyone does in the morning is check their phone, it 's a habit for nearly everyone on the planet. Using technology is just common sense in this day in age, it 's taken for granted but it’s not the only thing taken for granted on a daily basis. What people do not notice is how important relationships are to everyday life as well as how much everyone relies on the relationships they have. The author’s Brooks, Budnitz, and Yuen make it clear to see how love and relationships are more powerful than technology even though technology is used on a daily basis. Technology is a safety net protecting this generation from human interaction, this is not a bad thing everyone needs to have a safety net to rely on every once in a while
Not only that, technology has shaped social interaction as a whole. Being able to talk to anyone on the Earth is an important milestone and “One of the areas where computers have had the most impact on our lives is how we relate to and communicate with other people” (Stewart). In a world filled with Skype, social media, and email, no longer do people have to leave their house in order to communicate. In fact, according to a study led by John Cacioppo of the University of Chicago 's Department of Psychology, roughly one-third of romantic relations start by meeting online. This goes to show how huge of an impact technology has had on communication.
Ancient forms of human communication include cave drawings, smoke signals, symbols, and carrier pigeons. During the late 1800’s, communication became more advanced with the invention of the typewriter and the telephone. Roughly one hundred years later, a military project resulted in what we know today as the internet. With a little innovation, the internet made social interactions between people easier than ever, although, the convenience may come at a cost. Some theories suggest that heavy reliance on social media for human interaction will weaken communication skills, hinder meaningful social interactions, and negatively impact personal relationships.
Introduction: Communication is sharing process which involves expressing ideas, thoughts, feelings or sending the right message that is also being correctly received and understand by the other person/s who is receiving it on the other end. We all communicate with others in our lives. We communicate with our families, when we go shopping, at school or college or chat with friends. Communication with others is a natural part of life.
In society today, communication classes are highly over looked because of our new developing technology. People don’t realize how much a communication class could benefit them. We have lost sight of verbal communication skills. This class has taught me to put my phone down and communicate with others. It has opened my eyes to the real world without technology.
The world we live in today is predominately changing with the advancement of digital communication in the daily aspects of our life. The rapid growth and evolution of digital communication, has resulted in it now becoming the backbone of the way we interact with other people. Beginning from simple 160-character SMS messages to text’s influence on the internet including Facebook, Twitter, Blogs and Instagram and then introduced on our mobile phones with BBM and whatsapp; digital communication has become a part of our spoken discourse. Digital communication in every aspect has impacted our lives as it helps jobs and businesses communicate a lot faster through e-mail, multimedia and texting.
Technology is everywhere and we cannot escape it, it literally involves every part of our lives, whether we like it or not it affect us all. From how we work, play and live our lives, technology has created a revolution that will grow for as long as humans continue to advance in their capabilities. Technology just get better and better, what was once latest and popular yesterday is old hat today and the bottom line is technology doesn’t wait for anyone if you not keeping up with it, you will surely be left in the dust. If you compare the lifestyle of people living in the life of today’s time you will see that it is highly advanced, busy, complex and easier compared to the life of back in the days.