Why Is Life So Hard?
Is life hard? Yes it is not easy to live. May be we live to please others. That is how it becomes difficult and is hard on us. Is there a pattern to live which makes it smooth on you? There is no onen way that assures peace in life. Every life is different, circumstances are different, reactions are different. So there is no set pattern to be at peace.
Have ever wondered why the life is so hard? Why is life unfair? We all feel the hardship is only on us. We feel everyone else is happy and comfortable.
Why me? What have i done? No answer/ the astrologer tells you your imagined misdeeds in the previous life or some Vaasthu mistakes in your house and sets you on fire after making a nice buck! We wear the mantle of victimhood
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1. Arrogance,
Take an honest look at yourself. Think about your attitudes. We simply persist on a particular path when life is telling us to go another way. Are you being stubborn? No one likes to be told they are arrogant. Trying to swim against the current is difficult. But it is the dead fish that go with the flow. It is bound to make the life rocky.
If you are wrong do you admit ? Are you open to change the course on the way or midway? Can you recognise the source of trouble or does your stubbornness and ego prevent you. This is arrogance, plain and simple. Often difficulties are simply life’s way of telling you that you need to change. Your life would be so much easier and enjoyable if you’d just listen to what it is trying to tell you. Humble yourself and listen.
Inexperience
Life has to be lived forwards. The Past is called the experiences. The act of living forward is so varied and unpredictable. Life can sometimes seem much harder. You may be facing things you haven’t had to deal with before and that you lack preparation to handle. This can certainly make life seem laborious and painful. Just because you lack experience doesn’t mean that you have to wallow in it. Take the bull by the horns and get some help to ease the trouble you are facing. Things will smooth out once you do. The past experiences need not repeat and many times they don’t. It is altogether a new issue to be dealt as it
A hardship is a challenge ar difficulty in life for you to overcome therefore,hardship can influence a person’s life because those who persevere overcome the hardship. In the book Hero street USA, Tony lived in a box car with no running water and electricity because they lived in poverty. Tony went to school everyday and didn’t let the difficulty of his life affect him he persevered through his childhood and joined the army where he served his country and made money. He eventually saved enough money to buy his family a house with running water and electricity.
Lamya Jackson Howell Honors English/ 1st period 30 October 2015 Theme Analysis for A Long Way Gone and Sold People all over the world are faced with hardships. Sometimes the misery can be difficult to overcome. Sold by Patricia McCormick and A Long Way Gone , a memoir by Ishmael Beah depicts children trying to cope with the challenges that arrived in their lives’. Lakshmi, the main character in Sold, has been sold into prostitution to help her family make money. Ishmael, a teenage boy, lives in a village where was surrounds him and eventually gets inducted to fight in the war.
Hardship. Distressing. Trouble. All those are words that describe Adversity. Overcoming adversity is essential for us to live.
If no one is willing to face the obstacles in life then they won't be able to enjoy it
Everyone in life, has faced many difficulties, it's a part of growing up. Many people however, do not have the same issues to overcome. A superb example, would be a man named Dave Pelzer. He has gone through the most brutal childhood ever imagined. He had, of course, overcome this difficult obstacle and he became very fulfilled with his life.
Take some time to think about the world around us. Everywhere a person looks, they see trial and tribulation throughout each individual person. Some take their hardship in life with ease and pride, while others continually blame the circumstances and conditions around us. In Malcolm Gladwell’s novel, David and Goliath, he begins to show that situations have nothing to do with our advantages and strength in life. If we want to have a better turn of events, we need to be the ones to make them, and not let others or our environment be the ones to decide what is going to happen.
Since even in the desert of calamities there is an oasis of hope. So nothing happens in vain, in life each occurrence is meant to happen for a reason. While the best thing we could do is to accept what has happened, then just let go of it. Khalil Gibran puts it well by saying, 'Your pain is the breaking of the shell that encloses your understanding.'
But in the other hand in my case, I have to keep working hard for what I want the most and it’s become a legal citizen. In conclusion, everyone has their own hardships but working hard and not giving up in a future would be worth it, like Frederick Douglass that worked so hard until he accomplished his
After the obstacles he has overcame Walt Disney once said “All the adversity I’ve had in my life, all my troubles and obstacles, have strengthened me… You may not realize when it happens, but a kick in the teeth may be the best thing in the world for you.” Everyone has a time in there life where they need to get passed something that is in there way. When this time or times come everyone would find a way to get through it, whether it is asking for help or doing it on their own. When someone says the word adversity one would say you have to be hard working, determined, and strong would pop into their mind.
Are you better off facing numerous difficulties or being
The short story called “Life Isn’t Fair - Deal With It” written by Mike Myatt, is about his own opinion on why life isn’t fair, what the term “fair” is and if life itself should be fair or not be fair. Mike explained that the term “Fairness” is a individual idea and is not a natural characteristic of life. So, in this argument, Mike has told us about why everyone thinks the way they do when it comes to fairness. Some people have their own decisions and it is largely based on the decisions they congregate, and the attitude that they start to take. Some of these decisions that are being made by the people come with terrible and ghastly outcomes.
Hardships are: tests that show your worth. They are occasions to show who you truly are. You are either a person who succeeds in the attempt or fails. In life with no struggles there's no gain because we learn from our struggles.
“The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe. If you try it, you will be lonely often, and sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself.” Throughout his career, famed German philosopher Friedrich Nietzsche criticized conformity; he viewed it as the regression of human society. It is not necessarily a negative trait, but like any dangerous virus, it remains dormant until a sickness exposes the host.
When difficulty occurs, I am more likely to form the judgment on myself. Always ask me a host of questions of “why”. The latest example of my life challenge is when my father last entered the hospital, he suffered a lot of the unbearable pain and I could not do anything for him. I could only stay with him near the bedside. Every night, I could barely sleep.
The reason for this is that ‘wrong’ is like pain, alerting the individual to the need for intervention or correction. Like pain, being ‘wrong’ indicates a necessity for an appropriate ‘cure’. Learning is the continuum of two poles, which Piaget (18) and other child experts have pointed out, is often related to a transition from concrete to abstract thinking and proceeds through trial - and - error method, rather than through a child instantly knowing what is ‘right’. The child, who developmentally, has not learned how to look at a problem from various viewpoints, is unlikely to have ready useful referents internalised in his mental schema to make him ready for instant ‘right’ comprehension; a comprehension based very often on teacher expectations,