The Impact Of Bullying

IMPACT FROM BULLYING Nowadays , bullying had became the common issue in this society . Bullying is a repeated violence behavior where one person or a group of people in a position of power deliberately to intimidate , coerces , abuse an individual with the intention to hurt that person physically or verbally(Volk & Dane et al. , 2014).However, the impact of bullying can affect the man’s future life . Impact of bullying can be distributed into three categories that is bully,victim and observers . Bully is a person who involves in bullying victim physically or mentally without considering his feeling . Most of the bullies are come from broken , unhappy families and they often exposed to family bullying . Baldry et al.(2003)claimed

Bullies become cold-blooded and lack sympathy to their victim . They enjoy the process of bullying others , they relish seeing the victims inflicting pain. For example,bully feels excited from seeing a child yelp after he hits and kicks victim down the hallway . Bullies feel better about themselves after treating their peers as dirt ( Retnner , 2010 ) .They have higher risk to become criminals than others after they grows up due to physchopathicc personality . When they grow up , they tend to involve in crime by stealing , cheating , roping , raping and involve in gangs , they become the scum of society . Olweus (1991) reported that 60 percent of bullies tend to have at least one criminal conviction by age 24 as compared to 23 percent of people who do not exposed to bullying(as cited in Department of Education,2003).Besides that , bullies are struggle to develop and maintain effective relationships among each others.Bulliea are having difficulties in finding their real friends in their lives because people is afraid and scared about bully , they pretend to be friend with bully . Bullies feel that being fear is the method to make friends and gain the friend’s respect but they do not know the “friend” is afraid to become their victim (Sharpe

Woda stated that bullying had already damaging her dignity that can support her in her future lives . They feel nervous when other people try to start conversation with them because they afraid to be bullied again by the other when they speaks wrongly about something.For their safeness,they tend to become taciturn and rarely speak to others.They feel shy and afraid to make friends because they think that being bullied is a sin for them . Hazler ( 1996 ) said that the victims of bullying were shy , isolated , insecure and do not communicate with others ( as cited in Totura et al. , 2009 ) . They afraid that his friends will laugh at them and do not willingly to help them by reporting their bullying cases to the police , teachers , authorities and even social media so they decide to conceal their secrets that they have becoming the target of bully . In addition , victims of bullying have low academic performance in school . They are stress and anxiety after being bullied so they have difficuilty in concentration and this wll decrease their ability to focus in his studies in classroom , they always think about how to escape from the vision of bully after school . They also try to avoid to meet with the bully by playing