Growing up I was the only student of Indian descent in my grade level until the 8th grade. It was due to this I was viciously bullied and assaulted growing up. The bullying negatively mentally and emotionally affected me and it was due to this bullying I had fallen into a bad group of "friends" during my sophomore year. These "friends" kept the bullies at bay and I started to accept them. One day they had convinced and pressured me to shoplift, or face being hurt, two packs of cards, which I unwisely did because I did not want to return to being bullied and feared being hurt. I was fortunately caught and given two class C misdemeanors for the incident. This incident allowed me to look at the past and come to the decision that what happened to me in the past should not impact me, especially negatively because in order to be successful I had to keep my head up high …show more content…
This event gave me a lot of time and thought to reinvent myself as a better person academically, mentally and socially. Before I was so socially anxious people standing next to me could barely hear my voice, but now that I follow my mantra if keeping my head up high I am more confident and definitely make better choices. The incident was fortunately the only incident and let me turn into a much better version of myself. Before, it was me that needed help but now I help others stay away from the mistakes I made so that they do not repeat those mistakes and I have even managed to improve myself enough to be able to take part in activities I could have never even thought about taking part in before the incident, being the Vice President of our school 's chapter of HOSA, being an active part of the STEM Senate at school and even becoming a model volunteer at multitudinous
Going against another close friend of mine would be awkward with no proof. Then, seeing the horrible texts the bully sent, I trusted what she said. The victim told me that she had told people before me when it first happened, but they stayed indifferent. I realize now that my choices of not being indifferent made a change. I saved someone
I looked different, and was treated differently. I was often bullied for who I was and thought the best way to make it stop, was to fit in. I started wearing similar clothing, walking, talking and acting like the kids around me. I had lost whom I was, was no better assimilated, and was still picked on. I had enough.
Could Maria’s family have died in a car crash? Could it have been her fault and all because an act of pride? In Gary Soto’s “Growing Up”, Maria acts in pride. A prideful person is someone who wants spend time with the family who she loves but won’t because she wants to be older than she is. Someone like Maria.
he Lady with the pet Dog, and Life after High School by Joyce Oates both demonstrate satisfactions and frustrations of romantic relationships and dramatizes unhealthy and healthy forms of love in different ways. The similarities between the two stories is greater than the differences when it comes to romantic love, the unhealthy relationship between characters, and the plot’s structure. Joyce Carol Oates’, The Lady With The Pet Dog and Life After High School, both stories have similarities in their characters. They revolve around three main characters and are told in a third person point of view. Life After High School doesn’t uncover any of the characters true feelings or thoughts, and in The Lady With The Pet Dog, the story is limited omniscient, and uncovers Anna’s emotional isolation, depression and desire to find fulfillment in a relationship with a man.
Through that experience, I felt better. Very rarely am I still bullied, but my blood is not boiling and I feel I have someone who I can talk
High School Graduation The beginning of the Highs School year,was a new experience for me,because of begin alone in the school without knowing nobody, not knowing the language and have zero knowledge of the academic level i need it to have in order to graduate, on the mid senior year of high school,i got a call from the counselor Mr.Calume,he told me that, in order to graduate i need it to pass 4 states exams that can be only due 2 times per year semester,and i was in my last semester of high school,so the chances of me passing those test were low for me. There for, i meet some olds friends from when i was a child from my country (Venezuela) they have move to the same school i me,so they reached me some tips and trick to pass
It severely marred me, but I know in my heart there was nothing else I could have done. It left a hole in my heart but put a few crevices in my brain. I realized that fate is not only the pleasant, attractive, "happily ever after" in fairy tales but also a bitter, unfair, and realistic hurdle in life. The incident took away my innocence and naivety and brought out a more mature, practical side, but I am also more optimistic and emotionally stable. Now that I acknowledge that failure is a natural part of life, I can better respond to it and be more prepared and less hysteric when it hits.
In 10th grade, I co-founded two different clubs at my school, one that I was Vice President of, and one that I have been Treasurer of for 3 years. I am Assistant Director of Student Enrichment in Student Council. I created a Breakfast Program at my school ,where I hand delivered food to 23 students with special needs, and spend time with them during class. I do this for almost every day, and have been injured while doing so. But I healed, and improved at reading signs of aggression.
This event dramatically changed my persona, how I view things and how I view myself as a whole. After this I grew so much anger towards my parents it made me say things to them I wish I could take back, but necessary to get out of my body at the time. I felt like they violated my freedom and human rights by putting me in a situation I wasn 't even asked if I wanted to be part of. I felt betrayed and miserable. I think this event changed how I see myself as well, I see myself really different from what other people see.
I overcome the adversity of being expelled from school by changing my view and attitude towards different situations. The experience gave me the time and opportunity to reevaluate what I wanted out of life and how I was going to get it. During my time at the behavioral school I could have played into the other children’s negative behavior, but I took this as a major sign in my life. I realized if I continued to follow the path of the people around me I would not accomplish my goals. It was a wake up call to myself
High school has impacted my life in so many ways. High School taught me so many things, from personal relationships to creating a relationship with my education. As a freshman, I made a huge amount of mistakes and I regret doing foolish things, but I’ve realized, I was only maturing into the young adult I am today. Freshman year, I was out of focus and I was only trying to find myself. I would also prioritize other things and ignore my parent’s advice, where they would tell me to focus in school and give it my full attention.
It really opened my eyes. The night of the incident I was under the influence of alcohol, which I'd have to admit, I think it contributed to the escalation of the altercation. My mind wasn't in the right place. After realizing what I had done, I was ashamed of myself.
This event changed my life for the better and without going through that tough time I would not have been able to see the light of all situations, in reality and when I
High school grows you into the person you are. I have great memories, good and bad, some learning experiences and some that I’ll take with me the rest of my life. My high school experience has influenced my development as a person inside and outside of the class by making me more independent, choosing friends wisely and teachers motivating me to attend college and accomplish goals I have set for myself. I have gained my independence slowly throughout high school. The importance of being independent is being secure with who you are and what you believe in.
Ultimately I didn’t want others to judge me negatively and decide something I couldn’t remove from their opinions. Being so skeptical of myself during this once and a lifetime chance taught me a lot. The experience enlightened me in a way only something major could’ve. Being so cautious I learned to take more risks and be less aware of others perception of me. Life is too short too always rethink chances you may never get again.