Millions of people are using online dating sites to seek for partners in this era of digital technology. Dating sites are commonly used by people all around the world. There are various risks of meeting potential mates online. This paper investigates the negative impacts brought by online dating, and to what extent do they affect online users. It is discovered that there are eight main harmful aspects impacting the people and society.
Keywords: online dating, risks, virtual relationship
1. Introduction
According to the Maslow’s hierarchy of basic needs, humans require physiological, safety, social, self-esteem and self-actualization in life (Mazanderani, 2012). The need of love is one of the basic needs for human beings. The main concern about love is searching for the right person. So how exactly do people find their partners? Most people meet their potential partners in their social circles, such as school and office (Rosenfield & Thomas, 2012). However, the number of potential partners in a person’s social circle can be very limited. People spend a lot of time on internet every day. Besides that, mobile technology is evolving quickly all around the world. Smartphones are now a necessity for most people in daily life. Based on a survey, 77% of the respondents claim that it is important to have access to their smartphones all the time whereas 92% of them say that they would rather having their smartphones with them instead of bringing debit cards or credit cards
In the present world, smart phones, tablets, and social networking services have transformed the way people communicate with each other. The advancement in technology has allowed people to connect wherever and whenever they want to. However, that was not the case for young couples living in the eighteenth century in the United States. The identification and engagement among young couples in the United States went through a significant evolvement to become what is today.
eHarmony distinguished itself from other personal sites by offering a tightly integrated system that encompassed a personality profile, which fed into a matching algorithm, which then led into a guided communication. Users would answer 258 questions covering 29 measures of compatibility. The matching algorithm would connect people with at least 25 similarities in compatibility and inform both individuals. The individuals would then send to the other person 5 easy multi-choice questions provided by eHarmony. Once both parties answered they advanced to the next stage where they were asked on “must-haves” and “cant-haves”.
Carr brings up the question of how our minds can be negatively affected by this when he asks, “So what happens to our minds when we allow a single tool such dominion over our own perception and cognition?” While Carr is aware that the smartphone serves a countless number of useful purposes and tasks, he believes we should think deeper about the lesser known effects of our smartphones which people so easily allow to take over their lives. Carr begins his article with statistics, stating that the typical smartphone owner checks on their phone over 80 times a day, which translates to almost 30,000 times a year. He calls smartphones our constant companions, comparing them to teachers, secretaries, confessors, and gurus. In fact, Carr includes a 2015 Gallup survey which found that “more than half of iPhone
Living in the technology age our constant need for technology and the internet has changed everything about a person’s daily life. Technology has replaced the ability for deep, meaningful thought and even the need for face-to-face human interaction. Today people don’t have to put in a lot of work in order to find information they are looking for. They can find it easily at the touch of their fingers on the internet. They can even have relationships on the internet.
Dating. It has always been a major aspect of the American lifestyle. From depicting relationships in magazines, to major Hollywood productions, to comic books, dating is everywhere. Dating itself has evolved, modernized and redefined itself after each passing generation. From the days where a woman 's hand in marriage was traded for land and property to the Tinder hookups of today, dating is nothing like it used to be.
Most people live their lives seeking out love and to end up marrying someone they love with
People sign up on online dating sites to find love and a partner to make a family
Far too often, humans are checking out of real life and checking into a virtual world. In the article, The IRL Fetish, written by Nathan Jurgenson, there are many negative references to the effects that technology has had on our world in this day and age. Face to face conversations are currently seen as something special instead of something that occurs in everyday life. When people are not scrolling through social media, they are constantly thinking about who could be online and what they could possibly post next. There is an ongoing problem with human infatuation with the online world and all that it entails.
That is why the conduct of online dating is much different as compared to traditional dating. According to Lim (2007), due
Dating sites and applications has been created year 1995. Online Dating is a way for people to find and contact each other through the Internet to arrange a date, usually with the goal of developing a personal and romantic relationship. Online dating allow users to create a profile and uploading personal information including age, gender, sexual orientation, location, and appearance. Once a profile has been created, members can view
In contemporary world, smartphone are playing a very important role in human’s life. It’s a technology that keeps on developing everyday to make the life of each person easier. The impacts of smartphone are obvious include social life, business and pollution. Mobile technology has already changed the cultural specification and behaviour of each person especially in today. The impacts are both at the positive side and negative side.
with the availability of free online dating websites gives an endless amount of people to meet. There are several advantages with this form of dating, but there are also many disadvantages to be aware of before deciding to go into the world of online dating. About 81% of online dating users lie about either their height, weight or age in their dating profiles. Some people suggest doing a background check before talking or connecting with them to make sure they are not lying about themselves. Several individuals have been hurt while online dating, multiple studies have claimed that breakups are more common in couples who meet online than the couples who meet face to face.
Social Media: Affects Relationships As technology progresses more and more, there have been great changes that have made our lives more easy and efficient. There are many advantages that technology has brought upon us, one in particular is the Internet. The Internet has allowed people to be connected quickly to information and be updated to the issues and happenings around us, but the social networks that have been invented to allow long distance connection have been resulting in negative outcomes for society and our generation. Social media gets in the way of building actual relationships, makes people become inauthentic about their lives and lowers their self-esteem, and has become a dangerous and threatening nature. During these days, it seems as if nobody can live without checking their social media accounts, whether it’s Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter.
Smartphone is one of the best invention in twenty first century. Smartphone is an all-in device that provide functionality of other device such as calculator, torch light, media player and camera. According to Pei and Lionel (2006), unspecific promoting planner had started to use the term smartphone to bring up new type of cell phone that can enable information access and use computing power to process. Smartphone allow us to contract with people, access information and make transaction within our finger tips. Although smartphone is convenient to us but the overuse of smartphone can lead to smartphone addiction.
The article discussed how smartphones are more than just the regular cellphones. That because of the services or capabilities that it provides, it must be something to be treated as “more than powerful”. Ahmed and Ahmad (2016) discuss that “A Smartphone can be explained in terms of more powerful CPU, more powerful RAM, plenty of storage space, superior connectivity options and larger screen than a regular cell phone.” However, despite of the said fact, the authors didn’t deny the imperfectness of smartphones. Issues like short battery life, risk of screens busting and security were briefly tackled.