One of Kimmel’s main points in chapter 4 is the M-F test. Which was created in the 1930s, by Terman and Miles. Their main objective was to codify masculinity and femininity into their basic traits, attitudes, and behaviors. The result was that gender identity soon became associated with these perceived masculine or feminine traits. He then goes on to explain the ridiculous scoring method, the questions which to us now, seem to not even point at masculine or feminine traits. Then again I am a more tomboyish girl, so to me they seem arbitrary and insignificant. The test also included possible careers, such as forest ranger, librarian, (I’d like both of these as a career, weird to think how a job can have a perceived masculine or feminine trait- that’s some strange …show more content…
It reminds me of the constant humiliation me and my best friend at the time received because we were tomboys, and weren’t dating like my sisters had. (13-16 years old mind you) It is a constant reminder that I’m not the only person who has gone through this, many other people probably experienced the very same judgement. And this judgement continues till this very day. Just a few weeks ago my Mother told me I need to watch my mouth, because it’s not “ladylike.”
My one question that I kept coming back to is, “is gender really such a big deal?” I’ve never felt like I completely fit into either of the boxes, and I’m okay with that. I don’t need a permanent label either, I’m a female but I’m also just me. Why does my gender have to define who I love, how I dress, or how I speak? I’ve lived my life comfortably, I played Pokémon with my brother, instead of dolls with my sister- and I’ve turned out happy, and healthy. Isn’t that all a parent should care about? (Sorry if I got off topic from the assignment, this one topic has a tendency to get me fired
Also, I Kimmel’s writing, he listed four basic rules on masculinity. The first rule he listed was “No Sissy Stuff,” which means to guys that they shouldn’t reveal their weakness to anyone. The second on the list was “Be a Big Wheel,” which means that masculinity is quantifying between “wealth and power.” The third rule is to “Be a Sturdy Oak,” this says that all guys must be dependable
Facebook Multiplies Genders but Offers Uses the Same Three Tired Pronouns In Facebook Multiplies Genders but Offers Users the Same Three Tired Pronouns is an argumentative essay written by Dennis Baron. According to Dennis Baron , he claim that it is better to simple language then complicate it. This is an effective argument because it discusses the reasons and concerns of people’s reactions when they are gender is not listed. It also shows the cause and effect of the genders being complicated.
Kimmel argues throughout Masculinity as Homophobia” that society is who puts up these guidelines and rules that men have to follow in order to be considered manly. They project what a real man should look, feel, and act like. II. Thesis 2:
She created the Bem Sex-Role Inventory, or BSRI, which measures an individual’s level of masculinity, femininity, and androgyny. Though many people may identify as highly masculine and not highly feminine, or vice-versa, Bem believes a person can also both highly masculine and feminine, which is what she considers androgyny. Furthermore, individuals may also be low in both masculinity and femininity, and Bem considers these people “undifferentiated” (Dea 2016, 81). The BSRI has been used in many studies, for example in a study by Mary Wulff and Jean Steitz uses this test in order to investigate the “psychological androgyny among 40 high school girls from a college preparatory upper-level mathematics class and from a vocational track cosmetology class” (Wulff & Steitz, 1997). The study hypothesized that “the choice of curricular track would correspond to traditional sex-role stereotypes and that there would be a significant difference between the two groups in terms of feminine orientation”
Kimmel has shown this by stating that women are a kind of currency that are used to make a man a real man. Most men’s goals are that they gain acceptance from other men. For example if you wear a hair clip, have a peircing, or don 't like some type of sports it means your feminine. They all try to be ranked as the most masculine of all men.
Parents play a major role in a child’s life. Parents affect how their child behaves and who they become as they grow older. The ideal parent should be an attentive listener, have a positive attitude and love their child unconditionally. Firstly, I think that parents should always listen to their kids no matter what or else they will feel neglected.
As a child we watch our parents and we learn from them. We learn how to cook, how to clean, how to raise children, how to do right from wrong, how to work, how to do things we don't want to, how to be happy, how to have fun, and many more things.
Gender is something that is brought to the attention of people well before people are even brought into the world. Take for instance, when a woman finds out that she is pregnant and is about to have a child. The first question that that women is asked is “What are you having?” In doing this we are automatically emphasizing the importance of being able to identify whether or not to buy “boy” things or “girl” things. As a society we deem it important for each sex to practice a set of “norms” of how to behave via that sex.
According to www.pewresearch.org, about 5% of the US population is transgender or non-binary. This means that this group of people does not follow society’s traditional gender norms of presenting masculine or feminine. (Brown, 2022) Masculinity is defined as the qualities or attributes regarded as characteristics of men or boys whereas femininity is defined as the qualities or attributes regarded as characteristics of women or girls. In the 19th and 20th centuries, scholars noted
The Bem Sex Role Inventory (BSRI; Bem, 1974) has been the focus of numerous studies during the past forty years. There has been widespread interest in the concept of gender role orientation and the potential role of masculinity and femininity in the social and psychological lives of men and women. Moreover, the BSRI was an attempt to measure the concepts of masculinity and femininity as unidimensional and orthogonal constructs. Based on this assumption, the construction of the BSRI included a separate Masculine scale and a separate Feminine scale, which Bem (1974) defined on the basis of college students ratings of the desirability of sixty traits in the American society.
Gender is it a concept or is it made apparent by our DNA when you are born or does it change as you grow older? Often gender is something that society defines at birth. According to society certain gender roles are pre established when we are born. The majority of society believes that if you are born to a specific gender you should adhere to the gender roles while other people believe that instead we may be born to a gender but it does not always decide if you are that gender. Science has proven that just because you are born a male or female does not mean that you mentally see yourself as that gender.
Parents are children’s guardians and they are an essential part of their daily
Understanding gender and sexuality as socially constructed categories is important because it helps people understand a certain group. Gender and sexuality is expressed in many categories and people must be careful not to mix people in the wrong category. Simply because one expresses their sexuality different from another person does not mean they should be bashed or treated differently. Sometimes it does not matter what you identify as, who you identify with, people will always judge you, so its best people just do what they want. Putting gender in a category helps others not stereotype them as something they are not.
Gender is becoming a large word of conflict in society, and its use has increased in the past few years as the definition has been debated and discussed. Many people are trying to figure out what gender is, and if it is as simple as male and female, or if gender is different from sex and a much topic. I personally view it as a broad word that means more than it has in the past, but that is due to the environment I have grown up in and people that have been in my life as I have started learning new things about the world . The word gender has such conflict about its definition that I feel it should be open for more discussion, or have multiple definitions to make up for the variations in opinions.