Many students that go away to college have to live on campus that first year. I so happen got lucky and was able to live at home with my parents. I thought that it would be easier to live on my own though with some friends, so I decided to move out and give it a try. This happens to have its ups and downs in both living at home and out on my own with a friend. Living at home with my parents was not always the easiest for me. My parents were always stern on me. My curfew on weeknights would be 10:00 pm and on weekends it was no later than 12:00 am. My parents always called me maybe at the least of six times if I was out with a friend at the movies or somewhere. I would always have to have my phone by my side if I went out somewhere. Having …show more content…
I never worked so much when I lived with my parents. I would maybe work 4 days and I could still make some plans to go out with my friends or my boyfriend as well. My family always has dinner on Sunday evenings, so I could always go to the dinner with them. We would always tell stories and just talk about what kind of previous we had. I determined during the summer that I wanted to take a new step in my life because I could not live with my overly strict parents. So my friend and I got our own place and moved out on our own into the world. At first, all that freedom I had was overwhelming. My first night in my own place was so unrealistic to me. I never had anyone calling me every hour checking on me and seeing when I was going to be home. My parents called me maybe once or twice a day, it would be during the day and sometimes at night. Having all of that freedom was more than I bargained for. Everything financially drastically changed for me. I had much more than just a few bills to pay. I suddenly had to pay rent, water, electricity or I would be kicked out of my own home. I never had money that I could use to go out with. I was constantly saving it for my upcoming bills. The bills that we did have were separated weekly which was much harder on me. This was hard for me because I got paid weekly so all of my check would go to one
One notable example of this would be when I got my Florida driver's license. Driver's licenses in Florida and many other states require a physical driving test but before that stage, you need to pass a written test. This written test proves the driver knows the laws of the road and has the intelligence to read and understand the text. The ability to drive me around to work, friends' houses, or events gave me a sense of freedom as I was no longer restricted to only my house, and I could explore what my community had to offer. Fredrick Douglass found a form of freedom too, but it was more physical as he was trapped and forced to work for a master.
I have wanted to live on my own a thousand different times, but then I sit and think, how am I going to pay for everything or more importantly were am I going to go. I didn’t have the money to go and run off and think I could be ok by myself. Another time is when my mom and I would get in fights and I would go to my dad’s for awhile. But I couldn’t stay at my dad’s that long because I have to sleep on the couch when I am there because the house only has two bedrooms. My dad takes one room and my younger brother takes the other.
If you were younger, you were more likely to stay with your family, but I wasn't one of the lucky ones. I was all on my own, assigned a barracks to sleep in. It looked more like a shack held together with dirt and wood than a functional building, but it was now my home. There was a thick layer of dust covering my “home”, but no broom to sweep it up with. I laid my clothes out in the shape of a bed for some cushion
Growing up was a nightmare. Reason being, my parents divorced when I was in the fourth grade and I had to live with whoever would have me. I was shuffled from Aunt to Aunt until I graduated high school.
Moving away for college had always been a dream for me. However, my parents were not keen to that dream. I am a first generation college student, and the youngest in my family. Moving away for college was possibly one of my parents’ worst nightmare.
I hope this letter finds you well. It has been a while since I have last heard from you. Mom and I miss you here in the home front and we are waiting for the day the war finally ends and you get to come home. While thinking about how hard you and the other soldiers are fighting for us and our country, we wanted to find things we can do on the home front to make things better for when you all return. I know it must be extremely difficult in the war front, but I want you to know that all of us here are doing everything we can to help our nation win the war and bring our troops home.
Life gets tough at times and it did for me as well. I remember I was 10 when we decided to move to America. We moved in with my Uncle and we were extremely grateful to him for giving us space in his house to stay. My parents stayed in one room while me and my siblings stayed in another room. Since my uncle lived alone, he didn 't have enough mattresses for all of us so my siblings and I would use comforters to sleep on.
I lived with my mom, dad, and my younger brother in a house on eight acres by the more rural part of town. I never imagined that one day we would never be together again. I used to hear my parents argue after dusk. At the time, I did not think anything about their disputes. I thought that most parents disagreed like that
Have you ever moved houses? What about cities? Or states? Moving for many people is normal and doesn 't affect them whether they move to a different neighborhood or to a city far away. Some enjoy experiencing new places and new people, basically starting a new life.
The house had been bought and we had to move quickly. My dad left to Mexico during the summer we were bored our a minds. All we had to do is stay home and sometimes go somewhere. We were never finacally bad it´s just that my mom and dad wanted to find the perfect house for us. Where we didn´t have to move anymore.
I just want to start this off by saying I ran away from home at age 15. I guess I just got tired of rules and the situation my mother was in with her boyfriends but that would be a whole other essay if I went into that. Anyways, me running away was the first mistake I made to lead me down a dark path. In which at the end would motivate me to live for God and to be the best man I can be.
I ended up having to stay with my mother the whole summer. Getting to know new people, surrounding myself with positive people, even was willing to go to a new school to start a new life, a good like with positive vibes. But in the midst of everything I got scared, scared to start my whole life over. Yes, i was only in tenth grade I had two other years left in high school, did I really want to start over? To answer your question, the answer was no.
Frightened. Nervous. Scared. Upset. The words which filled my head when my parents gave me the news that our family was moving.
I feel that this class has changed my whole perception of what family work is, the importance of not getting caught up in the content and focussing on the process of identifying strengths that the family has which can be used to perpetuate ongoing homeostasis. This course also highlighted for me how much more I still need to learn about supporting the family system. I have been working with families for about 10 years, mostly with supporting positive parenting and also with families who have children and youth experiencing mental health concerns. I feel that my process orientated interactions have been effective for my gathering of information but not necessarily helpful for the long-term healthy coping of the family. By watching you, listening to your teachings and participating and observing role plays I feel that these experiences have led to not only practical knowledge but a new perspective of the importance of stepping back and trying to walk in the client’s shoes.
My parents always stressed how we should do our best and have to work for the things we want. Growing up I learned this doesn’t come easy. As everything college is upon us I have reflected on these principles and pondered how I will come up with the money for my college education. The clear cut answer is scholarships. You will see in this essay that I am a worthy candidate for this scholarship.