For one to make it through a hard life, he or she needs to be strong and resilient. For people who peruse the American dream, however, realize that is not so much a bed of roses as it is thought when you are not yet in America. Bibinaz got to experience the worst and later on the good side of being a foreigner in the US. This is probably what the best explanation of what happened to Bibinaz after moving to America with her family. Being a girl, the author of the story “My Escape to Iran” had no choice but to brave the elements and make do with what life threw her way. What fueled her need to move on despite the ever-deteriorating circumstances she went through? It is through her strength and responsible nature that the young girl manages to move past the meanderings of life to who she is today. It is said that one’s character is defined by how they handle and emerge from difficult situations in life (Leavy 23). Bibinaz’s life was not like that of any other child. Growing up in a Muslim family that did not seem to work out, she felt like she had the responsibility to take care of her family and keep it together. Bibinaz was strong because she was able to make it through all difficulties. In as much as was concerned for her family, she was young and needed her …show more content…
In as much as she never agreed with the mother, she felt a connection relating her mother strength to her own. More so, though she was in pain, she was strong enough to acknowledge that she needed her parents. “My father was right: My mother was strong enough to leave. And maybe my mother was right about me. I was cruel like my dad. How else could I have left them? How else could I have let things get this far?” (Bibinaz 1). What this excerpt ascertains is that she was determined to make right all her
During her walk she hears footsteps behind her. She knows that it is not someone she knows but whispers, “Mom,” just incase. During all of this she reminds herself of what her mother would think. She thinks to herself, “These were all things mother would have said showed a lack of thought.” Then
Although one can see how Beah’s hope falters and is challenged, it prevails and carries him through his ordeal as a child surviving the war. Memories aid him in his fight for survival. Beah is able to keep himself going with memories of his life, while running from RUF. His father's saying, "If you are alive, there is hope for a better day and something good to happen. If there is nothing good left in the destiny of a person, he or she will die,” is one of the best demonstrations of hope in the novel.
Many close relatives and friends would say she has faced many hardships on her path. These hardships taught her to become even stronger and resilient than she was before. Furthermore, these
By her explaining what it is like for them living it paints a picture into their lives so you can get a better idea of how bad it actually is. When you can see this it is easier to make an emotional attachment to the story and those in the story. Nobody likes stress or exhaustion, she pulls in a lot of the audiences’ emotional attachment with this next quote, “But for me it’s a crash course in exhaustion management.” (Ehreneich, 137) After Barbara has to pick up a second job to make ends meet she struggles making it mentally and physically with how tired she is. This can create a lot of emotional attachment to those who have been in her position before or are currently in her position.
When she was young, she could not process the way her father raised and treated her, so she believed everything he said. When she is able to understand, her tone changes and becomes clinical and critical remembering the way he constantly let her
The reality of the situation was that she had no control over her father’s death. There was nothing or no way that she could have prevented the events that took place. Although she was extremely angry with the situation at hand she learned that she had other things to be grateful for. She wanted people to know that even though something or someone has passed away you can’t stay stuck in the state of depression forever. You have to step back and look at your life because the reality is, life still moves on.
Jeannette Walls depicted an epoch of misfortune and adversity in her memoir, The Glass Castle. Jeannette and her 3 other siblings were all in a constant struggle to survive. Rex and Mary, the parents of Jeannette and her 3 siblings, were often in a constant dichotomy between submitting to self-interest and supporting the family. Having misfit parents, Jeannette and her 3 siblings were often independent and left to fend for themselves and for the family as a whole. In The Glass Castle, Jeannette Walls evolved the theme of ideal versus reality throughout her memoir though her countless anecdotes of her father and his unattainable plans to find gold and to build a home, named The Glass Castle, for his family and her mother’s dream to become a professional and well redound artist.
We see this when at the very start of the novel, they are playing soccer when the ball goes missing. Bibi goes to find it and she finds it under a tank, then she yells "you squishy lump of camel snot","give us out ball back!" This shows us that she is an important character in the novel because she isn't afraid of many things and shows how she says what she wants. Brave also means sticking up for people that you love and care about. It also means that sometimes you have to put yourself in danger to save people but it isn't guaranteed that you will survive but at least the people you love are
Bjorge then said she had a surge of energy. She then dragged her grandmother into her grandfather’s bedroom. She was duct taped.” Brucz explained to the court “She had basically had enough of her grandparents.”
She watched her mother die slowly and she watched her dad struggle to take care of her. As a young kid or even as an adult watching the person who is supposed to raise you and teach about love, and everything you need to know in life will greatly affect what type of person you turn into. One of the most heartbreaking things you can go through as a child is watching your mother slowly die and then watching your father struggle to take care of her and provide for the family. Ida went through a lot, her mom was sick and then her mom’s sister Clara came to help out and caused a lot of drama in the family. All the fighting put a lot of stress on young Ida, “Mama charged Clara with sneaking into the house like an enemy, charger that she had always covered papa, berated her for taking advantage of illness to have her way” (283).
While reading the story, you can tell in the narrators’ tone that she feels rejected and excluded. She is not happy and I’m sure, just like her family, she wonders “why her?” She is rejected and never accepted for who she really is. She is different. She’s not like anyone else
Shocked by this information, Marji became increasingly troubled by the morals of Islam. To escape imminent religious persecution, Marji was sent by herself to Austria where she fell further away from her faith experiencing the sexual revolution, drugs, and alcohol. She defied the religion she was one close to, was manipulated by loved ones, experienced failing health and self esteem, and an overall loss of pride in her culture. These events ultimately led to Marji’s acceptance of defeat and her return to Iran along with the
Bibi and Bobinot too are happy with their situation. The two of them get trapped at Friedheimer’s store when the storm derives. They make is home safe after the storm comes to a rest. At home, Calixta greets them, and she is very grateful that they have returned unharmed. Bobinot is confused from the joy and happiness that his wife is expressing because he assumes that Calixta is going to be upset with him.
Jeanne Bouviers childhood was taken away. Before she moved from her little village, she had a childhood. A fun childhood. According to Bouviers, “living in the house where i had spent my childhood, then the departure from our little village, and the arrival in this one, so
She then struggled to leave her boyfriend because of fear of him. The struggle I went through as a child has given me the desire to be more. My past has given me the hunger to fight for my future and the focus to succeed. My childhood was a fight. I have memories of carrying buckets of water for my