“I don’t think I realised how stressed I was, being a single parent. It was really, really stressful. It’s not easy on anybody,” Reese Witherspoon truthfully admitted. However, the situation isn’t just stressful on the parent, but also on the child. Trying to connect with their remaining parent or even just getting over the loss of their other parent. It can be hard on the child to handle the overwhelming responsibility or even missing the empty space which used to be their parent. In passages from Confetti Girl and Tortilla Sun, the tension of having one parent and how that can affect their families is revealed. In Confetti Girl by Diana Lopez, the narrator, Lina, is having trouble coping with the loss of her mom and connecting with her …show more content…
Izzy wants to be close to someone for once but is finding that difficult since her mother keeps leaving her behind to fulfil her own goals. For instance, shortly after just moving to a new home, Izzy finds out that her mother is moving to Costa Rica to complete some research. This means that Izzy will have to move in with her grandmother in New Mexico. In response to this, Izzy says, “I swallowed hard and tried not to cry. ‘Why do you always get to decide everything? We just unpacked and I-I had plans’” (Cervantes). This explains that Izzy feels like her mother is being selfish and disregarding her feelings since Izzy asks her mom why she rules all decisions. Additionally, after arguing with her mother about moving to New Mexico, Izzy stomps up to her room. In the story she narrates, “I burrowed my head under the pillow with the baseball. A tiny piece of me felt guilty for stealing it, but it belonged to my dad and that made it special. That made it a part of me” (Cervantes). This illustrates that Izzy wants to feel close to someone. Izzy’s father isn’t present in the passage, but Izzy still tries to be close to him just because she’s so desperate to have a meaningful relationship with
Have you ever been frustrated with your parents or parent? In the stories, Confetti Girl and Tortilla Sun, the both narrators have a hard time making peace with their parent. In both stories, the problems are creating tension between their family, and it’s because of the difference in points of views. Such as the daughter in Confetti Girl, she is frustrated on how the dad is not paying attention to her wants and needs. Also, how she prefers on talking about something meaningful to her than about books.
For instance, in Confetti Girl and Tortilla Sun, both lose a parent. Which gives them a sense of hopelessness. In Confetti Girl the dad and the daughters have trouble connecting. In the beginning of the passage, it states “Mom always had after-school projects waiting for me. ’Can you help decorate cookies?’she'd say.
This suggests that her dad is a single parent and he doesn't understand change. In contrast, in Tortilla’s Sun in paragraph 18 it states that the daughter has to move to New Mexico for the summer while the mom finishes school. In paragraph 46 she gets upset and storms to her room and she gets her dads baseball and this means that she misses him and needs him. In the story the Confetti Girl the main point
Have you ever felt neglected by your parents in their decisions? Well, these characters have felt that way too. The two fictional novels, Confetti Girl by Diana Lopez and Tortilla Sun by Jennifer Cervantes, both of the novels create tension between the main character and parent. In Confetti Girl, the narrator talks to her dad about school and tries to make conversation, but once the narrator brings up a new book she read, her dad goes on a scavenger hunt to find his copy and doesn’t pay attention to his daughter. This caused tension between the both of them, making them feel separated from each other.
Have you ever gotten into a fight with your parents, and felt like they were disregarding all of the things that you wanted? If so, then you have the same problem as the two main characters in the stories Confetti Girl and Tortilla Sun. The main characters both have tension between their parents because they both want different things. In both stories Confetti Girl and Tortilla Sun the different points of view between a parent and their child causes tension.
I felt a sudden urge to bolt for the front door and run.” it is clear that Izzy really wants to go with her mother but her mother is not allowing her and instead, sending her to her Nana’s house. And that last sentence shows the amount of tension added to the conflict as Izzy wants to “bolt for the door and run.” And. also, in the quote,”Honey, you can make friends at your new school in the fall, Besides, this is a wonderful opportunity for you.’
She stormed out of the girl’s bathroom ready to face Respusia. She walked outside and was immediately greeted by Respusia. “Where have you been Izzy? Were you scared or something?”. “No Respusia!
Ariel’s dad speaks badly about her grandparents. He says she only needs him. Her dad claims they aren't good people and he wants nothing to do with them. Ariel’s dad has made sure she never meets any of her family. Her father is constantly avoiding the topic of family.
Logan Miller Mrs. Workman 8th Grade Language Arts Mar 7, 2023 Tension Exists in “Confetti Girl,” and, “Tortilla Sun.” Parents and children sometimes don’t see eye to eye. In the passage, “Confetti Girl,” the story is about a girl who is looking for connection with her father. In the story, “Tortilla Sun,” the narrator and her mother have different views on the mom continuing her studies in Costa Rica.
"Those were some damn fine plans. " Mom stayed out of the conversation, sketching quietly. " Dad," I said, "I'm sorry, I really should have asked you to my graduation." "To hell with that." He laughed.
After Miranda’s mom got sprained her ankle Miranda’s mom told Miranda how grateful and proud she is for Miranda. Miranda’s mom also thinks that Miranda has been brave over the past few months. Miranda’s mom said “We’ll get through. We have each other and we’ll survive.” Then Miranda replied “I know we will.”
Best of the Worst Parenting is never perfect. Every parents questions whether they are raising their child correctly, and no parent ever feels like they are doing the right thing. With no clear distinction between good and bad parenting, it is usually left to personal preferences and judgements to decide which parents have adequately raised their children and which have failed. When a parent so call “fails,” often it is the children with their strong will and determination to survive that collectively raise themselves. In Jesmyn Ward’s Sing, Unburied, Sing, Leonie, one of the narrators and the mother of another narrator, Jojo, is not the most caring, hands-on mother, but is loving of her children nevertheless.
The author of A Thousand Splendid Suns demonstrates the significance of motherly love through Nana, Laila, and Mariam. The novel gives the reader a better insight of how passionate a mother’s love for her children can be, and how far she may go for the love of her
It's hard sometimes to understand the struggle that other people deal with when they lose a parent. In the novella Leaving Gilead by Pat Carr, Saranell Birdsong, a little girl, and her parents are going through the difficult time of living during the civil war. While Ian, her father, is away at war, she is left at home with her mother, Geneva, who stays confined to her room and becomes very sick. The Birdsong family lives on a plantation and have several servants who become some of Saranell's closest friends. It's better to lose a parent thru death then thru emotional abandonment.
Not only is her Mom leaving but also her having to leave their new town to stay with Grandma being misinterpreted. The decision making mother make the choice to better the family’s live not to selfishly leave for Costa Rica. However, the daughter misunderstands her intentions causing the