But I never thought of breaking my friendship with any of these top students even after facing such small cruelties. We are all still friends! All I wanted to do was to improve myself and be someone like them. An intelligent, perfectionist and a winner! And let me tell you once I set my mind to anything I most certainly can get it done. Today I rarely find a well read or a well turned out person than myself. And I am proud of it because I worked very hard to be this person. And if I do find an accomplished, well read, articulate, and master of his / her field who remind me of my mom, dad or grandmother in anyway, I still get transformed into this ‘fan person’. So you can safely say I still think of myself as a loser! I had to work really hard …show more content…
But I think it is better to be of average success in all scenarios of life than to top a field say professional and fail at life itself. But till the end I am going to try to top in all aspects of my life professional, personal and …show more content…
Started receiving small wins third in a drawing competition, consolation prize in elocution etc. But slowly my confidence rose. If I did not win it did not matter but I started giving everything my 200%. Especially because I loved practicing with my mom. She had so much to do but I would follow her around from her chore to chore, reciting or reading aloud. I won many accolades in my school as I progressed drawing, elocution, debates, sports anything and everything. By the 8th standardard I had established myself as an all-rounder. Very popular, captain of my sports team, I have also won many prizes for my school in interschool competitions which really made me very popular and sought out. But nothing stellar academically was still happening. But I had developed this belief by then. I knew nothing was as hard it looks, it only needed persistent practice. In my final years I was head girl of my school! I think common things between all people who consider themselves as loser is that they are extra sensitive and emotionally delicate. Small nothings seem like big defeats or failures to them. It breaks there heart completely. If anyone can get over failure they can be successful. Success is not final, failure is not fatal or forever. It is the courage to continue that
Young quotes Donald L. Nathanson, author of the book Shame and Pride, when he says, “If you’re calling someone that [a loser], the person must live in a perpetual state of shame. The only way he can live with himself is to have massive denial, disavowal of his real identity. He has to make his way in the world somehow, and he can’t walk around constantly thinking of himself as a loser. Yet if someone in our eyes is a loser and he refuses to admit it, this is narcissism. He has an identity that can’t be sustained by consensual validation” (7).
Failure is an opportunity for some to improve and build upon themselves so they have a better chance to succeed in the future. My junior year at Western Branch was an exciting one with a lot of surprises and disappointments. That year my track team came close to winning the state championship, but with a lot bad performances by the team, myself included, we were not able to overcome the competition. It was an even greater blow when the girls’ side of the team won, despite the boys’ team having more naturally talented athletes. The work that we put in during the summer, fall, and winter felt like it was for nothing more than to lose some weight and get in shape.
I have chosen to take any negative experiences as future motivation to succeed. This has helped me to better appreciate not only the joy of winning, but also the hard work and devotion that goes into it. By doing this I am able to make more confident choices, accept the ideas of others, and inspire my peers to see the important opportunities that coincide with "failure" as well. Every day we are affected by actions, both our own and by those of others. It is how a person chooses to react to these actions (whether they are considered to be a success or failure) that reveals and shapes true
Why is it that the people who care the most about you hate to see you fail? Do they feel your pain? Even though they may not physically feel what you are going through they do understand that failure is rough. They know how much it hurts to accept a loss and they understand just how bad it aches because everyone feels the all too real sting of failure.
The experience alone rather becomes an opportunity for you to grow. I LET IT GO! – learn letting go of failures. At most, this final step is the most important since it enables yourself releasing all the negative energies you have had from your failure. Focus upon the positives or the lessons, and move on forward,
At this time of year, I begin to look back at my life after 12 hard years of schooling. Throughout the course of my life, there have been many ups and downs, but these up and downs is what made me who I am today. These influences have shaped my values, attitudes and beliefs towards life. There have been many important people and events that has impacted my life. One of which is family and the media.
Lani: I was helping for someone’s project for COMM 245; I was in the video lab, in the studio. I was on campus and decided to contact everyone I knew who comes to the school. I remember I sent out a snap saying guys I think there is a shooting, be careful and then I started sending out individual texts to people making sure they were okay, like hey are you good? Stay out of an area.
Failure Failure has always been a part of my life. As a child, I fell short of minor goals such as riding a bicycle, doing a pull-up, or beating a difficult level on Super Mario Bros. Although these set backs were small, I constantly kepy trying untill I could accomplish the task at hand. In fact, I would say one of my most euphoric moments in my child hood was when I learned how to ride a bike. As I got older, failure got tougher.
Failure is the not the end but it is a process of learning and getting success if you don’t giving up. I remember back in Nepal when my siblings and friends passed their classes but I did not. I felt gloomy because I was the only one who failed. I was crying but my dad did not want me to cry for what I could not do because he wanted me to move forward to achieve success.
Steven Spielberg was rejected from film school three times, Walt Disney was told he “lacked imagination and had no good ideas” and, Vincent Van Gogh sold a single piece of art in his lifetime. As far as I know, they were anything but failures. Their “failure” was the epitome of what their legacy became. Even though these stories are true, failure is still a hard thing for many people to embrace with joy — I do not think I blame them. Failure is hard, whether it is a bad grade, not getting into your dream college, or from my personal experience; not getting the job I spent weeks anticipating and preparing for.
Failing can teach them to not be so focused on winning and just have fun. Due to a lot of people winning a lot they might not take a loss so well. That’s why failing can teach you a lesson
The lessons we take from failure can be fundamental to later success. I say this because I 've experienced it myself. About 3 years ago I wanted to play the guitar. I went to my mom and asked her if she could buy me one because I really wanted to play. The next morning my mom went to the store and got me a guitar.
I carry the burning pain of failure with me wherever I go as a constant reminder that I have learned these lessons for a reason. When I was younger and failure punched me the world was over, I could not get back up, I could not handle it, but now I have learned to shake the dust off and look for the future because it is very bright. Failure is fundamental to later success and the lessons we learn help us mold ourselves into someone who is ready to take it
A sense of accomplishment is invaluable to a person. Not only does a sense of accomplishment build confidence and faith in oneself, but it also allows one to reflect on how wonderful the journey to the accomplishment was, and how every little struggle and triumph was worth it. In the middle of summer, where time seems endless and the stress of the previous school year has been shed by students, I never expected to find out that I scored a five on both of the advanced placement exams I took. Nor did I have one-hundred percent confidence the goals we set as section leaders of the marching band would actually be met. Yet to my surprise, I had the good fortune of accomplishing challenging things in both aspects of my life.
‘Who am I?’ , ‘What do I want to do in my life’ are questions asked to me many times throughout my life- by my parents, my teachers and my friends. Every time they ask this kind of questions, I always give them, the exact same response or something along the lines of- ‘I don’t know’. One thing I realized after losing 2 of my best friends is that I am someone that needs companionships and It was the 5th grade where I fell in love with football.