1. My baby started walking and talking earlier than other babies. I know he will grow up to be a smart adolescent. I do not agree with this statement because children reach different milestone at their own pace. That means a child can start walking and talking earlier than other babies that does not mean she or he will be a smart adolescent. One of the important things that parents should know is that each child is an individual and may meet developmental milestone earlier or later than his peer. Then we know there is a period of time that most children will meet a milestone. For example, a child will learn to walk anytime between 9 and 15 months of age. I think that any child who reach his milestone in the normal time frame, will have the …show more content…
That means at this age babies have no self -control. It is very important for parents and caregivers to help babies to gain self-control by paying attention to them and pick them up when there are crying. Also, we need to show them that they can rely to us when they comfort and security. That will help them to become more secure and more independent as they become older. 3. I think that, in order to raise a well-disciplined child, I will have to use physical discipline. People who say spanking obviously don't know how to deal with children. I do not believe that to raise a well-discipline child you need to use physical discipline. I thing that one of the most basic ways we can raise your children is simply by being a good role model for them. As Karen Stephens (2007) said parent play a major role in how children turn out. Parent should try to use teaching method to help children to development a sense of responsibility. Also, parent should have more than one strategies to raise a child. The way you respond to a child’s manipulation as a baby sets the tone of the rest of the life together. In my opinion, parents should try to avoid spanking because those children are going to do the same thing on their siblings, their classmate or their friends. Those children who discipline with physical are more likely to become more aggressive and
Even younger kids can accomplish something, for example, learning how to ride a bike or being able to say their ABC's by
Corporal punishment has been talked about for many years if parents should or shouldn’t beat their kids. Many view that beating their kids, if other ways aren’t working, is a way to bring to their attention that the parent means business. Many studies have been taken opposing the use of corporal punishment but as today’s disrespectful children may need a few spanking to put them back on track. In an article called “8 Reasons to Spank your Kid” by LaShaun. Nicole Williams she gives 8 reasons why spanking your children is a good thing.
"Study Links Spanking Kids To Aggression, Language Problems." The Huffington Post. TheHuffingtonPost.com, n.d. Web. 12 Oct.
Imagine walking into any place, formal or not, and the first scene you take in is a misbehaving child, too many people the first reaction is to take that child to the restroom or anywhere private and spanking its bottom. Parents have always used spanking as a type of parenting so that a child will learn a lesson that was they are doing is improper. Spanking should be continued as a form of parenting so that children learn to respect and how to behave in public places, it teaches the child that what they are doing could potentially cause them harm, and parents have an authority role. Spanking should be continued as a form of parenting so that children learn to respect and how to behave in public places, so often, children think that they can just run any show with the perfect meltdown in front of just the right person. When a child does this, they should not be rewarded with whatever they want, they need to be popped on the bottom and reminded that doing that is in no way proper and the cuteness of will only get them so far in life before others get tired of it.
They often plead that corporal punishment can show dominance, correct behavior, and that all children are different. Corporal punishment does display an aggressive form of dominance: but on the other hand, a child may revert to bullying other children to display dominance and also have high aggression levels and low patience. Similarly, physical discipline has never been scientifically proven to correct bad behavior long-term. Corporal punishment may fix an issue short-term, but eventually the child will do it again and spanking or hitting them will not fix the issue, rather they must address the issue in a calm manner and discuss with a child why what they have done is wrong. Given, all children are unique and react differently to a variety of different forms of discipline: corporally punishing a child has never been useful and a multitude of tests have been done on different children.
Babies and toddlers grow and develop at their own pace. One child might start to walk were as another child that is the same ago is perfectly content with just crawling at the moment. In most cases not achieving milestones at the exact same time is not a reason for concern, as long as the child is hitting those important milestones within the allowed amount of time. For example if the child is 11 months old and has yet to start walking without the assistance of something it is perfectly normal as long as by 15 months they are attempting to walk without help. (Dept. of Health State of Florida, 2004)
The subject of spanking a child is and has been discussed and researched by many. This form of punishment or redirecting a bad behavior has been used probably since the beginning of time. Does spanking always work? I think that most of the time it will but some kids are BAD. When I was a child I got spanked but not often (because I was a good child) and when I did it was after my mother had lost her patients with me.
An analysis of eighty-eight corporal punishment research studies of over six decades showed that corporal punishment of children was associated with negative outcomes, including increased delinquent and antisocial behavior, increased risk of child abuse and spousal abuse, increased risk of child anger and adult aggression, decreased child mental health and decreased adult mental health. It has also been shown that corporal punishment has an adverse effect on a child’s cognitive development.
The American academy of pediatrics goes into looking at the long term effects of spanking. Spanking is only the beginning of the different variations of corporal punishment discipline.a long term effect is the fact that it does make them a more aggressive parent, spouse, partner,etc. . Some positive and less harmful way of disciplining a child is to practice timeout. Being able to achieve a child 's maximum potential through parent affection and expectations is an appropriate manner.
Natural Child states “children who were spanked are more likely to become violent when something does not go their way.” As most people know, children will not get everything they want in their life. If they become violent when something does not go their way, not only is it harmful to others, it is also harmful to the violent children. The violent children can get in trouble from teachers or caretakers, and this violence could even disrupt their everyday life, such as their education. According to Natural Child, “if a child is spanked, they begin to believe that violence is normal.”
A parent should remain in control when spanking their child, and it should never be used as a way to vent out their anger towards a child. The
If you spank your child they have a better outcome later in life. “Those who were physically disciplined performed better than those who weren’t in a whole series of categories, including school grades, an optimistic outlook on life, the willingness to perform volunteer work, and the ambition to attend college...” (Kettle). Children who are shown what it right from wrong at a young age have more ambition, and want to do better in life. When your child is never disciplined, the child becomes rude, and has no respect for you.
An additional of 8.5% had been hit with a hard object by their parents. However, a lot of parents claimed that their actions are a form of discipline to make their children behave well. But, there is a big difference between teaching and abusing. In fact, to discipline a child is to teach them right from wrong, not to put them living in
I believe that children should be taught responsibilities for their actions, and that nothing should just be passed over or turned a blind eye on. Facts, data, expert opinion: a) Discipline is proven to strengthen relationships with children and their parents and create an environment that promotes respect of the family dynamic, the house rules and expectations. (Sarah Smenyak, ‘The Difference between Discipline and Child Abuse’ livestrong.com, May
Some scientists suggest that physical punishment should be used until age two, others disagree and claim that should not be used at any age. As the lecturer states, discipline means teaching while the punishment means harm. Consequently, parents should use mainly management techniques for teaching. As reinforcement can be much useful and effective, then waiting till the child do something wrong and punish him