Essay About Communication In Relationships

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Now that you understand why we communicate the way we do—and what causes conflict and causes a relationship to deteriorate—it gives you a better understanding of how you can have better communication in your relationships moving forward. Communication starts with self and honesty. When you know who you are, what you need and what you want, it’s much easier to communicate with others and make choices more honestly. Remember, you are not just in a romantic relationship you are now in a relationship with someone who should be your best friend. This is the person you should be able to share your hopes and dreams with, as well as your fears. This is the person you should be able to be you most vulnerable with, and be your most honest self with. …show more content…

If you’re with someone who you cannot be yourself with, someone you have to pretend with, and someone who you cannot express your feelings to—then you are probably with the wrong person. But, if you are able to be yourself with your partner, then it’s not only important for you to be able to express yourself, but also important for you to be able to listen and be aware, so that you can hear and feel what your partner …show more content…

I have had many relationships with men who are just my friends, who I’ve never dated and have never had intentions on dating. As the years have gone by, I have met their girlfriends and wives, and became friends with them as well. I have also dated men and remained friends with them after our romantic relationship ended, and have become friends with their present girlfriend or wife. Why? Because the gentleman and I were friends to begin with, so we were able to remain friends. There are many people who have a close friend of the opposite sex. If you are beginning a new relationship it’s important that your close friend meets and has a relationship with your partner. The two of them having a relationship is the only way to avoid insecurities and friction in your relationship with either of them. The two may not love each other, but they need to be comfortable with each

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