It was a diverse and strict school with many rules I had follow so I knew I had to make a big adjustment. It was challenging for me to come from a school with nothing but freedom and those I’m used to being around on a daily basis to an environment where they teach and students there learn and actually had an interest to want to. I tried to adjust their but I just couldn’t and found myself not attending school once again.
From this day, I still remember how lonely I felt and how badly I wanted to be accepted. I dreaded to go to recess because I wasn't sure what type of crowd I would “ fit in” with. As I walked in class, I saw everyone divided into various cliques and eventually I found myself every week trying to fit in with a different one. I tried my best to act like those kids in order to fit in, I changed so many things such as my attitude, my clothing, my hairstyles and how I spoke in the span of one year. I was so desperate to feel like I was not alone and had real friends that I basically would’ve done anything for others to like me.
I used to believe that studying and working at the same would bring me professional experiences and substantial benefits for my future and careers. On the other hand, in real situation, since I have started working, I have realized that when the tasks are loaded I could not manage the time properly not just for my work but also my study. On account of these problems, I have no time to review my lesson which will then affect my grade in a negative way. For example, I supposed to review lessons for my upcoming exam which is approaching, yet I could not concentrate well due to the distraction of a project launching on the same date as the exam. This is the worst role conflict I have ever endured with; it brings not just tiring days but also pressure, less self-esteem and sleep
Overall Homework is just something we put on the list of things to do on the weekend, and leaves us stressing out if we will be able to have time to do everything we have to do on the weekends. It leaves us with barely any free time at all, and keeps us away from spending time with our families. Why should you care? Have you ever seen how long your child has stayed up or just been doing homework in general? You probably do not see it or recognize it but they will spend hours doing homework.
Throughout high school , I struggled with academic work . It wouldn't be that I didn't want to do the work ; it was just that it became more difficult for me to remember what I learned and put it to use . But for sports it was a different story , I could remember every single play and execute what I learned with ease . But that was high school now I'm in college and everything is ten times harder . Sometimes I wish the class room were as simple as me being on the field knowing what to do .
At first I started off taking 1 or 2 classes per semester, but outside interference had me gradually upping the classes. Between work, a lack of motivation due to not having any idea of what I wanted out of life carved out, and pressure from family, I found myself not prepared for these classes. This is what you will see as you look up and down my transcript and see W's and WF's. You will see the unachieved goals, the times I thought I was an angel, the times I dreamt of being perfect. At the time of writing this paper I am 23 years old.
After this, I would move behind the desks to the nurse’s office and lay there on the bed for awhile, until I called home and my parents. They usually either said tenderly “oh honey, come on home,” or said very firmly, “you need to stay in school today.” In fifth grade, while playing in the living room with some band like the Pixies playing from my mom’s computer, I asked her, “I want to be homeschooled!” Of course, my mom explained to me why this was both unrealistic, and also very hard.
I knew I had to work fast and I still had to go to work. So I planned on studying on my break. I tried shuffling work with school work and it just was too complicated to balance the two. I would start going over the study guide and then I would have to help a customer.
The Obstacles I face in going to college If you have never been to college or your starting college after years of not going, it can be very difficult to start or continue to go. The most common obstacles that may be keeping me from achieving a degree, Family and work responsibilities, Social Fears and learning disability , Confidence Family and work are two of the biggest thing to deal while going to school. my time has to be managed to handle both of these I spend most of my time in the military away from family, I have a 2 year old grandson that I am raising, its difficult going to school and fined the time to spend with him. It can be very stress full to juggle family and school.
My mother, who also fills the role of trainer, and I began to piece together how to make my goal reality. First, I had to ride much more often that I already did. Instead of riding three to four days a week, I needed to ride five to seven days a week. With school and other commitments prioritized above sports, I knew that running track would not be in the cards if I wanted to improve my riding.
Some children have a tough time already adjusting to a new environment so moving to new place is even more challenging. Although military children have already become accustomed to always relocating, it becomes even harder to transition as they age. Young adolescents at this age will feel sad during this time because they will have to start over at a school and make new friends again. This adjustment isn’t as simple for teenagers especially when they don’t make any new friends. Military children face the obstacle of trying to adapt to a new
If college is supposed to be the next step in our lives, why is it so difficult to handle? We should be able to concentrate more on our work. This is just another example of us being kept down. If we are going to have enough courage to come to college and attempt to learn, they will punish us with cost and make sure we have to work to stay so we can’t do as well as we should.
Anxiety use to be something that l feared. It was like a disease that l felt l had no cure for, and would have to live with for the rest of my life. I constantly felt trapped and scared that at any moment, l would have a panic attack and spiral out of control. It was a scary idea to wake up to every morning, and to fall asleep to every night. My last two college years were not as enjoyable as l wanted it to be, because l kept letting my anxiety get in the way of my life.
Campus Professionalism on campus for the next eight months is truly important to me. The understanding I am going to be on campus a couple times week of my junior and senior semesters. I see this first semester as good practice for the rest of my career. Every morning I get out of my car with a smile on my face and walk with confidence to the classroom. If I am greeted by an instructor in the elevator or passing in the hallway I will say hello, Sir or Ma’am, obviously depending on gender.